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Tetaaa

@teta-kabanda

18 years old, Mtl 🇨🇦
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bimbocracy

every single negative stereotype about women was dreamt up by men who were projecting. fight me about it.

“women can’t drive”

It is so well known that women are better and safer drivers than men that OUR CAR INSURANCE RATES ARE LOWER. Women get into fewer accidents, get fewer DUIs, and receive fewer speeding tickets than men.

“women never shut up”

Several scientific studies have shown that not only do men talk more than women, they also think that women have been talking for much longer than they actually have. Men interrupt and talk over women, dominate conversations, and still think women talk too much.

“women are shallow”

Lol next

“my wife is my ball and chain lmao”

Multiple studies have shown that marriage between men and women: Increases male lifespan, decreases female lifespan Decreases male depression rates, increases female depression rates Decreases male stress levels, increases female stress levels Increases male health and happiness, decreases female health and happiness Increases a man’s chance of getting a raise or promotion, decreases a woman’s chances of getting a raise or promotion

“women are too emotional”

Men love to say this about women after hurting them, in order to shift the blame and dismiss their feelings in one go. In reality, women are taught to hold our tongues and control ourselves quite literally from birth. We’re taught to put men’s needs and wants ahead of our own emotions regardless of the personal cost. Men are taught to do more or less whatever the fuck they want to women. Men take their emotions out on women while women are expected to shove theirs down.

I could go on and on but I don’t really think I need to.

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when u wake up at 3am and forgot to put ur water on ur nightstand

There are so many better possible uses of this image

then post them urself does it look like i have time to be the sole provider of this meme?

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your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have

robert holden

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It’s okay to need a break. It’s okay not to be the busiest one. You don’t have to overwork yourself to have worth. You are enough no matter what you have accomplished today. 

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Okay, but THIS.

My therapist only recently understood that when I said, “I don’t know how to make this phone call or make this appointment.” I very literally meant I didn’t know what to do. I can dial the phone, but what do I say EXACTLY? What questions are going to be asked? What do I need to have on hand? What if they ask me something I don’t know the answer to?

I’m one of those people that needs very specific and detailed instructions if I’m doing something for the first time.

Be patient with people. We all have our struggles. Sometimes it can make all the difference in the world knowing someone can spare a few minutes to care about you and walk you through something that’s hard for you.

This is me.

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Trans women are WOMEN! There’s not lie at all!

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Look at all these happy radiant women, out here enjoying life. 

they never “used to be men” smh they were always women

I’m pretty sure even cis women aren’t born with tits and asses like that anyway. They’re born babies…

Let’s focus on the fact that a woman tweeted this. I’m calling out transphobic women too.

“ask for a baby picture” tf is wrong with cis people sometimes

Sis is bitter af. Mind the business that pays you. You being in your feelings is out here costing people their very lives.

This is how cis women are complicit in the murders of trans women. This shit right here is how we put them in harm’s way. This bitch is validating all of the ugly raggedy homphobic and transphobic bullshit that cis men internalize, and then use to hurt and kill. Call transphobia out when you see it. Don’t let other cis women get away with this. Protect our sisters.

Let’s also comment on the EXTREMELY dehumanizing language she uses.  “All these”, she says.  Not “these women”.  Just “these”, as though she’s talking about a group of objects.

I also wanna point out that this isn’t “just” transphobia.  This is a very specific example of transmisogyny. Trans women—-especially trans women of color—- are at an elevated risk of murder, specifically if their assigned sex is discovered by a cisgender man.  This woman can’t just let these women be radiant and loved as women; she’s very specifically calling for their deaths (either literally or socially) in an oblique manner, for the crime of being beautiful women  who just happen to be transgender.

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People can have sex without having a long ass converstion about their feelings first.

People can have sex after they fought.

People can have sex with someone they’re not in love with.

People can have sex just for fun, just because they want to.

People can have sex without being in a realationship.

People can have sex with someone they’ve met two minuts ago.

People can have sex in other places then the bedroom.

And when someone asks ‘Are you sure?’ it doesn’t imply the other person is a virgin. It’s about making sure the other one wants to have sex.

It’s about consent.