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Gross but Happy

@tatinena

Princesas, Hadas, Duendes y cosas bonitas, eso quiero yo.
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@cooke61 good job at completely derailing the conversation away from the actual point.

In 2012 over $100 billion was owed in unpaid child support and according to the federal Office of a child Support Enforcement $108 billion in total back payments were owed to parents with custody of children in 2009.

According to a U.S Census report from 2015 just 43.5 perfect of custodial parents get the full support they are assigned while more then 30 percent don’t get anything at all.

Just getting a judge to issue an order for support isn’t a guarantee considering a lot of individuals just offer up a defense of for example job loss. There is also the option to sign away their parental rights to child, though that involves court and legal fees.

Also take into account there are so many deadbeat parents not paying support, a lot of cases are stuck in limbo and not acknowledged therefore giving them an out of not having to pay even if it racks up payments over time.

So your rebuttal doesn’t really hold water when dads are clearly making the choice not to pay support and getting away with it.

Also, and more importantly, there is a very REAL difference between a legal financial obligation and the right to bodily integrity and medical consent. 

The government CAN compel you to pay a financial obligation (taxes and fines are examples of this.)

The government CAN NOT and SHOULD NOT be able to compel you to use your body and organs against your will. The government shouldn’t be able to FORCE you to go through a medical procedure against your will, and they shouldn’t be able to FORBID you from having access to a medical procedure. The government shouldn’t have the authority to use your body for the benefit of another person against your will and without your consent. 

Your body is intrinsically different than your bank account. There are whole different realms of ethics that deal with each. 

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Also consider: there are plenty (I would go so far as to say most) of pro-choice people who also believe in making changes to the social safety net which would render child support obsolete. This is not the gotcha y'all think it is.

Absolutely. A Basic Income system, especially one that has a child allotment that goes to the custodial parent, would essentially eliminate the need for child support.

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small habits to adopt

  • wake up early
  • drink a glass of water as soon as you wake up
  • meditate or concentrate on your breathing for at least 2 mins
  • visualize your goals for the day and for the future
  • make your bed 
  • do calf raises or squats while brushing your teeth
  • floss
  • dry brush
  • take a cold shower (or end a hot shower with cold water right after for about 3 mins)
  • put on lotion while your skin is still damp
  • cleanse, tone, and moisturize your face
  • apply sunscreen
  • drink a glass of water before and after every meal
  • listen to a podcast/ted talk instead of music while walking or driving
  • park far away from where you’re going
  • stand up straight
  • look at people in the eye when talking to them
  • look straight ahead when walking, not at the ground
  • smile at strangers
  • stop complaining (it’s bad for your health)
  • bring cash instead of credit card
  • track your expenses
  • turn off notifications on your phone when doing work
  • resist the urge to go on your phone and observe your surroundings more
  • set a timer for 5 mins when scrolling through social media and stop when the time is up
  • learn at least 5 new vocab words from your target language every day
  • exercise while watching shows/videos
  • read at least 10 pages every day
  • do tasks that can be done in 2 mins right away
  • drink tea
  • prepare workout gear the night before
  • jot down tasks for the next day before sleeping
  • write down quotes/lyrics that strike a chord
  • spend 30 mins on a hobby
  • journal and write down things you are grateful for
  • aim for 7-8 hours of sleep
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The first Pride was a riot.

We all need to remember this.

Today is June 28, 2020 which marks the 51st anniversary of the start of the Stonewall Riots.

Marsha P. Johnson, Stormé DeLarverie, Sylvia Rivera and many other members of the LGBTQ+ community at the time fought for us. They fought so that our generation could live safely and comfortably as our true selves.

They rioted from June 28 until July 3. That's SIX whole days of rioting and looting. SIX. WHOLE. DAYS.

So, in the wake of the current BLM movement, it seriously astounds be how people, especially LGBTQ+ people are against the riots, looting and most of all the movement itself.

We got our rights because these people fought for it. They rioted until the tides turned in our favor, and yet you condemn those who participate in the current protests? And yet you condemn the BLM movement?

May I remind you that Stormé DeLaverie, a BLACK butch lesbian threw the first punch at the police? May I remind you that Marsha P. Johnson, a BLACK trans woman rioted there as well?

Y'all got to stop acting like Pride is just a big party. Yes, it is a celebration of who we are and where we came from, but it sure as hell isn't a party. We celebrate Pride to remember those events.

The first Pride was a riot.

Pride IS a riot.

Deal with it.

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Polish people in a silent protest It will be better with you here in Warsaw on 26.06.2020 against hate, discrimination, violence, and dramatic injustice the LGBTQIAP+ community faces every day in Poland.

We are the change, and the change lies in our hands

To make that change, we humbly ask for your attendance, because we know, that

It

Will

Be

Better

With you here

With us, side by side, as one of the colors of the rainbow,

The rainbow, which colors are love, strength and the change

The change for the better

Photos by: Karol Grygoruk, Zuza Krajewska, Dorian Górski

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Happy Pride from the main girls of Loveless! I love them SO MUCH and I can’t wait for you to meet them!!!