Okay so I kept trying anyway,

I'm on page 164, with the pigs, and my highlighter has run dry. I gotta go find another one, Jenna, this was a NEW highlighter, I bought it YESTERDAY.

Me, dressed head to toe in the asexual colors; Look how queer I am! I’m like super fucking queer. Aces are queer. I’m queer. I look SUPER queer today. I’m feelin’ EXTRA queer. I’M QUEER. Anyway exclusionists can suck a dick.

Unless you are also lesbian, gay, bi, and or trans that slur isn’t yours to use, and you need to keep it out of your fucking mouth. Stop treating that word like it’s some fun outfit, it has a bloody history and you using it as a cutesy little term is shitting on the graves of every lgbt person killed for who they love or who they happen to be.

The lgbt community isn’t a fucking club, it was made because people who experience same gender attraction, and trans people where (and still are in many places) being arrested, killed and denied basic human rights JUST FOR BEING LGBT. 

No one has ever in the history of ever denied an asexual housing, food, the right to work, the right to marry, or the ability to adopt JUST BECAUSE Y’ALL DON’T WANNA FUCK!!! 

Ace discourse? In 2020? Really? Back on this shit?

Not that I owe you any information about anything, you gatingkeeping fuckwad, but not too long ago I realized I’m actually not ace, I’m just bisexual and picky, but guess what you human equivalent of dog shit on my shoe, I still respect ace ppl are part of our community because they are. The queer community is for people the cishets reject for dumb reasons. That includes ace ppl.

I don’t even use this blog anymore and y'all still testing me. Fuck off.

First off, lmao. Love your insults, great way to start the conversation (sarcasm). I mean I won’t say I was nice, but I never insulted you. Insults really don’t help your case. Also ace discourse has only gotten worse bc of the homophobic, and transphobic things coming from the ace community specifically from places that are supposed to be the information highway on ace issues (AVEN). 

Secondly, It’s the lgbt community not the q-slur community. Just because you can and have reclaimed the slur doesn’t mean everyone has, and it doesn’t mean everyone is okay with you saying the slur around them and it ESPECIALLY doesn’t mean people appreciate you calling them or their community a slur.

Thirdly and no one should have to explain this to you, but the lgbt community isn’t a cute little club, it’s a human rights movement. The first pride was a riot, and the lgbt community is only for Lesbians, Gays, Bi’s and/or Trans folk. That’s what the acronym stands for, lesbian, gay, bi and trans. 

Aces & Aro’s can be cishet, and thus not LGBT. 

Also the whole “the lgbt community is for people who are rejected by cishets for dumb reasons” would include kinky people, people who like pineapple on their pizza, people who are celibate, people who are hyper-sexual due to trauma, people who are polyamerous, people who like the color yellow, people who don’t like popular music, goths punks, emos, atheists, and more, since you mentioned nothing about WHY those people would get rejected, if it has to be related to their gender or sexuality, or if it needs to be a majority rejection or just some, only that they are being rejected. 

Being rejected by cishets would mean many, MANY, other cishet people would now be lgbt. Most people I know who are 100% cishet would be considered LGBT. 

Stop watering down the meaning of being LGBT. It’s really not that hard, at all, to understand who is and who isn’t lgbt. Do they experience same gender attraction, and or are they trans, yes to either, means they are LGBT. No to both, not lgbt. 

Easy peasy lemon squeezy.

I'm not here to have a discussion with you, so I will insult you all I want.

You're an asshole, and I'm gonna say it, especially since you have already proven you are willfully misunderstanding what I'm saying, and you are not arguing in good faith.

I believe you're stupid, but I don't believe you are stupid enough to think when I say "rejected for dumb reasons" you actually believe the "relating to sexuality and gender" isn't implied in the context of this conversation. You have proven you don't want a real conversation, or a real debate. You want to purposefully misinterpret what I'm saying, and use straw man arguments.

I have no interest in a conversation with someone who argues that way because its completely unproductive due to the fact you are not looking for a productive conclusion to the discussion. If you were looking for a productive conclusion, you would not purposefully misinterpret my words.

You would take my ACTUAL meaning, and make a point against that. Instead you argued "people who like pineapple on their pizza don't belong in the LGBTQ+ community."

That's a straw man argument, honey. I never said they do, and yet you rather argue that point instead of a productive one. You rather argue against something I never said.

So yes, fuck you.

I'm not here to waste my time in a discussion with the likes of you.

