You are not just living, but you are blooming. You are expanding. You are flourishing. Everyday, seek for new growth. Reach forward. Be your best self, and get ready for the beauty in your life to unfold before you.
New beginnings can be scary. You never quite know what will become of them, how they will play out, or where they will take you. But life is filled with so many magnificent surprises. Many amazing new experiences await you. You’ve formed many good memories already, definitely don’t forget those. But there are still many, many more to come. ~N.A. | T
We were trained to view parts of our bodies as flaws, as insecurities. We look at our body hair on our arms, legs, stomachs, chests, breasts, faces and everywhere else they grow and feel the urge to remove them, because we feel disgusting if we do not get rid of them. We look at our stretch marks on our hips, our butts, our knees and our arms and our first instinct is to hide them because we think they are ugly and imperfections. We look at our whole body that way. All we see are things that should not be there, things that, according to society and the beauty industry, are faults in our looks. We spend so many time bullying ourselves for not looking the way we are supposed to and we spend so much money on products that could help make these ‘flaws’ disappear. When you read through this, doesn’t it make you sad and angry? Doesn’t it sound pathetic and absolutely wrong? We are practically raised to hate ourselves. I want this to end, right here, right now. Look at yourself, my love, look at all the things on your body that make you feel ugly - be it stretch marks, a belly that sticks out, body hair, scars, your weight - look at them and view them as a part of you, not as the enemy. You are perfect just the way you are. You do not need to change a thing about your appearance. Start by accepting yourself - every little feature of yours - and then slowly fall in love with the wonderful being you are. There is nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to hide. Somehow the industries managed to manipulate us into thinking that we are not good enough, that the outside is all that matters, that your self worth depends on your looks. This is absolute bullshit. You matter as a whole - inside and out. You are so much more than what you look like, so much more than what society tells you to be. There is such a bright light shining within you, do not let anyone destroy it, for we need it on this earth.
I just wanted to remind you that you are amazing, beautiful, talented, and far stronger than you may think. Not only that, but you are kind, considerate, and worthy of achieving your biggest dreams. Please don’t ever forget this, and always please take care of yourself. Embrace yourself and all that you are. ♡ ~N.A.
Post Patch fallout continues, it’s buried us this week on Deaderpool’s Discord. It’s getting to the point where I’m wondering how so many players seem to have completely forgotten how to update and troubleshoot, following a patch.
Load up vanilla, NO mods or cc. This is your baseline.
Sorry I haven’t had the chance to post new comics as of late. I’ve been in a depressive state for days and I’ve been mostly in bed. Until then, if you know anyone who is looking to hire a designer, please send them my portfolio link:
I would update it but right now I hardly have the energy to finish my 2020 planner I wanted to sell sometime this week, let alone this portfolio.
And as always, if you can, please support me either on Patreon, ko-fi, or just purchasing stickers or products on my site. Mind you there is a back to school sale so please take advantage of it.
Sorry for bombarding people with these kinds of posts. I’m not trying to take money from people, I am truly in a distressing time and its affecting my work performance as you can see. Its been almost two years since I’ve been out of a job and still can’t find stable work with a stable income and I have 10 years in the graphic design field.
Hey, Simmers, if you have mods by Deaderpool, Turbodriver, Basemental, Weerbesu, KawaiiStacie, or Sacrificial, PLEASE UPDATE THEM, and try your game, before bringing your 3.82 MB LastExceptions to us on Discord, please and thank you.
I’m tired of the one-sided expectations that seem to be laid out for black women. Hell, black women created the “BLM” movement for black men, but it’s pulling teeth to get black men to care about misogynior and issues black women face in the community. I also feel like this idea of “struggle love” and black love are pushed harder on black women than black men. I want black women to live their lives by their own rules, and to love whoever they want (despite skin color). We deserve it.
Read the rest of this, PLEASE. It’s incredibly important to content creators and for those who follow them!
