Samuel L. Jackson in “Jackie Brown”
Today I was peeing in a public restroom and overhead a bunch of women with babies st the basins talking about how much they wished genderless toilets existed because it would make caring for children all that much easier.
Their arguments was that caring for children is easier when you can have two parents nearby, especially when you need to manage multiple children. Not only that, another one added, but sometimes single fathers need to help little daughters go to the toilet and are faced with the choice of 1) occupying the disabled people toilet or 2) risking taking their little girls into men's restrooms and having her see someone at a urinal because that's the only way they can keep a proper eye on them. And another one complained that sometimes she needs to change her crying baby's diaper while her little girl needs to go to - and all of this would be easier if only mums and dads were allowed in the same spaces at the same time.
And all I could think about while I finished peeing and heard this was that genderless public restrooms are a female need and would probably be an unanimously held feminist demand (similarly to reproductive rights) if it wasn't for radfems who are so gassed by their hatred towards men and trans people that they refuse to move forward with what should be a very simple and reasonable demand.
I think a big reason why "children are an oppressed group" gets (wrongly!) read as a "pedophile talking point" is that everyone treats children so terribly that actual child molesters can speedrun winning a kid's trust by like, actually respecting their needs and perspective, at least at first. Which means that the only way out of this mess is for all of us adults to treat children with respect, so that abusers can't use the rareness of that respect as a weapon.
Anonymous asked:
ughhhh I love your blog, you're soo inspirational and pretty girl! pls post vids on youtube?! x
Thank you so much. I intend to, sooner than you think. Just buying all the tech gear I need :)
Anonymous asked:
Just out of curiosity, do you fill in your eyebrows or are they naturally that thick? I'm really jealous of how they look.
don’t be jealous, you’re equipped with your own blessings! they are naturally thick but i fill them in to make them look even thicker.
Anonymous asked:
Would you ever consider doing a meet up because you are soo radiant online, I would like to witness the fitness in person.
i find the concept of people leaving their houses just to meet me absolutely ridiculous because I’m just chiddy who washes plates for her mum but if there is a high enough demand, why not?!
tobelliot-deactivated20210109
#model #fashion #blackmodel #afro Model: @theslumflower Hat: @glynbrwn (Photo: @dwytesmith) Follow us on tumblr: 🐺 www.SositoMaske.tumblr.com 🐺 #myblackisbeautiful #blackisbeautiful #blackpride #blackpeople #melanin #photography #style #hat #fashion #blackwoman #blackwomen #blackbeauty #blackexcellence #fro #beauty #blackgirls #blackness #africanamerican #blackhair #blackconsciousness #blackpower #blackculture #swag #blackgirlsrock
SEE MORE ON WWW.THESLUMFLOWER.COM
Model @theslumflower THESLUMFLOWER.COM
Photo: @dwytesmith
Follow us on tumblr: 🐺 www.SositoMaske.tumblr.com 🐺
#model #blackmodel #modeling #beauty #myblackisbeautiful #blackisbeautiful #blackpride #blackpeople #melanin #photography #blacklove #fashion #style #blackwoman #blackwomen #blackbeauty #blackexcellence #afro #fro #blackgirls #blackness #africanamerican #blackhair #blackconsciousness #blackpower #blackculture #swag #blackgirlsrock
Wonderful blogger Chidera (The Slumflower) wearing Chelsea Bravo SS15 at London Fashion Week.