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work is disabling; disability is class-enforcing. adjust ur ideological paradigms accordingly

Can someone elaborate?

sure!

work is disabling

  • physical labour is a literal strain on your body. historically this has been a given of certain forms of labour, eg, even before the official recognition of disability, mine workers in many parts of the world received disproportionately high wages compared to other jobs because it was understood that your body would break down by the time you were 40-50 and you wouldn’t be able to work anymore. the high wages were for supporting you after that, but they were only present where unions had been able to force this demand on bosses; there’s a reason mine working has historically been a common form of slave or indentured labour. this example is an obvious one (and one i wouldn’t want to rely on for various reasons) but if you’ve worked stocking supermarket shelves, or cleaning, or as a barista, or as a farm labour, you will know that being on your feet for hours on end, the repetitive movements required to complete tasks, the strain of constant attention, these all take their toll
  • work environments are stress inducing and long term stress has both physical and mental effects. it can change how you approach other people, how you regulate your emotions, how you relate to social settings. stress can produce strains, it can produce headaches, it can produce tightness in muscles that are can cause injury
  • when you need to work to provide food, rent, clothing for yourself, you are not as able to protect yourself from health and safety risks. you are more exposed to disease and to other health risks, depending on the job, and you are less able to effectively rest and recover, thus increasing the likelihood of long term complications

disability is class enforcing

  • being disabled is expensive. simply getting healthcare at all can be prohibitively expensive for many people. this is not even to mention mobility aids or other specialised equipment. you may have to spend more on specialised diets or accommodation. you may need to hire personal assistants or other forms of labour to complete certain tasks for you
  • there are less jobs that you are able to work. you are less likely to be able to work long term. you are less likely to be able to work longer hours, and your partners may also have to work shorter hours to care for you. you are more likely to be forced into precarious employment or onto benefits which, which available, are pitifully small
  • you are more likely to face job discrimination and more likely to face housing discrimination. the housing you are able to get is likely to be more expensive
  • you are more vulnerable to abuse, either domestic, or in public, or by the state. this is increasingly the case if you are Black or a migrant or a woman or trans or homeless, etc, and it’s increasingly the case the more poor you become

this is not a complete list, it’s just what i could think of off the top of my head (and i just woke up too lol). i hope that clarifies some of the factors i am thinking of here. feel free to ask if there is anything that is unclear

No one should ever be more than a 15-20 walk away from

- food (staple foods, not fast food, candy, or other junk)

- their workplace (no long commutes)

- medical treatment

Anything more complicated, specialized, or difficult to put in an isolated or rural area should be accessible via reliable, frequent public transportation - busses, trains, or similar leaving every 10-20 minutes

This will work against ecological damage from overuse of the automobile and improve quality of life in general.

Easily my most controversial post ever.

Haven't seen any posts for you guys, so... happy disability pride month to Deaf/HoH folks. Happy disability pride month to those with hearing aids or cochlear implants, and those without them. Happy disability pride month to those who use ASL as their primary language, and those who don't know ASL at all. Happy disability pride month to those with equal hearing loss in both ears, and to those with uneven hearing loss or hearing loss that only effects one ear. Happy disability pride month to those who were born with their hearing loss, and happy disability pride month to those who acquired their hearing loss over their lifetime. And lastly—happy disability pride month to my besties with SSHL (Sudden Sensorineural Hearing Loss). Stay strong <3

What you can work on if you are in SAG.

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[image ID: a graphic with a blue background. At the very top is a white box with purple text that says "SAG-AFTRA TV/THEATRICAL/STREAMING STRIKE." Below that to the left is the SAG-AFTRA logo of a person with their arm raised, and centered in large yellow letters mimicking the famous Hollywood sign is the words "ON STRIKE." Below it in white text over black background it says, "What you CAN work on! Many of our members can and should keep working under various other contracts. Here's a quick look at some of the contracts members can work under during the TV/Theatrical/Streaming strike."