As a content creator, I rely heavily on motivation to do what I do. Motivation doesn’t just rely on if I have ideas or not, no. It relies on if there are people who want more of my content, because I make content for other people to enjoy! It’s not just for me to post on the internet and get zero responses, a few likes, and maybe a reblog or two.
That sucks. That’s honestly the worst part of starting out as a creator! No one knows you exist, no one reaches out to try and help you art, and there’s no one sending you ANY feedback on work you spent SO LONG making. When you’re a content creator, you’re an entertainer. When your notes are barren of feedback other than a few likes, it’s the equivalent of only two or three people showing up to your show and hardly clapping before leaving. It’s not something that makes you want to continue.
The will to continue is motivation. That’s what you want, it’s what you NEED, actually, to pump out content.
Now how does this all actually affect you? Yeah, you, the person reading this. Well, it’s not like I’m not about to tell you, so you better keep reading.
We content creators rely on YOUR feedback! That’s right, fucker! You’re opinion is VALID as HELL to us, we need it to continue on doing what we love! Not just artists! I’m talking writers, Youtubers, beauty gurus, photographers, streamers, asmrtists, sculptures, crafters, EVERYONE that CREATES! We need you to leave likes, share our creations, leave your responses! We can’t create frequently to entertain you if we don’t receive these things!
Why should you care if we get things like this or not? Well, damn. Thick-skulled as hell, aren’t you? If we content creators didn’t make things you’d be very bored. Content creators make your movies, your games, your websites, what you read, your furniture. Get it? You don’t appreciate what others have to offer and you end up bringing a world with hardly anything in it to enjoy.
So moral of the story!
See something and say “awww cute”? Go to comments and leave a comment saying “awww cute”!
See something and say “that’s awesome”? Go to the comments and type it there!
Leave likes on everything you enjoy and support. Share it, even! FOLLOW THE CREATOR ON SOCIAL MEDIA! And continue to support as you follow them!
Right, and try to search up tags like #art and #my art, too. New content creators need support, too. We can’t be active if you’re not.
Some of you might have noticed some of your favorite blogs are gone. Tumblr had a glitch today that took out some big and beloved blogs. Including @doctorroseprompts and our founder @chocolatequeennk. We are working with @staff@support to restore them, but we don’t know if or when they will be back.
If you are scared and want to make sure you’ve backed up your blog, here’s some steps to take: (full post link) .
Backing up your blog
The sooner you start this in your Tumblr life, the easier it will be.
Wordpress (don’t forget to set up the IFTTT to keep it synced)
I'm a fan of ks and never supported KD. For me, everything that happened this weekend, made me reflect. What is S* M trying to do? Because all members except Ji can talk about the solo of Ks. We all know they are friends. Even Pcy talked about his lack. Because only Ji can not talk. Her tactic did not work. Because it became more obvious that they are in a relationship. Now I support you 10000%. Go ahead and do not let KD die.
thank you ks stan
yes all these ‘coincidences’ makes everything too obviously. but guess what, it works because only fans who truly interested in kaisoo will string all these together. in others eyes they will just claim kaisoo are not friends without second thoughts!
When I was 19, I was in Doctor Who fandom (still love Whoniverse!) and an active Twitter user. I somehow found a big multifandom blog and started chatting with its owner, thanks to DW.
The girl was 14 and it was a difficult time for her. She was almost depressed back then, and I became a kind of senpai for her. I dedicated a fanfic to her (it was about the Doctor talking to a teenager who lost their will to live). I was the one who advised her to watch Torchwood (still her favourite TV show, also a part of Whoniverse). I sent her souvenirs from London’s WhoShop.
Yesterday I saw her for the second time in my life. She is now 20, she studies in a university, travels a lot across Russia and is thinking of going abroad. I see her willing to live and it makes me so happy!
And she still keeps my fanfic printed out somewhere and even wrote a Torchwood fanfiction dedicated to me.
She is grateful.
