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@thinkintrixxter / thinkintrixxter.tumblr.com

Hi, hello, my name's Tara. I'm a mixed person; 1/4 Papua New Guinean, 3/4 white. Pronouns are they/them/their. 21 years old. I love baking & I love drawing, but I upload art at pretty inconsistent intervals. I blog about a wide variety of things. Lots of JoJo lately, but this is a personal blog. I tag pretty inconsistently, so if you blacklist stuff just shoot me a message. Can be NSFW from time to time.

“It’s only a trigger if it causes horrible flashbacks” is so utterly divorced from how the concept of a trigger is used by actual real therapists

a thing doesn’t have to cause traditional flashbacks to be a trigger. a trigger can be a thing that causes:

- panic attacks - emotional flashbacks* - anxiety episodes - paranoia/delusions - hallucinations - seizures - rage episodes - manic episodes - depression spikes - suicidal thoughts - dissociative episodes - sensory overload - obsessions and compulsions (as in OCD)

and probably more things than that, i don’t know all the possible things. I’m not trained in clinical psychology, but neither are all the assholes who say “It’s not a real trigger unless it gives you flashbacks”

* an emotional flashback is a type of flashback where you feel the emotions associated with the trauma happening to you while still on some level knowing that the trauma isn’t currently happening to you. this is a more common type of flashback than the traditional kind.

tl;dr the word trigger in clinical psychology (the field of therapists) can refer to many things other than traditional flashbacks. stop telling ppl “that’s not a trigger unless it gives you flashbacks,” because you are utterly fucking wrong.

•Addiction relapse.

In simpler terms, anything that causes a worsening of symptoms is a trigger. This applies to physical illnesses too, (foods can be migraine “triggers” for example). Anything that causes a worsening of your symptoms is a trigger for those symptoms.

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 The “Save Net Neutrality” bill was just introduced to Congress. You know what this means? WE HAVE THE BIGGEST CHANCE TO GET OUR INTERNET BACK.

We can only have a chance if you contact your reps NOW and SUPPORT THE BILL. The Bill has been assigned to the House Energy & Commerce Committee.

Check these images to see if your GOP MoC or Dem MoC is a member:

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PROMPTS - mudadweek

Hello everyone! Time to reveal this year’s prompts! We kept a few old favorites from last year and tossed in new ones!

Sunday - Age swap Giorno is the adult mafia don, inheriting much of his father’s looks– and now has to look after young Phantom Blood Dio, at age 12. You can play this off as Giorno is his actual father, or that time shenanigans were involved! Monday - Vampire Giorno Giorno being either full or half vampire. Tuesday - Young Giorno/Haruno Any shenanigans with Dio as a parent raising a young Giorno. Wednesday - Stands You’ve got Dio and Giorno– what about The World and Gold Experience? Do any familial ties show up in those two? Thursday - Alternate Universe Any mudad AU you can think of. (A lot of good ideas can be founds here) Friday - Extended family This includes Jonathan, Dio’s three other sons and any of the Joestars related to Giorno. You can also throw Diego in there if you want. Saturday - Domestic Domestic A simple life at home to contrast their very extreme personalities outside. It’s hard being a parent of a Mafia don, sometimes, and sometimes it’s hard having a vampire father.

Hope to see you guys on the 24th!

i’ve seen some posts on my dash going “please always reblog an artist’s post!! just liking or commenting is cruel! not reblogging hurts artists!” and i wanted to say that i absolutely do not agree with that, or think that pressuring/guilt tripping followers is a good tactic. I actually think it’s really shitty and entitled.

I don’t know why someone might like a post instead of reblogging, but I understand that people are different and have their own reasons for what they do. Personally, I’m happy with every piece of attention my content gets, even when I can’t profit from that attention. 

So please keep liking my posts, commenting, and of course reblogging when you feel like it ! 😊😊😊

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APPLICATIONS ARE OPEN

The Doggo Zine is a multi-fandom charity fanzine featuring all the good dogs across fiction in support of the victims of the recent hurricanes.

As such, this project is completely not-for-profit, and all proceeds will go to hitherto TBD Charity for hurricane relief. 

APPLICATIONS CLOSE Sept 22

Rules and Criteria:

  • This zine is Safe For Work. 
  • Regardless of fandom, the focus must be on the doggo. Other characters are allowed, but only as support.
  • Only one submission per fandom (i.e. no more than two Undertale illustrations)
  • Finished piece must be a full illustration, which means no empty backgrounds.
  • Extensions will be considered, because life happens.

(Banner and Icon courtesy of @rustnut)

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HELLO… surprise, we didn’t vanish into the ether!

MUDAD WEEK is coming! Hosted by @killerkuin, @fuwapeach, and @cakeacake, we will be brainstorming ideas for upcoming events, adjusting some rules, doing little modwork stuff. Expect announcements soon! IN THE MEANTIME, spread za wordo!!

