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The thought of appropriating terms that were originally slurs is just-

Like if someone threw a rock at you, and you just pick it up and look at them like "well, I'm still here and now I'm holding a rock. It's my rock now. The fuck are you planning to do about it."

Then some rando comes up to you and says "Hey! You can't walk round here holding a rock! People have thrown rocks at me before and it really hurt!" So you're like "OK, I promise not to throw it at you." but they're not satisfied and keep telling you to put it down.

But you might also get the fun experience where your friend holds out their hands for the rock and you start playing catch.

Excellent tags from @egberts

day 1128

they should invent joints that don’t hurt

The way its cropped is perfect

Over time, Steve becomes increasingly more tactile with Eddie. It starts with him leaning back into Eddie's space whenever Eddie talks to him, but soon starts developing into casual touches on his back and arms, and then to his fingers tangling into Eddie's curls, and the two of them snuggling up to each other when they're drinking and watching movies from the tiny couch in the Munsons' trailer.

"If I didn't know any better, I'd start suspecting you were gay, Harrington," Eddie says one time when Steve absentmindedly traces his fingers over the smooth skin of Eddie's cheek. It sounds joking, but there's a coldness behind it, and Steve pulls back immediately, ashamed of the way he loves Eddie and the brusque confirmation that Eddie doesn't feel the same way.

He doesn't touch Eddie anymore, after that. He stops sitting next to him on the couch, stops leaning into him, keeps his hands as close to himself as possible. Eddie is relieved that Steve's keeping some more distance between them: he was freaking out about how all those casual sweet touches were becoming far too meaningful to him, how he started reading things into them that obviously couldn't be there, how he started feeling things he shouldn't be feeling for Steve. But it leaves Steve heartbroken, yearning for Eddie in a way he can't have him. He feels fucking stupid for assuming that there might be something between them, because of course there wasn't, he should've known that Eddie would never love someone like him.

ONE TIME i write something that isn't teeth rotting fluff and it upsets So. Many. People. *evil cackle* (dw i'll fix it. eventually.)

Okay, first of all, I am very sorry about what I did. I hope this makes things better:

Robin is the first one who notices that something has changed. When she asks Steve if something is wrong between the two of them, he tells her about what happened and says that it’s fine, that he’s trying to respect Eddie’s boundaries, and that he just needs some time to get over it. When she later asks Eddie the same question, Eddie answers that it’s fine, that he just needed to set some boundaries so that he could get over his unrequited feelings for Steve.

Robin takes a moment to hate both of them for being such idiots and then decides to tell Eddie that he might have misread the situation. The first time Eddie stretches out his hand to casually let it rest on Steve’s knee mid-conversation, Steve flinches under his touch. That doesn’t scare Eddie off, though. He keeps greeting Steve with hugs, he keeps brushing his hands over Steve’s shoulders and chest, he keeps whispering private jokes into his ear. And gradually, Steve starts to relax under his touches. On a quiet nigh with just the two of them, when Eddie locks eyes with him while tracing the moles on his cheek with his finger, Steve finally allows himself to believe that he might have been wrong after all, that maybe, just maybe, Eddie could love someone like him.

I feel like a dj exclusively playing requests from slightly feral girls with impeccable taste and i'm loving it, here you go @corrodedcoughin :

The tension in the air between them is almost tangible and the sensation of Eddie's fingers so softly touching his skin leaves Steve barely able to think anymore. There's something in those big brown eyes that tells him he's safe.

'If I didn't know any better, I'd start suspecting you were gay, Munson,' he murmurs.

'What if I am?' Eddie's question is little more than a whisper against his skin.

'Then we have something in common.'

Eddie keeps staring at him.

Steve has been the one going in for the kiss often enough. It's a skill he has perfected over years of practice: smoothly leaning in, a girl looking up at him with an expectant gaze, passively waiting for him to close the distance between them. But he has never been the one getting kissed. He can't look away from Eddie's eyes; he stays frozen in his place as Eddie slowly moves closer to him. Only when Eddie's lips touch his, his body remembers how to move, how to wrap his arms around Eddie and pull him as close to him as possible. It is in that moment that Steve finds out how much he loves to be the one getting kissed.

