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@tooiconic / tooiconic.tumblr.com

Thanks for the anon hate. Taken. Don't bother. Late 20s. Bisexual. Recovered From An Eating Disorder. Body positive. Evil Centrist. I know I'm pretty.
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I’m a bisexual Native American and the two spirit identity/pride flag infuriates me because it’s actual cultural appropriation, and historically it was used by Natives to ostracize men and women who didn’t fit into the gender binary or were gay. I do believe it can be reclaimed by lgbt Native Americans because it was literally used against them in a negative way. Anyone who isn’t Native American shouldn’t be touching the term at all because it’s not theirs, and they have so many other terms that describe two spirit- like gender-fluid or non-binary or bi-gender. They MAKE UP these terms then have the nerve to steal ours. That’s a big reason why the black and brown stripe on the rainbow flag is a bunch of nonsense because the lgbt community was never excluding non white races, and adding those stripes implied that the community did at some point. Not just that but it’s current day two spirit by dividing people by race. Am I comfortable with my sexuality and race? Absolutely. But I’m not going to use a ton of different labels just to be put into a small box by myself when I can relate to other people that aren’t like me at all. We’re all in the same community for unity, separating ourselves is really just giving in to what lgbt-phobes want.

Fantastic point(s) made here!

The two spirit thing is so fucking stupid (the way they use it). They have no idea of what the history behind it actually is, they just think it sounds cool.

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So vaguely sports related, but there are different divisions for men and women in chess. The discourse reminded me of it.

Interesting. See, when it comes to MENTAL strength, I don't see why they would have those automatically separated. I haven't seen/heard any evidence that males, or females, have an advantage over something like that. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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You do know that most sports teams absolutely and regularly test their athletes for skill and strength, that's how most teams have the starting lineup and the reserve roster or for individuals, they are categorized for who they challenge. To claim that it would "take too much" to do something they already do regularly comes off as either ignorant or shortsighted.

I meant in terms of males vs females. I'm aware that they already do this for separated teams. I'm saying that overall trying to perfectly size up males vs females based on strength/ability is harder because they tend to be so incredibly different. Sorry if that wasn't clear.

I don't know whom the radfems are trying to fool these days, but don't think we buy your bullshit for one second because apparently you think non white people are that dumb.

You fascist cunts cutting the black and brown stripes off of the Intersectional Pride Flag means you want people of color out of LGBTQ+ as much as you do trans people, which we all know, has been what you've wanted all along.

At this point it'd be less embarrassing for you to stop pretending you're anything other than a neonazi hate group. Hilarious by now that you think you can still convince anyone that you don't believe only white cis people are real people who deserve human rights.

Dumb cunts.

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I'm not a radfem but LGB was originally about sexuality.... Nothing else. Yes, the T was added because being transgender often came with sex/sexuality based discourse/conversation (fair), but adding race into the flag literally makes no sense. Especially for straight people...of any color. They're not a part of this. Not being white isn't the same as being gay..... at all. The LGBT flag already includes people who aren't white anyway. The flag is for ALL LGBT people.

It has always given "I must be included in every single oppression related movement and make it revolve around race instead of what it is SUPPOSED to revolve around.... or I shall call you the BUZZWORDS!!" ... This post being a prime example.

Understanding that LGBT already includes people who aren't white and keeping the conversation on the intended topics, sexuality (and gender), doesn't mean you don't want non white people to have rights and it definitely doesn't make you a NeoNazi. It's like... Literally the opposite.

ive never understood separating sports by men/women. "oh well its bc men are inherently stronger!!1!!1" first, no they arnt lmao. but more importantly, since you care so much about the integrity of sports, separate them by strength then. like separate them by the best, the pretty good, the okay, and the bad or smthn. and geuss what dipshit. they already do that. but instead of doing it well, all it says is men strong woman weak.

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Men are absolutely stronger than women biologically when you directly compare athletes. There will always be the extreme example, the outlier, but 99.9% of the time this will remain a direct fact.

Sports such as boxing and weight lifting already have strength, weight, etc. categories yet males still absolutely DOMINATE when put up against women. It's not about being "good vs bad", it's basic biological knowledge.

