Heyoo, we are a system and collectively use they/he pronouns!
Despite having many differing opinions, we don't want to interact with endos/pro-endos for personal reasons. Period. But, we are anti-fakeclaming or harrassing.
Due to our own mental health and want to not be problematic or be harrassed for existing, we aren't giving any info about us including alters and such. Some may sign off, but most of us won't.
So this was the unanswered messages in my ask box a couple of days ago:
and this is the unanswered messages in my ask box today,
and I'm incredibly grateful to everyone who has said such nice things about the season, and I'm sorry to everyone who had emotions they weren't expecting, and I'm impressed that so many of you have theories and don't plan to answer, validate or really even comment on any of them, but mostly I'm just sorry because I probably won't read whatever you've sent, not because I don't want to but because if I was doing nothing but reading Tumblr asks as a full time job I still wouldn't catch up with the thousands of asks coming in.
I'm glad you care.
If you aren't paying attention to the RESTRICT act because it is being Trojan Horsed as the "Tik Tok Ban" I urge you to go look it up right now. The bill itself has NOTHING to do with TikTok. It is a horrible bill that massively impacts freedom of speech, access to information, and the open internet. Even major Republicans are calling it out as too broad and ill conceived.
uh so i never do this but maui is quite literally on fire and there isn't nearly enough care or consideration for. you know. Native Hawaiians who live here being displaced and the land (and cultural relevance) that's being eaten up by the fire. so if ya'll wanna help, here's some links:
maui food bank: https://mauifoodbank.org/
maui humane society: https://www.mauihumanesociety.org/
center for native hawaiian advancement: https://www.memberplanet.com/campaign/cnhamembers/kakoomaui
hawai'i red cross: https://www.redcross.org/local/hawaii/ways-to-donate.html
please reblog and spread the word if you can't donate.
Just learning about this (!), and reblogging for visibility.
Also sending worried love to all my friends and all the people I don't know in Maui.
STOP RECORDING QUEER PEOPLE WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT AND POSTING IT ONLINE YOU ARE PUTTING US IN DANGER‼️‼️‼️
AT SOCIAL GATHERINGS AT PRIDE IN THE STREET DOESN’T MATTER ASK THEIR PERMISSION‼️‼️‼️‼️
EXISTING IN PUBLIC NO MATTER HOW “WEIRD”≠ CONSENT TO BE IN A WANNABE INFLUENCER’S VIDEO FOR ALL TO SEE
STOP RECORDING PEOPLE IN GENERAL ‼️ ITS FUCKING CREEPY AND YOU COULD BE ACTIVELY PUTTING THEM IN DANGER ‼️‼️ YOU DON'T KNOW WHO'S HIDING FROM SOMETHING OR JUST LEFT A BAD SITUATION ‼️‼️ ALSO EVEN IF THEY WERENT YOU STILL SHOULDN'T RECORD THEM WITHOUT PERMISSION AND OPEN THEM TO RIDICULE AND HAVING TO DEAL WITH A VIDEO THEY DONT WANT ONLINE ‼️‼️‼️ HAVE SOME BASIC FUCKING DECENCY ‼️‼️‼️
i really like looking at google image searches for “firemen rescuing cats” or something because you get super cute pictures like
AND THEN THERE’S THIS ONE
“THAT’S RIGHT TWAS I that set the house ablaze!!!”
Dying.
Every fucking time I know what’s at the bottom and every time I still lose my shit.
I’m so happy this post is back again asdlkfjsa
Just a reminder about fatphotoref.com—it exists!! I'll be updating with new photos next week and hopefully more regularly after that. Request access by going to bit.ly/fpraccess 💙🧜♀️ happy mer may!
edited: fatphotoref.com is run by @fugitiverabbit
Sorry for the confusion, I was just copy/pasting the text from the tweet.
was talking to my gf about my fear of dying young for being trans and my mom putting my deadname on my gravestone, and she said "i hope that never happens, but if it does, i will carve your name into your grave myself if i have to." and i think theres something extremely raw about that sentiment and trans community in general. you can kill only our bodies, but you cant kill transsexuality
If you are over 18 and do not want your parents to have control over your body after you die or if you go into a coma or something, take that power away from them. They are your automatic next of kin unless you get married which is why they have control over those things. But getting married isn’t the only way to change that, an advanced directive can do the same. This video has more information
ANYONE who doesn't want your parents/siblings/biological family making decisions if you are incapacitated or dead, do this.
But especially my queer folks. Get on it ASAP. I don't care how young and healthy you feel, we protect us.
reminder that systems with fragments are completely okay and normal!
it’s completely normal for a system to not know someone is a fragment.
it’s completely okay for a system to always know whether someone is an alter or fragment.
it’s completely okay for there to be more fragments then alters
it’s completely normal for there to be more alters then fragments
it’s completely okay to feel sad when a fragment disappears
it’s completely normal to not feel anything when a fragment disappears
fragmentation is a large and sometimes mysterious thing for some systems and it’s okay to feel a certain way about it. it took us forever to accept we had fragments, to know who was a fragment. we would feel sad for certain fragments and almost nothing for others.
for us, it’s hard for us to have introject alters and most out introjects are fragments. but the thing is, it’s completely okay for the roles to be reversed; the brain is a mysterious thing and that means how your brain reacts to events will find whatever fits.
"you
&
me,
forever
&
ever!
love,
freddy"
(rbs appreciated <3)
If anyone would like custom/personal writing, or to support a disabled person trying to create an emergency fund due to a current bad home situation, hi! my name is Ely and i have 4+ years of professional education in writing! DM over discord me for commissions!
elytra404 on discord!
ya im complainiong about them i want the COOL PANTS not the MOM OF THE COOL PANTS
I don't know who needs to hear this but:
-"it only hurts a little" is still pain
-"I can ignore it" is still pain
-"I can cope with/manage it" is still pain
-"it's bearable" is still pain
-"I can push through it" is still pain
-"it doesn't hurt that much" is still pain
-"it doesn't stop me from doing x" is still pain
You don't need to be in agonizing pain to be in pain.
Sanders Sides in my style (including FANMADE Orange Side and Character!Thomas), where I mashed up Thomas's appearance in golden-age SS, modern-day SS and my personal artistic liberties!
Rambling commentary on design choices under the cut...
plzzzz i need a new sides video to go feral over plz lzl plzplz thomas come back from the war plz come back i miss u and my blorbos give me my blorbos back i swear ill pay child support plzplzplzplz i can change i plz bby come back to me
