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Sapphic As Fuck Books That You Haven’t Heard Of

yeah bitches i’m back and I have some God Dang Thoughts. all of them are about sapphic novels I’ve read this year and have seen nothing about on this platform!! sapphic fiction is getting its day in the sun and y'all have not yet NOTICED and it’s time to fix that

  1. Girl Made of Stars by Ashley Herring Blake [May 2018!!] - this is about a bi girl working to figure out both her brother’s role in a rape of her best friend and her own trauma, especially in how it affected her relationship with her ex, Charlie [who’s nb!] Charlie and Mara are my literal otp of the year and this book is one of the most quality ya books I have ever read. I cried and laughed and connected so much. 
  2. Leah on the Offbeat by Becky Albertalli - this is the only one I haven’t read, but if you wanted Leah to end up with Abby after watching Love, Simon, maybe read the sequel where she actually does
  3. Final Draft by Riley Redgate [May 2018!!] - this book is about being an ambitious and depressed and biracial and pan as hell seventeen year old and it is so funny. what gets me about this one is that the characters are so real - Laila’s inner narrative especially is so incredibly well-done, I feel like I both know her and am her and love her. also, Hannah and Laila sailing was the most important moment of this year so far. a goddamn callout of a book
  4. The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid - the best heterobait of 2017. I spent five extended hours of my life crying over Evelyn and Celia and I plan to spend more. very Literary Historical Fiction that reads like your typical pulpy mystery but is so much better. literally perfect. thank you for coming to my Ted Talk
  5. Black Iris by Elliot Wake - ooooooh my god.  if you’ve ever wanted to read about Murder Gays who Kill Shitty Men this is your book and you should read it [tw for sexual assault and homophobic bullying] ooooooooo hh  m yg od
  6. The Apocalypse of Elena Mendoza by Shaun David Hutchinson - the voice of god references that name game meme from two years ago. I do not kid. seriously, though, this book is so effortlessly weird and cool and quintessentially millennial. i would die for Elena’s flawed bad-at-decision-making sarcastic vulnerable latina bi ass. [oh, and her girlfriend is amazing].
  7. Jane Unlimited by Kristin Cashore - this is the wildest book ever written, maybe? I love it so much what the fuck
  8. Wild Beauty by Anna-Marie McLemore - sometimes a family can be five sisters all in love with the same genderqueer girl. no but seriously, this killed me. i cried for five hours. i cry a lot. this book is a literary masterpiece and belongs in every class on post-colonial writing and queer studies, but it also doesn’t Feel like annoying literary fiction but also you will probably feel really deep after reading it?
  9. Nevernight and Godsgrave by Jay Kristoff - invented enemies-to-lovers. another heterobait. they’re all assassins and the writing is overdramatic to the point of satire [yes, it’s intentional]. kind of hilarious for a book about murder. a walking meme that will make you sad
  10. Into the Drowning Deep by Mira Grant - it’s like Jaws but with bisexuals and mermaids. i k n o w it sounds really wild but i read this book in like one night and it was so goddamn entertaining but also so deep and yeah i’ll die if a sequel gets released
  11. Bright We Burn by Kiersten White [July 2018!!] - sometimes a family can be a useless gay, his competent lesbian wife, her girlfriend, and his boyfriend. LISTEN UP, BITCHES. this trilogy is now completed [!!!] and it is the most addicting trilogy on the market right now. it’s about becoming at home with yourself and finding religion in love [most of the leads are Muslim] and the power of the forgotten in history and i can’t believe kiersten white killed the bury-your-gays trope, personally. Nazira and Fatima don’t narrate, but they are such an important part of this book and I adore them both. love these four platonically married gays

anyway read my fucking weird gay books you’re welcome

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I can’t really understand people who complain about the possibility in “TEO: Skyrim” to marry a same-sex NPC ‘cause “it doesn’t fit with the whole medieval setting of the series”. Yeah, you’re right, how could Bethesda dare to do something so anachronistic? I mean, the wonderful Middle Ages, such a beautiful period. Remember those old good times when we could marry hot lizards?

Yeah Me neither

Ah yes, the Elder Scrolls, the medieval setting complete with orbital space stations, time-traveling cyborg demigods, and magic email.

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Plus, institutions very like same-gender marriage did exist in medieval Europe. Up until around the 13th Century, “spiritual brotherhood” ceremonies that were identical to marriages all but in name - including joining hands and reciting prayers at an altar and a ceremonial kiss at the end - were commonly performed between two men. Though prohibitions against the practice began to arise in the early 1300s (prohibitions which in themselves constitute evidence for the prevalence of such ceremonies - you don’t specifically ban something that never happens!), it’s believed that in some regions it persisted well into the 16th Century.

