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I'm An Utter Delight

@thefineandnobleartofavoidance / thefineandnobleartofavoidance.tumblr.com

elizabeth. she/her. old as balls. too old to put up with any swerf/terf/right wing/Tory nonsense so don't. I like comics, star wars, creepy british 70's horror films, vintage clothes, making stuff and learning new things. I'm on Ao3 as shifty_badger, where i don't write anything apart from incoherent and embarassing notes to writers. i'll probably like you and your fandom unless you're a knobhead about it. all RL names have been changed.

Thinking about Bucky in Romania and how every old lady in his apartment building probably adores him because he’s this handsome, strong, man who always helps them cross the street, and keeps those whippersnappers from stealing their purses, and holds the door open, and is just so baby-shaped to all of them.

This would also explain how he got so beefy, from all those adoring Eastern European grannies being like "big strong boy needs lots of food" and "too skinny look at your bony cheeks" and insisting on bringing him pots of homemade dishes, and being a good boy who grew up in the Depression, he wasn't going to let any of it go to waste.

[Image ID: The poem “One Source of Bad Information”, by Robert Bly.  There’s a boy in you about three years old who hasn’t learned a thing for thirty Thousand Years. Sometime it’s a girl.  The child had to make up its mind How to save you from death. He said things like:  “Stay home. Avoid elevators. Eat only elk.”  You live with this child, but you don’t know it.  You’re in the office, yes, but live with this boy  At night. He’s uninformed, but he does want To save your life. And he has. Because of this boy  You survived a lot. He’s got six big ideas.  Five don’t work. Right now he’s repeating them to you. 

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The problem with taking up sewing again is I have to cut out on the floor and every single time my ancient usually unaffectionate dog goes "love time? Time for cuddles? I will sit in lap yes I will" and what can you say to that other than oh go on then

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Sex workers have been organizing for decriminalization and autonomy in India in MASSIVE numbers for decades but swerfs in the western world (tbh including a lot of rich and/or upper caste diaspora “activists” ive encountered) will keep acting like 3rd world sex workers are feeble silent victims who need to be rescued (aka policed and criminalized). Anyways just for starters read about the Durbar Mahila Samanwaya Committee whose programs include, among other things, a banking cooperative run by and for sex workers in West Bengal so they can have control over their own finances, sports teams for the children of sex workers and other marginalized communities, robust health education and HIV prevention resources, and a creative and performing arts wing.

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Daniel Craig: SNL bumper photo

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I saw somebody asking in the tags so, this is a reference to a very well known, French erotic film from 1974 called Emmanuelle, the film poster has become quite iconic :

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