Map of the Mediterranean States of America

theyre not even microtransactions anymore its just straight up full size purchases. like anything over a dollar thats a whole purchase. stop letting them get away with calling them micro. theres nothing micro about 20 dollars

As a trans woman I can confirm that they indeed found an ancient forest inside a 630ft deep sinkhole in China

cis people can reblog this but keep it on subject, please

Happy pride month everyone always remember that the sinkhole has an ecosystem large enough to house not only insects but likely several species of small birds or mammals

Hey Goth Mutuals, Stay Hydrated

Dear Tumblr,

Look, I know it’s annoying and tiring, what with our xenophobic, racist, capitalist, and ableist world and its nonstop injustices and grievances. But as a Chinese-American woman who’s experienced my fair share of verbal harassment for my race and gender, I’d really appreciate it if you would take a moment to read and reflect about the anti-AAPI hate crimes taking place not just recently, but since before the beginning of the pandemic. It’s too easy to sweep these things under the rug in the interest of attending to more urgent crises and social justice movements, but the AAPI community shouldn’t be an afterthought in the big picture of things, especially marginalized groups within this group, including working class, sex workers, those who don’t fit into so-called “model minority”. Credits to Dear Asian Youth on IG. I haven’t seen it shared on Tumblr yet, but maybe it has already; either way, it would be nice if you could reblog it as well. If you’d rather not read, feel free to keep scrolling but unfollow me first. Image ID at the end.

Image ID:

Image 1: On March 16th, a gunman murdered 8 people at several Asian-run massage spas in Atlanta. Six of the victims were Asian women. CW: violence, mass shooting, racism, death

Image 2: What happened: At 4:50 PM, the first shooting occurred at Young’s Asian Massage in Acworth, where four people were murdered. Around 5:47 PM, Atlanta police responded to another shooting that occurred at Gold Spa, where they found three women shot. While at the scene, police received a report of shots fired at Aromatherapy Spa, where the body of another woman was found.

The police later arrested the shooter in Crisp County at approximately 8:00 PM, who later told law enforcement that he has a “sexual addiction.”

Image 3: Fetishization: Cherokee County sheriff Jay Baker reduced the shooting to the perpetrator having a “really bad day” because he wanted to “eliminate” a “temptation” from his “sexual addiction.”

This justification stems from “yellow fever”, an outdated and racist ideology that objectifies and fetishizes Asian women and contributes to the dehumanization of sex workers. Yellow fever promotes the belief that Asian women are exotic, submissive, and docile.

Comments like “love you long time” and “happy ending” continue to stigmatize, fetishize, and downplay violence against Asian women.

Image 4: Despite evidence of racial bias, many publicized attacks during the pandemic have not been treated as hate crimes, leaving many in the AAPI community to believe that anti-Asian violence is not being taken seriously. These crimes are rooted in racism and hatred towards Asian communities. CALL IT A HATE CRIME.

Image 5: RISE IN ANTI-ASIAN HATE CRIMES: Stop AAPI Hate recently released its latest national report, which shows that 3,795 anti-Asian hate incidents have been recorded from March 2020 to February 2021. A majority of these incidents (68%) were reported by women.

The increase in anti-Asian sentiment can be partially attributed to the widespread use of terms such as “Kung Flu,” “Chinese Virus,” and “Wuhan Virus” by high-profile officials such as former U.S. President Donald Trump. Many continue to use these terms, despite how it has instigated harassment and violence toward the Asian community.

Image 6: A GLOBAL ISSUE: The rise in anti-Asian hate crimes is not a uniquely American issue. In countries with significant Asian populations such as Canada and the United Kingdom, hate crimes against Asians are also increasing.

Canada: In Vancouver, hate crimes against Asian Canadians rose by 717%. Hate crimes in Ottawa increased by 57%, with most of the victims being of East or Southeast Asian descent. Montreal reported a spike of 30 hate crimes and racist acts specifically targeting Asians.

UK: The UK has seen a 300% increase in hate crimes targeting East and Southeast Asians since the start of the pandemic. Anti-Asian hate crimes have increased after every lockdown period, rising from 261 to 395 per month between April and June 2020.

Image 7: WHAT CAN YOU DO? Check the tagged accounts! Share this post to raise awareness. Share resources and informative posts on social media:

·        Safety Tips from Stop AAPI Hate

·        Stay Safe from Hate booklet by the Asian American Federation

Donate to the cause

·        National Asian Pacific American Women’s Forum, Georgia Chapter

·        Asian American Advocacy Fund (AASF)

·        Butterfly, an Asian and migrant sex workers network

Check in and support your Asian friends. Use your voice to uplift and amplify the AAPI community.

Image 8: Attend Bystander Intervention Training from Hollaback! & AAJC and call out microaggressions and racist jokes.

