You will always be your oldest friend. Take care of yourself.
Ladies learn to milk every single opportunity in life for all its worth, as much as your moral compass will allow you to.
Friends with a chef? Learn cooking. Skater boy hitting on you? Take lessons. Uni offering seminars with certification? Sign up. Your bestie has a car? Driving lessons. Duolingo exists? French it is. Home alone can't work out? You tube dance classes it is. Daddy (get your head out the gutter this instant) knows that one corporate king? Office job it is. Summer camp at church? Beachside it is. You're pretty and want to be a doctor but can't get into medicine? Let influencing pay for tuition. Your old money pops can make calls? Have him make the calls and nepo your way into Havard.
Learn to see opportunities where they lie and take advantage of them. Jack of all trades is a master of none but better than a master of one. Grow your knowledge base and take every opportunity you get, wherever you get it. If that old man at the bus station won't take his eyes off you free rides it is (SAFELY. SAFELY. BE SAFE).
And I don't mean treat your life like a neverending project. It's not. I'm saying take the advantage you have by it's horns and make something of it. And use this chance to network, make friends and have fun. This isn't a cold bitch take advantage girl, I'm not advertising leeching. Give as much as you get. But take as much as you can.
Learn to milk life for all its worth. Every single drop of it.
Work on yourself in silence, don't expect to be revered by others for your improvements. Improve for yourself only and don't involve yourself in messy interpersonal situations. Be above all the mediocrity, toxicity, and chaos around you. You don't owe a reaction or complicity to the people around you.
Admire yourself. Put yourself on a pedestal. Hang up your best pictures. Make moodboards to include you in it. Idolize you. You are your own dream girl.
All i ask is 3 things… don‘t lie to me, don‘t waste my time & don‘t have me looking stupid
What You Desire Desires You:
I am who I am for a reason. My heart longs for what it longs for a reason. Every time I settle for something that doesn't align with my deepest desires I do a disservice to myself. I know that what I want wants me back. I attract what I'm attracted to. Nothing and no one is too good for me. I only entertain what's best for me, in everything.
