Hi, I found your blog via the #YesAllWomen post and thought I could ask you for your advice? I love science and I think I'd like to pursue at least a bachelor but a PhD would be the dream. But I'm somewhat worried about being a girl and being (slightly) alternative. Maths isn't my strong point but I make up for it by acing bio and chem. I'm sorry I don't have a very specific question. But I guess what I would like to know is, is there even a point?
I’m so glad you found TSR! I’m always open forgiving personal advice with such inquiries. First of all, thank you for thinking of me to submit your thoughts to and ask for mypersonal opinion. Secondly, I truly do hope you pursue your scientific love andachieve your goal of a Bachelors, and (hard work and drive willing) a PhD!
Thisis a question I receive all the time, constantly, especially from females andthose who worry about their faults in mathematics. I think for anyone, theprospect of going into any STEM field professionally, and furthering one’seducation, tends to appear daunting and worrying, but also simultaneouslyexciting. Mathematics themselves are hard, but definitely worth mastering, orat least attempting to master (there’s always room to improve for all of us).
I tendto bicker with mathematics (and myself over them) more times than not. I’vefound that many of us interested in, professionally working with, or seriouslypursuing education within STEM fields struggle with mathematics, but when itcomes to applying them to sciences that we are truly enamoured with, we tend toexcel more than personally expected.
I’mgoing to tell you if you do continue down this road, it will be full of hardwork, long days and nights, frustration, and downfalls here and there. But thebest thing about all of this is it will help you grow and improve not onlywithin the sciences but mathematically. Please do not let the fear of not beingthe best within math, or being female for that matter, scare you away frompursuing this with all of your heart and mind! The worst thing you can do isgive up on something you are so passionate about. I encourage you and allothers that are questioning, “is there even a point?” to keep telling yourselfyes, there is a huge point. A point of getting a job in a field that you love,a point of growing not only mentally on an academic and professional level, butin a personal way as well.
Please keep on exploring, questioning, and growing,friend. Do yourself the favour of pursuing this, no matter your fear of being agirl (or alternative), nor your lack of flawless mathematic skills. There aremany in the same boat as you, and I believe the more people that pursue theirpassion in STEM fields (no matter their sexual, religious, or personaldifferentiations), the better our endeavours as a collective society willbecome.
Good luck with your journey, and if you ever needany more advice, or help with anything STEM related, I am always available hereor at my email address (thescienceofreality@gmail.com). I hope you do yourbest, and keep pushing yourself in every way possible.
Have a lovely rest of your day, and thanks againfor trusting me enough to open up and ask for my opinion! :]