Abort that Thang

Hi there, I wanted to ask a question regarding child abuse done by mothers in the radfem community. I have been abused by both my father and my mother and I've cut ties with both of them at different times, my mother being the most recent. Therefore, it is sometimes hard for me to relate to other radfems who love their mother(s), who sing songs about their foremothers (my grandmothers weren't great either) and it can feel alienating so I wanted to know if other radfems felt that way?

The poll could look like:

Do you relate to the "I love and celebrate my mother(s)/foremother(s)" kind of posts?

Yes and I've never been abused by my mother(s)

Yes and I've been abused by my mother(s)

No and I've never been abused by my mother(s)

No and I've been abused by my mother(s)

These posts annoy me for other reasons

Don't know how I feel about them/Complicated feelings

Poll doesn't apply to me

Mother(s) here means biological or adoptive mother(s).

Feel free to rephrase stuff, English is not my mother (haha) tongue.

Thanks a lot!

Thanks for the poll <3