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i wont give up without a fight
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recovering-meg

It’s okay to let friends go.

Despite what a lot of people think, it’s okay to let friends go.

It’s okay to move onto another section of your life and leave some people behind.

Maybe these people are going down paths that you don’t want to go down, or maybe it’s as simple as what you two had in common is now gone.

Leaving doesn’t make you mean, it doesn’t make you selfish, and it does not mean that you are a horrible person or even a horrible friend.

You may have been an outstanding friend to them under different circumstances. You may even have been their best friend. And that’s okay.

Circumstances change all the time. People change all the time. So why wouldn’t who we associate with change as well?

If you believe that what a person brings into your life is no longer wanted or acceptable then there is no shame in letting go.

You need to put your mental health and your overall needs first.

 Always.

Don’t let a toxic friendship get in your way of a better life.

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avfwdrugec

Gentle reminder that the human eye is naturally drawn by noise and movement, so the next time you walk into a crowd or a bit late into a lecture or something like that, they’re not staring at you or judging; it’s just an instinctive reaction that has nothing to do with you doing anything wrong.

This really helps my anxiety.

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if we’re so damn young and innocent and don’t know what we’re saying when we’re depressed or have anxiety then why do we cry until 2 am and listen to sad songs and forget what wanting to get up in the morning feels like why do we throw up at the thought of taking a math test because we fail one time and get chastised forever why do our hands shake when we look at a college application or are forced to choose a major at 17 years old you did this to us; stop fucking blaming us for the pain that you started by telling us we were “unique” and “special” and “perfect”.

(via the-poetic-broken-masterpiece)

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onlinecounsellingcollege
Breathe. You’re going to be okay. Breathe and remember that you’ve been in this place before. You’ve been this uncomfortable and anxious and scared, and you’ve survived. Breathe and know that you can survive this too. These feelings can’t break you. They’re painful and debilitating, but you can sit with them and eventually, they will pass. Maybe not immediately, but sometime soon, they are going to fade and when they do, you’ll look back at this moment and laugh for having doubted your resilience. I know it feels unbearable right now, but keep breathing, again and again. This will pass. I promise it will pass.

Daniell Koepke (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

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drowning4youu

some of the saddest phrases in the English language: - but you promised - ive never told anyone - i can’t do it - i tried - i trusted you - why did you do this to me - why am i not good enough - it still hurts - i can’t keep pretending

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glassbonespaperskin

things that will happen to you:

  • you will find a new song that you can play on repeat when you can’t sleep
  • new people will come into your life unexpectedly and make everything better
  • you will get good grades, graduate and find a job that you like
  • your heart will heal and you’ll slowly learn to manage the pain
  • good things that will make you v happy to be alive
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cherrys-acid

Lets talk about how hard it is to open up to someone about being sad for no reason. Lets talk about how hard it is to explain to your friends and family that you have this heavy feeling in your chest for no reason. Lets talk about how hard it is to understand why you’re having a panic attack while just taking a walk back home. Lets talk about how hard it is to understand your own self and how scary it is to feel like the whole world is falling on your shoulders and you have no idea why .

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astound

this is a sign that if you’re not where you want to be, you’re still young and your future is what you make of it. so don’t give up on your dreams thinking that you started too late or you don’t have time. you have plenty of time to master a new skill or chase your daydreams. you still have time and you can do it.

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khenzyblog
In a world full of hurt. You gave it all to me. I thought best friends were supposed to mend each other… Not one friend mend you and leave me standing in the cold.. Leave me crying every night… leave me more depressed and stressed than I already am.. While your necklace is broken and on the floor of your closet.. Mine is intact and around my neck everyday. That pretty much sums me and you up. Now its my turn to break. Its my turn to hurt. Its my turn to leave. Because you aren’t asking me to stay.

agirlinlove221b (via agirlinlove221b)

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dephus
Coming back to where you started is not the same as never leaving.

Terry Pratchett, A Hat Full of Sky (Tiffany Aching)

Source: ohteenscanrelate
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nophunintcnded

ariana is literally in hospital because she’s been in hysterics for 15 hours, has allegedly discussed ending her career and is actively blaming herself for all of this and people are angry for her cancelling her tour?? priorities people, please.

people have lost their lives. families have been separated, an 8 year old girl has just been identified as the second victim. ariana’s whole team actively tried to protect people by taking young kids into safe areas- include her own mother.

this isn’t just a small inconvenience. this is a tragedy. think before you react. i’ve got too many people around me thinking about themselves other than those who deserve and need it.

people still do not consider their idols as human and continue to expect ariana to tour when she’s in pain. it’s sickening.

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hipstered

As you get older, you really just want to be surrounded by good people. People that are good for you, good to you, and good for your soul.