Follow Asian news and activists

Support working class Asian families by supporting their businesses

Mental Health Resources

·        CalHOPE emotional support hotline: 833-317-HOPE

·        National Queer Asian Pacific Islander Alliance (NQAPIA) (nqapia.org)

·        Asian Mental Health Collective (asianmhc.org)

We demand more than solidarity. We want solutions.

Image 9: SOURCES

·        NPR: 8 People, Many of Them Asian, Shot Dead At Atlanta-Area Massage Parlors; Man Arrested

·        AP News: Georgia massage parlor shootings leave 8 dead; man captured

·        Huffington Post: In 2021, Asian Canadians Document Hate Crimes To Be Believed

·        NBC News: Anti-Asian hate crimes increased by nearly 150% in 2020, mostly in NY and LA, new report says

·        STOP AAPI HATE NATIONAL REPORT

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Wanda Maximoff + outfits WANDAVISION (2021)

Animaniacs (1993) S1EP17, “Chalkboard Bungle”

in the sixth months after graduating from college, with my very expensive degree from a good college, i ate nothing but bread. i worked at a bakery / cafe / restaurant and got half off one meal per shift but it was still too expensive even then. but at the end of every night we would throw out all the bread loaves that hadn’t sold, which was most of them, every night. we would fill up ten boxes to give away to a shelter and then we could take anything we could carry, and i couldn’t afford a half off deconstructed sandwich, but i could fill the cabinets of my apartment with bread. everyone who worked there was just like me, subsisting on discarded, overpriced bread. 

(when the managers’ backs were turned i was taught to leave the trashbags of bread behind the dumpster rather than inside it, because it was locked after everyone left to prevent people from stealing from it. we would say we were going out to stack chairs and instead stack prepackaged salads prepared that morning in the narrow space between wall and dumpster, but that’s not what this is about.)

we were working valentine’s day, a little bit miserable about it, because customers are somehow worse on a holiday about love ,and even if we were single we didn’t want to be here, and most of us had people we’d rather be spending the day with, and the snappish, hardass manager was working that day, and everyone could not wait for the day to be over. 

we had a boxes of those bakery tissue sheets around and i was twisting it in my hands and i thought about how the first night my uncle spent with my aunt he had to get up early for work but didn’t want to wake her and the whole thing hadn’t been planned, exactly, so he (a roofer by trade and a golden glove boxer by sport) went into the kitchen and took some paper towels and twisted them between his big, scarred hands until it formed a sweeter shape and when my aunt work up it was to a paper towel rose on her pillow. 

so i used a couple sheets of bakery tissue to make a rose and walked up to my coworker who stared at me with a rictus smile and i gave it to her, trying not overthink if it was a weird thing to do. her smile slipped and she asked “you made this?” holding it carefully, like it wasn’t something her two year old son could have made with his pudgy hands, and i shrugged and got more milk from the back. 

then another coworker held the steamer too long when frothing milk, not on accident but because he was irritated, so i rolled another rose and tucked it in his apron pocket as i walked by. then it was just one more of us up front and it was nothing, thirty seconds of twisting paper to take the stack of cookies out of her hands and hand her a tissue paper rose, her lined face lifting into a grin as she proudly tucked it into the chest pocket of her shirt and i may as well have been standing in front of the ovens for how hot my face felt. 

it was such a silly thing to do, i felt ridiculous, giving away hastily constructed tissue paper roses on valentine’s day, clumsy artful garbage. then one of the servers walked by and noticed and so i made her one too, and then other servers came by, leaning over the glass, and complimenting the flowers with big eyes, and i laughed and made more, still not sure if it was sincere, but even if it wasn’t, i figured making them one and handing it over was better than saying no. 

then i went to the back again and the dishwasher yelled out “where”s mine? what about us?” and he was too sweet to ever be anything less than sincere, so someone kept an eye on the door to the manager’s office as i stood in the sweltering kitchen and rolled clumsy tissue paper roses, enough for everyone 

and by the time the day ended, everyone had one, everyone wore one, tucked in their shirt or their apron or stuck in their hair or taped to the top of their pen. everyone was a little less miserable, smiling like we were all on in on the joke, although i don’t think any of us knew the punchline 

this story doesn’t have a punchline either. i just sometimes think of how much better some crumpled tissue paper made things and think that it can be that easy, sometimes, if we’re sincere and don’t overthink it too much

i know vitamin c basically neutralizes adhd meds but lemonade good

yea lol

ADHD Medication information sheet

I have been struggling

For a long fucking time

with why my adderall was having such uneven effects and varying efficacy

and the weird pattern of what made it work and not work and if it was building up in my system or not

and fucking nobody told me I shouldn’t drink a glass of Kool-Aid to take the pills with

or eat fucking Pop-Tarts or Life cereal

this is the most useful information I have ever received from tubr and it seems to be confirmed by several other places upon searching

so this actually should be spread like wildfire like actually

Me reading this realizing tunglr dawt kom gave me more information about my medication than MYDOCTORRRRRSSSSSS MYYYYYYYY FUCKENNNNN DOCTORSSSSS PLURAL MULTIPLE DOCTORSSSSSSSS