There is a white button that says "This includes the following" and then the list:

  • Commercials: Television, Radio & Digital Media (includes the Influencer Agreement and the Cameo for Business Agreement)
  • Television programs covered by the Network TV Code (soap operas, variety shows, talk shows and game shows)
  • Sound Recordings
  • Music Videos
  • Interactive/Video Game Agreement
  • Corporate/Educational & Non-Broadcast (formerly "Industrial") Programs
  • Station Contracts & Broadcast News
  • Television & New Media Animation
  • Dubbing
  • Audiobooks
  • Short Project Agreement (SPA)
  • Micro Budget Project Agreement (Micro)
  • Student Film Agreement
  • Independent New Media Agreement (deferrable)
  • Independent Podcast Agreement & Micro-Monetized Podcast Agreement (includes scripted performance and hosting)
  • SAG-AFTRA-approved interim Agreements (These are for independent productions that would normally be covered by the TV/Theatrical Contracts, and which have qualified for such an agreement with SAG-AFTRA)
  • And certain separately negotiated basic cable agreements

At the bottom of the graphic it says "For a comprehensive list of all affected work and further guidelines, visit SAGAFTRASTRIKE.ORG

In smaller text below it says, "As a SAG-AFTRA member, you must observe these rules. Any violation could result in union disciplinary action. If you have any questions about specific work or projects, we're here to help. By standing together during the strike, we will get a fair contract." end ID.]

just a reminder - do NOT boycott streaming services or not watch new things. the unions have not called for one for a reason. for one, it affects residual payments, which as minimal as those currently are, actors are still getting them during this time, and for two, studios will use lack of viewership as an excuse to cancel shows because you are showing them there is no demand. it deeply affects the industry the writers and actors stand to come back to once the strike is over

Also: going to these places puts pressure and demand on the company. Demand they can't meet without actors and writers. That puts stress on them, and stress is good.

^^^^ive been looking for a rb with this addition because YES. if a customer wants a burger and there is no cook to make it, that puts pressure on the owner to pay the cook what they want so the customer will still give them money. if there is no customer, the owner has no reason for the cook to make burgers

Stop watching IF AND ONLY IF the unions call for a boycott. For the time being since they haven't, streaming the shows actually helps. You're not crossing a picket line to watch because that picket line does not exist unless a boycott is called for.

*possible incidents may include: chaos mutation, wish granting, regular mutation, shapeshifting gone wrong, combining your dead dream-self with your omniscient, faceless, green-flickering pet and then recombining upon apotheosis, surgical modification, and HRT

**includes ears, horns, antennae, additional eyes, pedipalps, spines, frills, feathers, external gills, and tentacles

***tail, abdomen, whatever

just now realizing that I never voted on this

yeah sure I'll be a dog, one of those big fluffy white ones, like a husky

woof

i love you people with weak faces i love you people who have trouble making expressions or can't make expressions at all i love you people who "always look sad" or anxious or dazed i love you people with heavy eyelids whose eyes don't want to stay open and who have folds by their mouths and saggy wrinkly faces and atrophied and squishy and floppy muscles i love you people who are incontinent and who drool and have to lean forward to swallow or can't swallow at all i love you people who hold their arms to their chests whatever the reason i love you people who contort or curl their hands or twist their arms i love you people whose legs and feet are floppy i love you people whose feet knock into everything all the time because they either can't feel them or they're just hard to move

i love you people with lopsided faces i love you people with lazy eyes and strabismus i love you people with protruding brows and high foreheads and small noses and far apart or close together eyes i love you people whose ears stick out and who have trouble with hats and masks because it gives them elf ears i love you people with baby faces i love you people below 5'3

i love you people who wheeze badly when they laugh or laugh like "ha. haaaa. ha. ha. haaaa" i love you people with nasal voices i love you people who always have their mouths open i love you people who breathe loudly either through their nose or mouth i love you people who lose their balance a lot i love you people with stroke symptoms

i love you people who can't walk in a straight line i love you people with different gaits i love you people who are always knocking stuff over, spilling stuff, falling, bumping into things, accidentally hurting themselves, dropping stuff, slapping stuff, and throwing stuff

i love you people whose legs want to fuse together really bad i love you people whose feet fall toward each other i love you people who can't lift their legs or arms i love you people with stiff legs i love you people with hemiparesis i love you people with knock knees i love you people with flat feet or very high arches or claw toes

i love you people with atrophied faces or legs or arms or necks i love you people with claw hands i love you people with scoliosis and lordosis and kyphosis i love you people with floppy necks i love you people with hypertonia or dystonia or spasticity

i don't know a lot of stuff

i just love you and i'm glad you exist

you deserve to see yourself in media and art and advocacy and activism and to be respected and supported

i know i've made this kind of post so many times. i don't care. it's never enough

