K-pop stan culture is fucking toxic as all get out. Fans fight with other fans, despite their groups literally being best of friends. We complain that they don’t get enough rest, then complain about how much we miss them when we haven’t had an update in two days. You guys act like one mistake is the end of the world and that they are demons for it. You forget, these people are human too. They make mistakes, they regret them, they learn from them, and they eventually will move on.
Hell, I mean you treat these people as if they were a barbie in your playhouse growing up. It’s ridiculous, you think you control their lives and that you should have a say in everything they do. I am amazed that they still love you and support YOU because if I was in their position I would have lost my cool a long ass time ago.
STOP normalizing constant contact with these idols. STOP acting as if they are perfectly unflawed gods and goddesses. STOP thinking you created them, so you can tear them down and play with them at your will.
You talk about how some people are “showing a nasty side of themselves” when you don’t realize that you are doing the exact same thing. You aren’t five anymore. You aren’t the queen of a fantasy world you created. Step down from your high horse. :)