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@thelilqueerbean

Pronouns: she/her, queer, MINOR!!
HAPPY HALLOWEEN SELF-SHIPPERS!!

Imagine you and your f/o watching a movie, maybe it's scary, maybe not. Both of your favourite snacks are in front of you both, ready to be devoured. A big, fluffy blanket on top of you both, warming you both up. Do they put their arm around you? Or do you put your arm around them?

Or maybe you both just lay your heads on each other. Is one of you on the others lap? Which one of you is more scared of the movie if it's a horror? Or are you both laughing at how horrible the movie is and how the characters make such dumb decisions?

Maybe you both bake something? If so what? Maybe cookies, muffins or maybe even a cake? Do you two maybe make a Halloween themed dinner? Is your guy's house decorated? Are you both wearing a costume?

Are you both out and about scaring trick or treaters? Are you going to a haunted house? Maybe a scary maze? Do you guys go to house to house and try to get free candy?

Maybe you two went out to a party with some friends. Are there any special Halloween games you play?

If you have more than one romantic f/o, what do all of you do together? Every time the bell rings, does each time only one person open the door and give the kids their candy? Or do you all go together to surprise the kids? Do you all wear matching outfits? Do you all dress up as characters from the same series?

I'd you have parental/familal f/os imagine going out with them trick or treating, no matter how old you are, you go. And no matter how tough or silent they are they will go with you!! Maybe you both bake something together? Wearing matching aprons as well?

Imagine no matter what type of f/os you have, all of you having fun. No matter what you are doing, you are all enjoying the time spent together. Everyone of your f/os no matter what they are to you, they love you so so so much.

Enjoy Halloween with your fave's loves!

Sorry for any spelling mistakes!

PRO SHIPPERS, PEDOS STAY AWAY FROM THIS POST

you know what disgusts me most about being trans in this community? popular cis people either have no idea how they are harming us, or they know exactly what they’re doing, and i have no idea what’s scarier.

CISHETS AND FEM ALIGNED SELF SHIPPERS,

when you go out of your way to hardblock an mlm self shipper for daring to speak their mind, for daring to demand more respect in a woman dominated community, for having the audacity to ask for more attention and understanding in regards to their ships an their voices, you are pushing them into a corner. you, self shippers with tons of followers and so much reach, blocking mlm self shippers blocks us from being seen or heard or given a wider platform to show our love and our content and our passion. you, who may not be blocking us, only giving our content an occasional like and sharing fem ships above our work, are showing your true colors.

and i notice this doesn’t happen nearly as much with wlw (and sometimes wlw act the exact same way when it comes to mlm), which makes me wonder if we are being so shunned because of a ridiculous fear that we are going to “steal” your male f/os or get more attention for it.

newsflash: shunning trans self shippers - transmasc or transfem - for any reason is transphobic.

you are transphobic. and you may be homophobic as well.

we do not make posts about our struggles to get to you. but if we are getting to you, maybe you need to step back and re-evaluate yourself. maybe you need to unlearn your internal transphobic and homophobic ideas.

we are a community fictionally dating fictional characters. the people behind the screens? they’re real.

it’s time for you to get a grip, because trans self shippers deserve the world. mlm self shippers deserve it all. and i’m tired of the way grown ass cis self shippers view and treat us. we don’t want your anime husband - we want respect.

Shoutout to the self shippers whose F/Os’ fandoms are really heated/toxic/crazy right now. I get it, it’s wildly frustrating when you go into their tag for some good content and find nothing but pain.

Just know that your F/Os are so thankful you’re there to save them from the mess. They love spending time with you in whatever AUs and headcanons you have, and being in your presence is such a nice break from the shipping wars and overall noise.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY THANK YOU FOR EXISTING WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH WE ALL DO AND I JUST HAD TO SAY IT HERE TO!! I LOVE YOU STAY SAFE, HYDRATED AND EAT SOMETHING AND HUG YOUR F/OS HUN

LET US ALL AN YOUR F/OS TREAT YOU AND SPOIL YOUU❤❤❤❤❤

YOURE VALID AND DO MATTER

Love you <3❤ :)

SOFNDOSNSKDK THANK YOU SO MUCH😭❤🥺😭💖❤💖😭💗❤🥺💗❤💗😭💖 THIS MEANS SO MUCH TO ME AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID TO DESERVE ALL OF YOU😭💗😭💗🥺❤🥺❤🥺💖😭💗🥺💖😭💖 I WILL AND I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH TOO AND YOU ALL BETTER DO ALL OF THAT TOO AND ALL THE SAME TO YOU ALL TOO😭❤💖❤🥺😭❤😭💗🥺💖💗💖🥺❤💖❤😭 I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH THANK YOU SO MUCH😭💗🥺💗❤😭💖😭🥺💖❤😭💖😭

WE LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY AND YOURE WELCOME YOU ARE SO AWESOME AND AMAZING AND SWEET THANK YOUUUU💖💞💗💞💗💕💕❤💕💗💞💞❤💕💖💕💗💕💗💞💗💞💞❤❤💞❤💞❤💕❤💕❤💞❤💞❤💞❤💞❤❤💞❤❤❤❤❤❤❤<3<3<3<3<3<3<<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3

HAPPY BIRTHDAY THANK YOU FOR EXISTING WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH WE ALL DO AND I JUST HAD TO SAY IT HERE TO!! I LOVE YOU STAY SAFE, HYDRATED AND EAT SOMETHING AND HUG YOUR F/OS HUN