Independent bookstores around the country have a particularly clever lifeline, one perfectly suited to the unprecedented moment we find ourselves in. The strange part? It came into being just weeks before the World Health Organization declared the coronavirus outbreak a pandemic, and before the bookstores started closing up shop wondering if they’d reopen at all.
The lifeline in question is called Bookshop
In simple terms, it’s a super clean, user-friendly online bookstore whose raison d’être is supporting independent bookstores — not simply with exposure or resources (though that’s certainly a factor), but with cold hard cash…

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From their Choose a Bookstore tab

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“Unfinished Painting” — Keith Haring

This painting was left intentionally incomplete. Haring began it when he was dying due to complications from AIDS, and knew he didn’t have much time left. The piece represents the incomplete lives of him and many others, lost to AIDS during the crisis.

“AIDS Memorial Quilt” — Multiple

This quilt is over 50 tons heavy, and one of, if not the, largest pieces of community folk art. Many people who died of AIDS did not receive funerals, due to social stigma and many funeral homes refusing to handle the deceased’s remains, so this was one of the only ways their lives could be celebrated. Each panel was created recognition of someone who died due to AIDS, typically by that person’s loved ones.

“Untitled” — Felix Gonzalez-Torres

This pile of candy weighs the same amount as an average adult man. Visitors are encouraged to take some of the candy. As they do so, the pile of candy weighs less and less. This is a commentary on how AIDS deteriorates the body of those who have it, as Gonzalez-Torres’ partner, Ross Laycock, had died due to AIDS-related complications that same year.

The SF Gay Men's Chorus

This photo was taken in 1993. The men in white are the surviving original members. Every man in black is standing in for an original member who lost their lives to AIDS.

“Electric Fan (Feel it Motherfuckers); Only Unclaimed Item from the Stephen Earabino Estate, 1997” — John Boskovich

After the death of his lover, Stephen Earabino, from AIDS, Boskovich discovered that his family had completely cleared his room, including Boskovich’s own possessions, save for this fan. An entire person, existence and relationship had been erased, just like so many lives during the AIDS crisis. Boskovich encased the fan in Plexiglass, but added cutouts so that its air may be felt by the viewer, almost like an exhalation. In a sense, restoring Earabino’s breath.

“Blue” — Derek Jarman

This was Jarman’s final feature film, released four months before his death from AIDS-related complications. These complications had left him visually impaired, able to only see in shades of blue. This film consists of a single shot of a saturated blue color, as the soundtrack to the film described Jarman’s life through narration, intercut with the adventures of Blue, a humanization of the color blue. The film's final moments consist of a set of repeated names: “John. Daniel. Howard. Graham. Terry. Paul". These are the names of former lovers and friends of Jarman who had died due to AIDS.

“Untitled” (Perfect Lovers) — Felix Gonzalez-Torres

Created by the same man who created the previous untitled piece, this piece was also inspired by his lover’s deterioration and death due to AIDS. This piece consists of two perfectly alike clocks. Over the course of time, one of the clocks will fall out of sync with the other.
In a letter written to his lover about the piece, before his lover’s passing, Gonzalez-Tourres wrote, “Don't be afraid of the clocks, they are our time, the time has been so generous to us. We imprinted time with the sweet taste of victory. We conquered fate by meeting at a certain time in a certain space. We are a product of the time, therefore we give back credit were it is due: time. We are synchronized, now forever. I love you.”

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it wouldn’t surprise me if this person is just claiming to be a lesbian like kellie jay keen, but she’s one hell of a fucking pick me if she is actually a lesbian and this is the kind of shit she’s saying. clearly doesn’t know an ounce of queer history either.

gay bars were set up not for cishet comfort but for our comfort. because cishets were fucking killing us and we could literally be arrested.

“uwu pleaaaase mr cishet, let me lick your boots clean! I promise I’m one of the good gays and won’t make you uncomfortable! I love the taste of dirty leather so much!” get over yourself, you pathetic waste of space 💀

This is the most ahistorical take Ive ever seen regarding the history of queer spaces. @thelittlelionofvalleyforge could probably explain it better than me though.

Yeah it was less we realised we made the poor homophobes uncomfortable so we made our own spaces and more that the homophobes literally wanted to kill us so we made our own spaces to avoid being murdered. And even then they came into our spaces so they could find and kill us.