~ owl

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Just a little Steven Universe doodle. Some silly teenagers got really offended over this character concept by Lamar Abrams, a storyboarder on the show, to the point where the creators felt forced to erase the character out of existence. Well, here’s my part in making sure that jerks who harass content creators for anything they can twist into appearing “problematic” don’t have their way. I happen to think this is a pretty cool design. Lamar Abrams is himself a black man, and if anything, what’s truly racist is saying that black-coded characters aren’t allowed to have light lips because “that offends me”. As for the part where she can’t read, my drawing says it all - what would a gem need reading for anyway?

I, without a doubt, drew this 

Vee, I’m begging you to stop putting these demons on my dashboard. 😭

Teenagers…right…jus say u hate black ppl voicing our legitimate concerns n leave plz

Be tellin…like just say you hate niggers and go

“so you be tellin me” this is exactly how all black people talk you right. THIS is the representation i need and want

Can we just talk this out as civil human beings? Instead of blatantly criticizing concepts that are offensive state what specifically about it offends you and offer a solution. Don’t be a bitch about it. I realize it’s hard, but how can we moveforward in the world if we don’t understand eachother and what if, just maybe, each side misunderstood the other? Before you bitch about something think if there’s some way to make it better than what it is. If there’s even the slightest chance they didn’t mean to offend you. It takes two to fight, it takes one to be mature and make peace and it seems like the creators are doing just that. They could be bitter about what all of you did, hell they probably are, but they did what they thought would help fix the problem instead of bitch about it endlessly. Consider just asking the creators to change something small to fix the problem. If it’s not enough, don’t stop trying, but don’t keep bitching. You’re on Tumblr. A place for people to talk. I’m not saying they were in the right, but a lot of you aren’t either. Are you going to be part of the problem or part of the solution. It’s your choice. Choose wisely.

yo, stfu with your victim blaming, tone policing, and respectability politics bullshit and move to the side frfr

why are you putting the onus of solution on the backs of the people–black people–that are offended rather than on the people who created the character in the first place?

you talk about “misunderstanding” as though creating this character with this specific set of characteristics, personality, and speech was “a mistake” instead of a deeply embedded act of antiblack racism

like, we’ve called it racist; it’s clear as day as to why it’s racist. why don’t the people who CREATED the character, instead, look into why making a black gem who “can’t speak English well” and “doesn’t know how to read” (as op of this piece of art so eloquently stated) is not only completely fucking racist, but rehashes minstrel shows and cartoons that Disney and other co-oporations made popular years ago?

all you guys do is blame black people for being upfront with their hurt and emotions all you want to do is control the narrative and the ways in which black people respond to antiblack racism

Bout, “Stop being part of the problem and fix it” yuh chat too daymn much

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That awful moment when you learn that this wasn’t scripted. That Will Smith’s character was actually supposed to brush off the whole thing, but Will’s father actually had left him when he was younger and he just fell apart on the set and the hug at the end was from one actor to another, not one character to another…

Always reblog.

STOP SPREADING THIS FUCKING LIE. THIS WAS SCRIPTED. WILL SMITH’S FATHER WAS ALWAYS IN HIS LIFE. STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT. HE IS A WONDERFUL ACTOR AND HE MADE THIS BELIEVABLE, THAT IS ALL. FUCKING WHITE PEOPLE TRYING TO MAKE EVERY BLACK PERSON’S SUCCESS BASED IN “THIS WAS THEIR REALITY” FUCK YOU.

His father featured on the left.

Reblogging since I spread the lie once or twice before. In fact, here’s a source for the truth.

damn son

This has been a widely spread lie on tumblr since 2007 please bring a fucking end to it

Shit

The distractions…

Shit is crazy out here

I swear I was just talking to my mom about how no one is talking about Flint anymore as if the water problem has ceased. Smdh

Donations have slowed down, we do have water stations you can go to and get as many cases as you want but if donations dwindle, u cant go get it…don’t forget about my city…

NOW THAT YOU HAVE MY ATTENTION BC OF MY BUTT ABOVE….

HEY PORN AND CAMGIRL FANS THIS IS IMPORTANT

TUMBLR IS CHANGING THEIR TOS AND NOW THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL BE ABLE TO SEE YOUR FAV SEX WORKER BLOGS IS BY MAKING AN ACCOUNT AND FOLLOWING US AND MAKING SURE SAFE MODE IS OFF

I REPEAT 

YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO FOLLOW YOUR FAV SEX WORKERS IF YOU DON’T HAVE TUMBLR ACCOUNT 

YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO FOLLOW YOUR FAV SEX WORKERS IF YOU HAVE SAFE MODE ON (I’m pretty sure its normally on automatically so go check your settings!!!)

Signal boosting this, because I know a lot of sex workers rely on Tumblr as a big part of their marketing and fan interactions.

Source: psy-faerie