Me, dressed head to toe in the asexual colors; Look how queer I am! I’m like super fucking queer. Aces are queer. I’m queer. I look SUPER queer today. I’m feelin’ EXTRA queer. I’M QUEER. Anyway exclusionists can suck a dick.

Unless you are also lesbian, gay, bi, and or trans that slur isn’t yours to use, and you need to keep it out of your fucking mouth. Stop treating that word like it’s some fun outfit, it has a bloody history and you using it as a cutesy little term is shitting on the graves of every lgbt person killed for who they love or who they happen to be.

The lgbt community isn’t a fucking club, it was made because people who experience same gender attraction, and trans people where (and still are in many places) being arrested, killed and denied basic human rights JUST FOR BEING LGBT. 

No one has ever in the history of ever denied an asexual housing, food, the right to work, the right to marry, or the ability to adopt JUST BECAUSE Y’ALL DON’T WANNA FUCK!!! 

Ace discourse? In 2020? Really? Back on this shit?

Not that I owe you any information about anything, you gatingkeeping fuckwad, but not too long ago I realized I'm actually not ace, I'm just bisexual and picky, but guess what you human equivalent of dog shit on my shoe, I still respect ace ppl are part of our community because they are. The queer community is for people the cishets reject for dumb reasons. That includes ace ppl.

I don't even use this blog anymore and y'all still testing me. Fuck off.

hey mutuals try this fun thing

loving urself and knowing that ur important and deserve the best and that i love u

EVERYONE HATES HIS PARENTS THAT’S IN THE TORAH

John Mulaney being one of the funniest standup comics of all time is so wild to me because everything about him screams “closeted gay accountant” and then he gets up on stage and talks about how he murdered Princess Diana and the mental whiplash you receive kills you on the spot

weird little brain tweak/reframing that helped me out. i Often find that advice that seemingly helps Everyone Else doesn’t make any sense to me, in ways that are hard to describe, and it can be really frustrating. but when i find a way to explain it to myself that finally seems to break through and make it click, it feels really good

Uh.... a lot of crap about my life has started to make sense after I found out I had ADHD a few months back, and I think I’m gonna try that.  This is just,,, really good advice. Thanks

If it’s red and blue, it’s gay.

Examples:

This is the valid addition I've seen so far and I posted this YEARS AGO

Cool! I look forward to it! Thank you for answering my ask! Have a good day!

I’ve started saying “I like your shoelaces” to random people in public because sometimes they just look confused and say thanks, but other times they look like their soul has just left their body and they’re having an moral crisis like whatever they say next determaines if they’re going to heaven or hell

Superheroes wearing clothes over their super suits without actually trying to hide their super suit is such an aesethic and I live for it.

This took me all day long, but I like how it came out. She’s one of my MCs, Hope Springs the Bastard Queen 👑 leader of the rebellion and bitch of steel.

[Do not steal, repost or edit!]

@buggachat

You’ve inspired me, this is for you. ❤

@buggachat have u seen this yet?

@buggachat dude look,

@buggachat

You’ve inspired me, this is for you. ❤

Hey so full offense but the day I see grinch porn on my dash is the day I delete my tumblr

AM I THE ONLY ONE MAD ABOUT THE MUSICAL THE PROM’S POTRAYAL OF INDIANA PTA?!?! CAUSE I’M FROM INDIANA AND MY MOTHER WAS PTA PRESIDENT FOR YEARS AND INDIANA PTA LED THE CHARGE TO PRO LGBTQ+ LAWS IN SCHOOLS AND Y'ALL WANNA PORTRAY INDIANA PTA AS HOMOPHOBIC JUST SO SOME BROADWAY FUCKS CAN DO A SELF SERVING MUSICAL WERE THEY SWOOP IN AND SAVE THE DAY FROM THE BIG BAD SCARY PTA PRESIDENT?! FUCK THAT, AND FUCK THE GUY WHO WROTE IT. IT’S INSULTING TO EVERY PTA MEMBER WHO FOUGHT TOOTH AND NAIL FOR THIS. FUCK YOU.

*edit; to clarify, I’m all for gay rep, but the story was loosely based off an incident in Missouri, and the only reason they set it in Indiana was to piss of Mike Pence. It’s inaccurate and insulting to Indiana PTA and they should have just set the damn thing in Missouri.

Trans women are automatically prettier than every single terf ever and that’s just the tea

No. I will not elaborate.

Some low key ace phone backgrounds, for anyone who wants to use them! ❤