In the 18th century men who had sex with men were known as mollies. Mollies would meet in molly houses (somewhat similar to a modern gay bar). As sex between men was illegal under anti-sodomy law the locations of molly houses were secret. However sometimes the police would discover the location of a molly house then raid the molly house and arrest anyone they had enough evidence to charge with anything.

For example on a Sunday night in February 1726 Mother Clap's Molly House was raided. In connection with the raid Gabriel Lawrence, William Griffin and Thomas Wright were all executed for sodomy. Ecclestone died in Newgate awaiting trial. William Brown was found guilty of "Intent to commit Sodomy" and was sentenced “to stand in the Pillory in Moorfields, pay 10 Marks, and suffer a Year’s Imprisonment.” And Margaret Clap was found guilty of “keeping a House in which she procur’d and encourag’d Persons to commit Sodomy” and sentenced “to stand in the Pillory in Smith field, pay a Fine of 20 Marks, and suffer two Years Imprisonment.” (see Trial of Gabriel Lawrence, 20 April, 1726; Trial of William Griffin, 20 April, 1726; Trial of Thomas Wright, 20 April, 1726; Trial of William Brown, 11 July 1726; Trial of Margaret Clap, 11 July, 1726)

For those sentenced to the pillory the public was not kind. On the 30th of July 1726 the Weekly Journal, or British Gazetteer reported:

On Tuesday, Margaret Clap, who had been convicted of keeping a disorderly House, stood in the Pillory in West-Smithfield, where being unable to bear the Salutes of the Rabble, she swooned away twice, and was carried off in Convulsion Fits to Newgate.

Trans and gender diverse people have always been part of these communities. Princess Seraphina was part of the molly community in London during the 1720s and 1730s. She did "sodomiting Errands" carrying messages between mollies and she was bridesmaid at Moll Irons wedding to an another molly. (James Dalton’s Narrative, 1728) Seraphina would sometimes wear men's clothes and other times women's clothes and it seems many of her friends used she/her pronouns for her although others used he/him.

Mary Poplet, who kept the Two Sugar-Loaves in Drury-Lane, recalls:

I have known her Highness a pretty while, she us’d to come to my House from Mr. Tull, to enquire after some Gentlemen of no very good Character; I have seen her several times in Women’s Cloaths, she commonly us’d to wear a white Gown, and a scarlet Cloak, with her Hair frizzled and curl’d all round her Forehead; and then she would so flutter her Fan, and make such fine Curties, that you would not have known her from a Woman: She takes great Delight in Balls and Masquerades, and always chuses to appear at them in a Female Dress, that she may have the Satisfaction of dancing with fine Gentlemen. Her Highness lives with Mr. Tull in Eagle-Court in the Strand, and calls him her Master, because she was Nurse to him and his Wife when they were both in a Salivation; but the Princess is rather Mr. Tull’s Friend, than his domestick Servant. I never heard that she had any other Name than the Princess Sraphina.

(Trial of Thomas Gordon, 5 July 1732)

Gay and lesbian activism and trans activism have always been closely linked. Late-19th/early-20th century gay rights activist Magnus Hirschfeld campaigned against Paragraph 175 (which made sex between men a crime in Germany) but also fought for freedom in gender expression. Hirschfeld convinced the Berlin Police to issue a transvestitenschein (transvestite licence) for people who were more comfortable wearing clothes of the gender opposite to their agab. He argued that these licence were essential to their well-being and even survival. Hirschfeld also helped people legally change their name to one that matched their gender identity. (The Administration of Gender Identity in Nazi Germany by Jane Caplan, p174)

[Transvestitenschein (transvestite licence) issued to Käthe T., c. 1928, via The Early 20th-Century ID Cards That Kept Trans People Safe From Harassment by Natasha Frost]

Translation:

The worker Käthe T., born in Berlin in 1910, resident at 8 Muthesiushof, Britz, is locally known to wear men's clothing.

Magnus Hirschfeld was also the founder of the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft (Institute for Sexual Science) where Dora Richter was the first trans women to receive vaginoplasty in 1931.

Jane Caplan explains:

The transvestite belonged in Hirschfeld's schema of intermediate sexualities (Zwischenstufe) which challenged the dichotomous norm of male and female. For these reasons, Hirschfeld was a target of particular Nazi venom and his institute and its principles of sexual enlightenment fell immediate victim to the new regime.