LET US ALL AN YOUR F/OS TREAT YOU AND SPOIL YOUU❤❤❤❤❤

YOURE VALID AND DO MATTER

Love you <3❤ :)

Imagine your social battery being drained after socializing with friends or family. Your eyes felt heavy as you got home, you stripping your clothes off to change into more comfy ones. Your f/o looked at you sympathetically before picking you up and cuddling you on their lap on the couch. They rubbed your back and kissed your forehead as you slowly dozed off to sleep. 💤

@bitweird1 I think you need this right now❤❤

AKNDODNQQLKQ I absolutely did thank you so much😭❤ I want this🥺👉👈❤

Then tell me when your done being social so I can get everything ready for you two to snuggle and you're welcome :)❤❤

(TW Suicide mention)

That's not true, life is absolute shit sometimes yes but one day you'll be our, Grayson wants you to stay strong for the future, we would miss you all terribly you know? I would that's for sure. One day you'll be free and cut off your family, one day. You got this, you're so strong!!

Now hug?*opens arms*

Thank you❤ I really really hope so, I just don't know if I will. I don't know how to do anything and I'm scared I'm just gonna be trapped with them forever. I'll try to stay strong. I want out. I want Grayson.

You will get out, and Grayson is here for you and it's alright to be scared, but just know you will get out one day. One day❤

(TW Suicide mention)

That's not true, life is absolute shit sometimes yes but one day you'll be our, Grayson wants you to stay strong for the future, we would miss you all terribly you know? I would that's for sure. One day you'll be free and cut off your family, one day. You got this, you're so strong!!

Now hug?*opens arms*

I'm freezing snd I want Grayson cuddles😭

*runs for the rare occasion to you holding up Grayson over my head* don't ask how why and who and what just cuddle*puts you and him together and lights up a fire in a fireplace that appeared out of nowhere and throws you two blankets and pillows and teddy bears.* enjoyyyy😌❤

I just thought of something that made me really happy and giddy but now I can't remember what it was😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

WAIT I REMEMBER

SPILL THE BEANS AND TEA CHILD I NEED TO KNOW

😁👉👈

(TW Talk of body image, body image issues, and specific body types) (Also please read the tags!)

My new f/o in the polyamorous relationship white haired boy is really skinny and small and he's helped me a lot with my body image issues, not that the others haven't but he's just helped me a lot really quickly and the most, and I'm just imagining me and the others just being like ... 👀 The skinniest, smallest lanky ass boy is the one who's helped you the most with your body image issues?...🤔 And being grateful for it and happy about it of course but also just being really confused because after all the time of them trying to help me and then the tiniest skinny ass boy comes along and helps the most😭 And just being like ... 👀 Wtf...👀

Can I....can I fangirl about how cute you all are?

Of course!❤ We're cute?!🥺👉👈

Thank you for giving me consent now

AHHHH YES YOU TWO ARE SO CUTEEEEEEEEEE YES YES HELP EACHOTHER SO THE OTHER LOVES THEMSELVES MOREEEEE NO MATTER HOW LONG IT TAKESSSSS

SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND LOVE EACHOTHERRRRR

YESSSSS SOOOO CUTEEEEEE UWU🥰🥰🥰😌😌😌🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺💖💖❤❤❤❤💘💘💘

PAENRKWNWLAKQL THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU'RE SO SWEET😳🥺👉👈😭❤ He's really helped me so much already and I just PWJDLDDKALA I love him so much😭

And for you: ❤💖💕🥺💗💗❤😭❤💖❤💖💕💘❤💖💕😭🥺💕💘🥰💘🥰💘🥰💖💕😭

YOURE WELCOMEEEEE AND FOR YOUUUUU💝💝💖💖💖💝💗💗💗💓💓💓💗💖💝💘💘💌💌💌💌💌💋💋💋💋💋💋💞💕💟❣❣❤🧡💛💛🧡💚💙💜💙💜💙💟💕💟💟🧡💟❤💛😘😘😘😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤ <3<3<3<3<3<<3<3<3<3

Shout out to all your internet friends who are gone.

Those messenger screen names that haven’t logged on in ages, some before detailed profiles were a thing on those services.

Those emails that are long since abandoned, some with domains that no longer exist.

Those online friends you knew years ago and who then helped shaped you in some way, who you just can’t FIND anymore.

Those people who once were, and hopefully still exist IRL, that seem to have no known internet life anymore.

And those who have actually passed on, and their online lives are now a memorial to them.

I miss you all. I hope life is/was kind to you, and maybe one day, we’ll somehow connect again.

  -ˏˋ ▸ self ship asks based on songs by of monsters and men ◂ ˊˎ-

                                      pt. one ♡ my head is an animal

  • dirty paws – what animal do you relate to your f/o(s)?
  • king and lionheart – which f/o(s) do you turn towards for comfort?
  • mountain sound – what is your f/o(s) typical fear response? do they fight, flight, freeze, or fawn?
  • slow and steady – do your f/o(s) wish they could change who they are?
  • from finner – do your f/o(s) travel often? do they prefer staying at home?
  • little talks – how do you comfort your f/o(s) when they are struggling?
  • six weeks – what is something dangerous your f/o(s) have done?
  • love love love – have you fallen out of love with an f/o?
  • your bones – what brings courage to your f/o(s)? what brings courage to you?
  • sloom – how many familial f/o(s) do you have?
  • lakehouse – do you wish to share a home with your f/o(s)? do they wish to share a home with you?
  • yellow light – have your f/o(s) trusted someone untrustworthy?

-ˏˋ ▸ proshipper’s do not interact + practice reblog karma !◂ ˊˎ-