(And that’s without even touching on the matter of pirates…)

For anyone who wants to get their research started with a bang (several of these open as PDF):

People with a History – the history of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals and transgendered people, edited by Paul Halsall

Homosexuality in Medieval Iberia – extract from the Encyclopedia of Medieval Iberia (2003)

The 600 Year Tradition Behind Same-Sex Unions – by Allan Tulchin, History News Network

LESBIAN MOVIES 👭🎬

Circumstance (2011), lost and delirious (2001), when night is falling (1995), show me love (1998), better than chocolate (1999), the secret diaries of miss anne lister (2010), fire (1996), bound (1996), bye bye blondie (2011), d.e.b.s. (2004), room in rome (2010), gray matters (2006), puccini for beginners (2006), the incredibly true adventure of two girls in love (1995), the four faced liar (2010), desert hearts (1985), spider lilies (2007), concussion (2013), imagine me & you (2005), nina’s heavenly delights (2006), yes or no (2012), itty bitty titty committee (2007), but i’m a cheerleader (1999), saving face (2004), elena undone (2010), if these walls could talk 2 (2000), love my life (2006), tipping the velvet (2002), girl play (2004), fingersmith (2005), kiss me (2011), i can’t think straight (2008), love and suicide (2006), the world unseen (2007), cracks (2009), running on empty dreams (2009), my summer of love (2004), Albert Nobbs (2011), De Chica en Chica (2015), Blue is the Warmest Color, Carol (2015), Almost Adults (2016), Candy Rain (2008), Butterfly/ Hu Die (2004), Personal Best (1982)

Loving Annabelle (2006), Boys on the Side (1995), Once a Time With You (2013), Make Up (2011), Liz in September (2013), She Hate Me (2004), Without Men (2011), The Journey (2004)

Pariah (2011), Born in Flames (1983), Mosquita Y Mari (2012), The Fish Child (2009), Margarita with a Straw (2014), Chutney Popcorn (1999), The Watermelon Woman (1997), Set it Off (1996), Frida (2002), Stud Life (2012), Bessie (2015), The Women of Brewster Place—technically a miniseries but let it be—(1989), And the March Continues (1997), B.D. Women (1994), Cruel and Unusual (2006), Shinjuku Boys (1995), Rent (2005), Cloudburst (2011), Saving Face (2004), The Kids are Alright (2011), Lost and Delirious (2001), Joven y Alocada (2012), The Last Summer of la Boyita (2009), Mystère à la Tour Eiffel (2015)

Tilda Swinton risked arrest waving a rainbow flag in front of the Kremlin in violation of Russia’s new homosexual propaganda bill. And she wants everyone who can to reblog it in solidarity.

Guys please reblog this, it won’t ruin your blog, this is important

“Newlyweds in Australia shaded opponents of marriage equality Down Under in the most epic way: Stuart Henshall and James Brechney shredded “Vote No” posters into confetti for their wedding Saturday atop a float at Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras.

The couple, who both campaigned for marriage equality, held onto the homophobic fliers after the nationwide postal vote.” 

Read the full story here

“The first thing that was clear for both of us was our shared wish to have a child; I told him that I was looking for a father for my children and that this would be the purpose of our marriage. Being a woman in Algeria is difficult, but being a single mother is even harder!”
Amelle could have decided to adopt, but – as in many other countries – it is a long and drawn out process for couples in Algeria. It is especially hard if you are single. “Before, Farid had taken steps to adopt alone, but as a single man, he didn’t succeed, so we’re going to start a kind of homoparental family,” said Amelle. “There’s no reason why I should have a heterosexual sex life. My gynecologist knows I’m a lesbian and she said she’d organise everything – she knows the whole story.”
As soon as Amelle and Farid agreed what they were going to do, everything went quite quickly. She introduced Farid to her family. “He’s a very nice chap. My family loved him and immediately adopted him as one of their own,” Amelle recalled. He followed tradition by coming with his parents to ask for Amelle’s hand in marriage. They got engaged in March 2017, and are planning on tying the knot in February 2018.
Like Farid, Amelle has never come out. “Other than close friends, no one knows he’s gay – it’s a bit like me! I’ve got a few cousins who know and support me. My relatives said it was a good thing that I’m getting married so I can carry on living a quiet life. As for my mother, I’m sure that – even if she doesn’t let on – she knows.” Amelle insists on her happiness, on the “relief” she feels since she got engaged.
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My grandmother spent her teen years as a chambermaid in a Nantucket hotel during the summer. This was the 1920s. She once showed us a photo of her and the other young women in their uniforms, standing in front of the hotel. She pointed to two women in the group and said they were girlfriends.

“I didn’t even know women could do that!” she said, in a tone that was more delighted than scandalized.

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Remember us? Almost 3 years of knowing you and almost 2 years of being in love with you, I got really lucky with you.

Sylvia Rivera calling out gays and lesbians for their trans exclusion in 1973 at the Christopher Street Liberation Day rally (x)

this caption is incredibly misleading.

this isn’t sylvia rivera “calling out gays and lesbians.”

watch the linked video.

this is sylvia rivera calling out the white middle class, mainstream gay rights movement for not doing shit for the most at risk people of the community, like trans folks (particularly trans women), poor and homeless folks, poc (particularly black folks), drug users, etc.

the caption above seems really reductive and ignores the fact that the lesbian, gay, AND bi folks she was calling out were majority cis, WHITE, middle class people.