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cheering in the distance

@tesselientje

hi! welcome to my mess of a blog~ multifandom, music and nice stuff~ (she/her - 19 - the Netherlands -
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PLACES TO DONATE AND SIGN TO SUPPORT BLM

(Do not donate money to change.org, none of their funds go to their petitions or organizations)

I need to share this right now so I can eat but i will add more later! I DON’T care if its not ACNH. If this bothers you, unfollow me. I couldn’t care less. It bothers me how little I see donation and petition links on here, i have a good amount of followers on here, so see this. sign them.

Please sign them ALL. It really is NOT that hard. And share so others will do the same.

Philly bail fund (donation)

I DONT care that this is long, we need people’s attention.

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Take this with you

to all my white followers who stew in unnecessary guilt trying to come to terms with the privilege you have, watch this

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i made a college vine compilation b/c Suffering™️

(warning for loud noise in some of them)

It’s funny cause it’s true

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hotseok

190514 wonho’s talktok updates

- “our hyungwonie would still (be) in the middle of practice right now - i’m also thankful to hyungwonie who’s working hard, practising until dawn!”
- “i am forever thankful to hyunwoo - as a friend, leader and member. i am thankful for you, who always remembers and cares for the little things.“
- “changkyunie is always greedy for music and always carries a lot of pride for our team. i’m thankful to him for always being so supportive of me.”
- “kihyun, who is always right/correct. i am thankful to him, always grabbing the hands of those that need help and turning this long time that we’ve spent together into precious memories.”
- “jooheonie always puts his emotions in all of his actions - i am always thankful to him for being so detailed and precious in what he does”
- “i’m thankful to minhyukie for always feeling/experiencing my lacking self as someone with a good image/side and for making me love myself”

190514 wonho’s talktok update

“and i love everything about monbebe i’m thankful to our parents, friends and very hardworking and great staff that i’ve met i’m thankful for meeting such precious members thank you for coming to my side, monbebe heart”
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My advice to you is that if you wanna do something totally different and reinvent a little part of yourself but you’re afraid people will think you’re trying too hard: just do it anyway.

In high school there was a girl who wore heels every single day and I was so envious. I wanted to wear heels but I was a huge tomboy growing up and no one thought of me as feminine and I was worried people would think I was being “fake,” or trying too hard.

But one day I wore a pair and I got a lot of remarks, not all of them nice. And then I wore another and another until one day a girl said to me “I wish I could wear heels like you and [the girl I envied] but I couldn’t pull it off.”

And I realized I’d become known for wearing heels and it was just a thing I did now and nobody questioned it.

I know this is such a small thing but I have held on to this lesson throughout my young adulthood because it’s proven true again and again with bigger things like my career and my sexuality

When you first step out of the idea of yourself other people have accepted or invented and express a part of you that they don’t know, it’s scary. People like to think they know you you, and challenging their perception of you threatens them.

That doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to express who you are.

You’re not fake or trying too hard just because you decide to share a new side of yourself!!!