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sukideen

Baz Luhrmann - Everybody’s Free (To Wear Sunscreen)

everybody, pause what you’re doing, stop scrolling, sit back for 5 minutes and listen to this;

Ladies and gentlemen of the class of ‘99:  Wear sunscreen.  If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now.  Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they’ve faded. But trust me, in 20 years, you’ll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine.  Don’t worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blind sides you at 4 p.m. on some idle Tuesday.  Do one thing every day that scares you.  Sing.  Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don’t put up with people who are reckless with yours.  Floss.  Don’t waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind. The race is long and, in the end, it’s only with yourself.  Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.  Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements. Stretch.  Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don’t.  Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You’ll miss them when they’re gone.  Maybe you’ll marry, maybe you won’t. Maybe you’ll have children, maybe you won’t. Maybe you’ll divorce at 40, maybe you’ll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don’t congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else’s.  Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don’t be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It’s the greatest instrument you’ll ever own.  Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.  Read the directions, even if you don’t follow them.  Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.  Get to know your parents. You never know when they’ll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They’re your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.  Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.  Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.  Travel.  Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And when you do, you’ll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.  Respect your elders.  Don’t expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you’ll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.  Don’t mess too much with your hair or by the time you’re 40 it will look 85.  Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it’s worth.  But trust me on the sunscreen.

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Admit you were wrong. Apologize. Understand that you’re fallible. You make mistakes. You hurt people. Apologize. That’s growth; understanding you did something wrong and working towards making things right.

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I hope that someday you all become filled with so much happiness that it heals every part of you.

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To the girl who told her she was not beautiful:  I remember the first time I saw her I swear I felt flowers blooming in the darkest parts of me. I see her smile and I swear the up turned corner of her lips creates the most beautiful constellation in my empty sky. You told her she is not beautiful, and tonight I will let my eyes dance upon the beautiful curvature of her face a little longer. I will calm the storm inside her as she tells me she does not like her body. And I will tell her “You are beautiful” as many times as she needs for the words to finally become imprinted in her fragile heart. I will erase all of the ugly words you’ve told her. All of the lies you turned into reality for her. I will tell her that her face alone is love’s truest, and raw form. That her eyes can light even the darkest of days. And that her beauty isn’t only from outside. That her heart plays my favorite melody. And her laughter gives my life so much meaning I didn’t know I was missing. And that her strength inspires me to find strength within myself. Love within myself.  To the girl that told her she was a waste of time: Tonight I will give her some of the minutes life has been blessed to offer me. I will give her these minutes so she can replace the ones she spend wasting her time on such an ugly heart. I will tell her that I may not be able to rewind time, but I will spend my life making our future better. That when I say I miss you, it means I wish I could give you my hand in life, because with you, time doesn’t have the pleasure of existing. When I’m with you, we are together endlessly. And when we are apart, well the world just feels a whole lot smaller. I will tell her that when I say I love her, I mean that I may not be the strongest, most charming prince, but I will fight any dragon that stands in the way of giving her everything her heart deserves. I will move any mountain. Cross any sea. I will sacrifice for her. I will work hard to be worthy of her. I will fight through my exhaustion because she is worth every second.  To the girl who took her for granted: I will be honest with her, and vulnerable. I will tell her how much i appreciate her in my life. I will count my lucky stars to have met someone so deserving of everything you would not give her. I will give her my universe, my ever expanding love. I will let her smiles place stars in my sky. I will let her love create planets perfectly conditioned for life. I will treat her the way she deserves and show her she was so much more than the filth you gave her. I will grow and learn, so I can give her even more than I knew I could give her today. I will not stop fighting for her.  To the girl who let go of this amazing girl: I am glad she realized she deserves better. And I hope your cold heart will one day find warmth. You showed her everything that is wrong in love, and now it is my turn to show her what’s right.

To the girl  (via chrissyisabear)

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I see the beauty in every inch of you and breathe it in like it was my last

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thatadult

sending “I hope you get that job” vibes to the people out here tryna get jobs

reblogging for yall bc the shit worked for me lol

Karma will pop me if I don’t