Women fought SO. HARD. to be recognized as professional athletes, to be given their own spaces to compete free of male intervention, and they deserve to keep it.

If we want to start offering mixed teams to athletes then fine, whenever; but females absolutely deserve their own spaces when the alternative clearly puts them at a direct disadvantage, even in DANGER, depending on the sport. I think we should all be able to agree on that.

i get what u mean. like men are stronger than women usually, but 1 men are much much much more likely to be doping than women. and 2, i literally said that we shouldnt be putting the strongest men with the weakest women. thats fucked i think we both agree

but my point is that there is a lot of women who are way better than men at sports and arnt recognized bc "oh well theyre competing in the womens league". womens sports are hated on and ignored so fucking much. having all mixed leagues that are separated by actual skill/strength, instead of womens/mens would literally make women athletes more recognized.

forcing women to go through genital inspections or intrusive hormone tests bc they look a little to masc is not only fucking disgusting, but also fuckes over cis women who just have higher testosterone levels.

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I would agree that it's unfair for women to not get the recognition they deserve and inspections like that are horrible.... but I also don't believe making mixed leagues are the solution.

The amount of testing every single athlete would have to do to make sure that they are of equal strength to go against each other (in a male vs female sense) would just be ridiculous, especially in a team setting. Also men have other potential advantages that aren't just muscle mass, such as larger hearts (can pump blood and oxygen faster), that we can't really do direct comparisons for.

I can support offering the option of mixed teams, for those who choose to participate, but overall teams should always have remaining separate options for all the points listed.

I really hate saying this, but I feel like a lot of those bisexual/queer identified women are actually straight and only think they're bi because they view women as sex objects. I've known so many of these types who talk about how hot women are online and objectify them, yet they only date men offline and seem to be uncomfortable actually having sex with another woman. Just what I've noticed

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I would argue that this can stem a lot more from heteronormative views being placed onto a lot of women, rather than just viewing women as objects. This can also interfere with speaking on their sexuality outside the internet and feeling uncomfortable about sex.

I mean I'm sure it happens... I've even met women that fit your example personally. But to say it's a lot of bisexual women who are this way has me disagreeing.

ive never understood separating sports by men/women. "oh well its bc men are inherently stronger!!1!!1" first, no they arnt lmao. but more importantly, since you care so much about the integrity of sports, separate them by strength then. like separate them by the best, the pretty good, the okay, and the bad or smthn. and geuss what dipshit. they already do that. but instead of doing it well, all it says is men strong woman weak.

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Men are absolutely stronger than women biologically when you directly compare athletes. There will always be the extreme example, the outlier, but 99.9% of the time this will remain a direct fact.

Sports such as boxing and weight lifting already have strength, weight, etc. categories yet males still absolutely DOMINATE when put up against women. It's not about being "good vs bad", it's basic biological knowledge.

Women fought SO. HARD. to be recognized as professional athletes, to be given their own spaces to compete free of male intervention, and they deserve to keep it.

If we want to start offering mixed teams to athletes then fine, whenever; but females absolutely deserve their own spaces when the alternative clearly puts them at a direct disadvantage, even in DANGER, depending on the sport. I think we should all be able to agree on that.

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is that tooiconic chick and her 60 year old boyfriend still on this app. I swear to God

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*39 and yes! 😍❤️

You literally could have looked me up and found this information.

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uhhh

iconic indeed

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I'm telling you I was BUSY 😭

Also yes this is exactly how it works so take responsibility.

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I have followed you for years and I didn't even know there was discourse?

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There's always a little here and there. I've been MIA for the past year-ish though.

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is that tooiconic chick and her 60 year old boyfriend still on this app. I swear to God

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*39 and yes! 😍❤️

You literally could have looked me up and found this information.

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uhhh

iconic indeed

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I'm telling you I was BUSY 😭

Also yes this is exactly how it works so take responsibility.

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It is obvious tooiconic is a sideblog of yours, dude. "She" is your gf, a girl that just happens to share your weird opinions and tastes, she is white, so it can appeal to your white bigot e-friends and curiously has been absent for the same amount of time you have been less in tumblr. Curious, huh?

I really hope you're serious

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I never saw this but omg this is literally the best take 😭😂