While trans and gender nonconforming people have always been part of the community there has unfortunately been a longstanding issue with transphobia within the community. Transphobic LGB people have always wanted to push trans people out of the community, even trans people who were actively involved in fighting for gay and lesbian rights. During the 1973 Christopher Street Liberation Day Jean O'Leary (founder of Lesbian Feminist Liberation) tried to stop Sylvia Reveria (cofounder of STAR Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries) from speaking. Reveria responded with her iconic Y’all Better Quiet Down speech (I'm going to include a excerpt below but I recommend watching the whole thing):

I will not put up with this shit. I have been beaten. I have had my nose broken. I have been thrown in jail. I have lost my job. I have lost my apartment for gay liberation and you all treat me this way? What the fuck’s wrong with you all? Think about that! I do not believe in a revolution, but you all do. I believe in the Gay Power. I believe in us getting our rights, or else I would not be out there fighting for our rights. That’s all I wanted to say to you people. If you all want to know about the people in jail – and do not forget Bambi L’Amour, Andorra Marks, Kenny Messner, and other gay people in jail – come and see the people at STAR House on Twelfth Street on 640 East Twelfth Street between B and C apartment 14. The people are trying to do something for all of us, and not men and women that belong to a white, middle-class white club. And that’s what you all belong to! Revolution now! Gimme a ‘G’! Gimme an ‘A’! Gimme a ‘Y’! Gimme a ‘P’! Gimme an ‘O’! Gimme a ‘W’! Gimme an ‘E! Gimme an ‘R’! huh— Gay power. Louder! Gay Power!”

O'Leary would later regret the way she treated Reveria and other trans women:

Looking back, I find this so embarrassing because my views have changed so much since then. I would never pick on a transvestite now. In the late seventies, I stayed at a hotel in Florida that was full of transvestites and transexuals. They were wonderful, darling, loveable people who I got to know as people. I got to know their lives and their stories, who they were, why they were.

O'Leary also talked about excluding trans people in gay rights activism and the hypocrisy of doing that while fighting against the exclusion of lesbians in the feminist movement:

I was involved in another conflict with transvestites around this time. It was very painful. We were working on getting the gay rights bill passed in New York City, trying to structure a bill that would be passable. Early on, the transvestites wanted to be included in the bill as a protected group. Politically, we had to say, "This doesn't work. We are never going to get the bill through the City Council if transvestites are included in the bill. This is not what our battle is about. It's about gay rights, not transvestite rights. We're talking about being able to love someone of your own sex, being able to have a relationship. This is not about how we dress." So the transvestites were excluded from the bill, and they never got reinstated. It was an extremely hard thing to do; it was horrible. How could I work to exclude transvestites and at the same time criticize the feminists who were doing their best back in those days to exclude lesbians?

(Making History: the Struggle for Gay and Lesbian Equal Rights, 1945-1990, by Eric Marcus, p266-267)

Those last couple of quotes are very important to me because terfs will constantly say “talk to gay elders!!!1” and many gay elders, in my experience, will not only tell you that trans people were very much present in the community but will also say “we treated them like shit though, it was awful”. Because they realised oppressing other groups didn’t change their own oppression and made them just as bad as their own oppressors, which is something modern day terfs have not yet woken up to.

I actually did not know this, probably bc of the fact a lot of people do not mention it :/ thanks for this addition!

The problem with "you can choose to wear a mask or not," is that masks mostly protect other people. So if you choose not to mask, you're actually removing someone's ability to try to protect themselves.

We know that if you wear a mask it does protect you, but only marginally. In the end, it's everyone wearing masks that prevents the spread of covid from one person to another. This is because if you have covid the mask catches the viral particles you are exhaling before they can get into the air, where covid is airborne and hangs in the air like smoke for several hours.

People who are masking are mostly protecting you. If you're in the presence of someone wearing a mask, it's literally common courteousy to do the same.

imagine if doorways grew back like scabbed over with fresh drywall and you had to keep carving them back out with a jabsaw to keep the doorway clear etc

Imagine if the membranes recoiled in pain every time you did this. Imagine if over time, some doorways became accustomed sensation. Imagine that very rarely, some even seemed to enjoy it.

*sleepover host voice* imagine if you two went to sleep