some observations:
- despite the overwhelming majority voting "no", most of the notes are people who have fucked a mutual talking and/or bragging about said mutualfucking
- less people have fucked an irl who became a mutual than fucked someone they met on tumblr first, apparently (although i could be wrong because "yes" is pretty ambiguous)
- according to the notes, plenty of people who voted "yes" have fucked multiple mutuals.
- plenty of others are partners with their mutuals. or exes.
- currently "no" is in the lead with 69%. nice.
- shockingly, nobody has posted the kpop celibacy gif
