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#thisismylife

@thinkingonyournonsense

Biology student / also interested in: gender studies, media influence, language (art forms), cultural/social anthropology / she / her / bisexual / 18 / All of life is leerzaam

All I wanna do is walk through Rome with your hand in mine and let the stories I've heard in Latin class resurface from my memory and flow over in yours. Our present will be our past one day and our love story will add up to that of all those Greek and Roman lovers.

aesthetic asks

raindrops: what’s your favourite song to unwind?

scented candles: do you enjoy reading? if so what’s your favourite book?

chai latte: your starbucks/coffee order?

fairy lights: do you sleep with the lights on or off?

peaches: do you enjoy photography?

summer nights: summer or winter? or perhaps something else?

neon lights: describe what you’d do at 2am with your best friends

winged eyeliner: do you wear makeup?

bath bombs: what’s your favourite lush product?

soft kisses: ever kissed someone of the same sex?

fire crackles: describe your ideal winters evening

spring flowers: what’s your favourite flower/plant?

messy buns: if you could dye your hair any colour what would it be?

warm tea: what’s your favourite tea? if you don’t like tea, what’s your favourite drink?

full moon: do you prefer the stars or the moon? tracing constellations with your eyes or picking the petals off of flowers?

constellations: do you have freckles? any that resemble anything celestial?

young love: have you ever fallen in love? if so describe how you felt

holding hands: kisses or cuddles? stay-at-home dates or out-and-about ones?

cold mornings: what time do you wake up? are you an early bird or a night owl?

sleepy cuddles: lace or silk? nights in sheets with the one you love or afternoons hand-in-hand?

Around some people I get this vibe. By some it disappears after a couple of (short) convo’s and by some people, like my uncle’s, unfortunately it stays. I’m done beating myself up about overthinking every word I say or not having my friendly smile not returned. I’ m done with those people and they can just fuck off. If you don’t clear yourself out of my life, I will do it for you. I won’t play along with your games anymore. You can either be straight up and unequivocally with me, or nothing.

the thing is, somebody cares. i know your best friend seems really busy all the time and is shit at texting but she still loves you and she talks to you more than she talks to anyone else and you’re the only breath of calm she has on this planet. the boy in your science class loves seeing what music you’re listening to on your headphones - he has the same taste and wishes he had the nerve to ask you about it. your english teacher loves the insight you have on your papers. somebody cares. the person who lives down the street from you notices when you are sick because they don’t see you stomping your way to the schoolbus - it’s how they know it’s time to get their breakfast ready. somebody is looking for you at the party, even if they don’t know they’re really looking for you - but when you don’t show up, some part of them is disappointed. somebody is looking for you in the library, in the spot where you eat lunch, in front of that one step you always seem to trip on. i know your parents are a complicated mess and there’s drama between your friends and your love life is sort of shaped like a constant question and everybody seems all caught up in their own lives and their own happiness and nobody really notices: but somebody always does. every face in your dreams is someone you have met, and that means that you are in a million’s stranger’s heads. they see you when they go to bed. and somebody cares. somebody still thinks about you even though you were just a person with a nice outfit or good eyeliner or a great smile or because you were having one of those moments that are so charmingly human in nature or because they regret not asking if you needed help when you fell or because they wonder what you were thinking about or drawing or writing or just because you’re alive, and that makes you fascinating. somebody cares. when you were on break from work and saw a dog hanging his head out of the car and suddenly broke into a smile: there was a girl in the back of that car, and I was her, and I still think about you, and i hope you get more chances to smile like that. and there is you, sitting here reading this, and by some small extension, meeting me, and i am telling you, I care. somebody always does. i promise. i promise. you are loved.

Anonymous asked:

hey beautiful! - i just wanted to ask if you had any romantic movie suggestions because im in the mood to binge watch 20 movies tonight! thanks - love you xx

hi love!! I know I’m late with this but here’s some of my favorites!

If you want to cry :

🌸 Beastly🌸 Everafter🌸 Your Name🌸 Me Before You🌸 The Fault in Our Stars🌸 Everything, Everything

If you want to laugh and cry :

🌸 27 Dresses🌸 13 Going On 30🌸 Just Go With It🌸 A Cinderella Story🌸 Never Been Kissed🌸 The Wedding Singer🌸 10 Things I Hate About You

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To read and watch everything bi

(may be updated)

Yes, I am female, so most of these will concern f/f.

Films: - Basic instincts - Black swan - I know it is a serie, but everyone go watch black sails, it is on netflix <3

Books: - Orlando - Virginia Woolf - Mrs. Dalloway - Virginia Woolf - they are not bi leads but still f/f: My education, Rubyfruit jungle and The color purple. I still want to read them and try to learn more about female (to female) desire ((to see what is normal))

Oh and BTW, Elio (main character) from call me by your name is hella bi... and Oliver most likely is as well. Just read the book before you try to undermine that.

Stop using freedom of speech to supress minorities, because you are afraid of loosing the tiniest part of your privilige. You don't care to educate yourself untill you see minorities actually slowly climbing up to the amount of rights you have and then you start to freak out, because you think it means you are loosing something, because you didn't care to educate yourself. The only thing you're loosing is power over those minorities. You still don't want to be educated. You just want to scream and be listened to and obeyed. Why do we have to listen to people with shit arguments and nonsense objections. Why do we have to listen to people who spread hate. Why is it always us who have to listen and negotiate with people that don't listen and don't want equality, but only power and privilege, fuck that. Fuck that! All we want is to for all people to be equal. I am so done.

Forgive me for getting angry and upset with the world sometime. Please.