Reblogging to spread this ridiculously important info

Also if you are ANEMIC and take IRON SUPPLEMENTS DO NOT TAKE WITH CAFFEINE. No coffee, caffeinated tea, etc. The caffeine will block iron absorption and you won’t actually get any of that iron that you just took!!

shane "eat the rich" madej

Anime is still a mistake

anyone else horny as fuck right now

Literally what the fuck

Me: Haha wow she can jump pretty high

Me, five seconds later:

then what she just fucked off with the hat?

Yo what the fuck

i hate when someone says “don’t make jokes about rednecks and hillbillies” and some white 21 year old trying to be ‘woke’ says “haha… go ahead and cry your white tears sweatie (:”

no one thinks it’s a racial issue against white people. that’s not why people say to stop that shit. it’s an issue of classism. because the truth is that the majority of y’all who think you’re amazing activists just REALLY fucking hate appalachian people, and i know that because y’all think it’s funny to say “karma’s a bitch!” when something bad happens to an appalachian state.

you don’t care about the poverty in the appalachia and you don’t care about queer people and/or people of color who live in the appalachia. you don’t care about education in the appalachia and you don’t care that these low rates of education mean higher rates of poverty and child poverty, which persist over the years. rural children are twice as likely to live in areas with persistent poverty. you care that poverty stricken children are statistically less likely to not have timely immunizations, have higher delinquency rates, and have lower academic achievement — but only when we’re talking about urban areas outside of the appalachia.

people in our region die earlier than most. mortality rates are higher in the appalachia, and they’re even higher for people of color that live in the appalachia. suicide rates are higher than anywhere else in the country by 17% — it’s 31% higher in central appalachia, and in rural areas within the appalachia, it’s 27% higher than metro appalachia. cancer morality rate is 10% higher, and it’s 15% higher in rural appalachia than metro appalachia. COPD mortality rate is 27% higher, and 55% higher in rural appalachia than metro appalachia. injury mortality rate is 33% higher, and it’s 47% higher in rural appalachia than in metro appalachia. stroke mortality rate is 14% higher — and you guessed it’s, these rates are higher in rural areas vs metro areas by 8%. the rate of Years of Potential Life Lost, which measures premmature mortality from all causes of death, is 25% higher in appalachia, and 40% higher in rural vs metro areas.

the appalachia has an opioid epidemic. in 2015, our rate of death with drugs was 65% higher than the national average. 69% of those drug deaths were from opioids. these deaths have a connection to our poverty and education rates. the poorer you are, and the less educated you are, the more likely you are to die from an opioid death.

when i say “don’t make jokes about rednecks and hillbillies”, that doesn’t mean i think you’re being racist against white people (and again — the majority of people who claim this also happen to be white 🙄). i say that because you are perpetuating extremely toxic rhetoric about our region, you are promoting stigma, you are encouraging blatant classism, and you are furthering the idea that we somehow “deserve” it because our elected officials vote republican. it’s not cute. stop acting like none of us have the right to call you out on your classist bullshit. like i’m sorry if this comes off as too aggressive but i am sooooo sick of y’all thinking it’s funny that our region is suffering.

and before anyone asks me for resources and links: google exists. i did my research and you can do it too.

EDIT: https://www.arc.gov/assets/research_reports/Health_Disparities_in_Appalachia_Trends_in_Appalachian_Health.pdf here, since y’all are too fucking obnoxiously incapable of taking 2.3 seconds google and instead want to claim I pulled random numbers from my asshole

also here https://www.arc.gov/assets/research_reports/Health_Disparities_in_Appalachia_August_2017.pdf

I am Appalachian American, and I approve this message.

Everyone knows the higher rate of racism among poorer, less educated people is a product of being poorer and less educated, not the other way around, and yet if you suggest the hatred and radicalism might go down as we improve everyone’s lives a lot of white liberals just wither up and shriek like a vampire in a sunbeam because they’d then have to admit that their perceived wokeness is more a by-product of their privilege than any intellectual or moral superiority they have any right to be proud of.