For more than a year, I’ve been in Warframe fandom. A former member of the clan I own is 16 and now I am this kind of senpai for her. It’s been a difficult year for her, as she had to choose a college, and also has a lot of questions about herself, her appearance, her sexuality, her feelings towards other people.
I support her when she feels down. I’m collecting a parcel for her.
She joined us when she was rank 10, now she is rank 22. She was at first scared to write me. Today she felt brave enough to create her own clan.
Yesterday she said that later she will remember me, and gosh, this is important.
I am now almost 25, and sometimes people tell me it’s time to give up fandoms and start a family, but right now my clan is my family and I’m more than okay with that.
Fandoms are wonderful. Fandoms unite people.
It’s also important to remember that people on the Internet are real people and they might need your support. Especially young people, as youth is wonderful but still not easy at all.
Also my main website, “cosmicfunnies.com” is on the “website” link just to clarify. Anyone who can help me out during my difficult time, I’d greatly appreciate it. To see the whole story of my situation here are the links:
(Ask) Tw for child abuse. Hi! I recently found out my friend is being emotionally and physically abused by her parents. She is very against telling any adult or law enforcement about the abuse. She even made me promise I wouldn’t tell anyone. She also refuses to admit that it’s abuse. She’s 13 so she doesn’t have a way to move out and support herself. Is there anything I can do to help her without betraying her trust? Any advice/resources would be appreciated. Thanks and have a nice day!
You can help her most by being there as a friend, do fun things together- play video games or board games, watch a movie, listen to music, draw together, sing karaoke, whatever y’all like to do, do it as often as possible; compliment her- tell her she’s pretty, her drawing is amazing, her voice sounds nice when she’s singing; let your time together be escapism; or help her process what’s going on and reassure her that it’s not her fault, that she’s not a bad person; if she needs anything, like hygiene supplies socks deodorant etc, try and get it for her, or fun cute things like magnets for a locker, or hair accessories or makeup, bake her cookies, brings her food that could be eaten on the spot, or fun foods (candy cupcakes brownies chips etc)
Hello! I’d really appreciate it if anyone who follows me (or my side blogs) would help get me some money. I’m in a pretty tight bind right now, and I need money for my car, but my job just cut my hours in half due to “budget cuts” and I haven’t heard any callbacks yet from any other jobs I applied to.
This discord link will bring you to a server called “PayPal- Rewards”. It’s an invite based system, which means that the more people who use my link will boost my number of invited people, which means that I would qualify for certain tiers of rewards.
1. This won’t charge you, ask for money, or ask you to put in any account information.
2. You do have to stay in the server, but it will never send you ads or reminders. It doesn’t go off of account activity either since there’s no chats that allow you to post.
3. It’s completely safe and secure, and they show proof of PayPal transactions through a text chat for every user who reaches a certain tier.
I wouldn’t have been asking for money if I didn’t need it, but if I want to be able to drive, I need the money to be able to support myself.
I also am taking commissions, DM me if you’re interested.
Please help a disabled mentally ill queer be able to support herself! Please reblog this if you can’t help, thank you!
Hey so uh body positivity isnt just “I support and won’t harass overweight people until they reach a ‘healthy weight’” that’s not support that’s just being a decent human, not harassing someone. Body positivity is accepting fat people!!! Even if they like themselves and have no desire to lose any weight!!!! Because extra weight isnt always unhealthy!!! People just like to say it is!!!! I could go into reasons people are just naturally healthy and “overweight” at the same time but I won’t!!! Because if someone likes themselves they shouldn’t have to explain why they look the way they do!!!
So shout-out to the people that want to work to achieve some weight sure. But shout-out to people who are “overweight” , who are working out and eating good food sometimes and have a relatively healthy lifestyle and don’t want to change their weight. Shout out to those people with ADHD or depression or OCD or some other disorder and they want to work out but can’t. Shout-out to any and every body. You don’t have to explain why you are the way you are.
It’s fucking stupid that people think they have the right to call someone’s weight unhealthy. Not everyone who is “overweight” is out there automatically developing heart disease fucking calm down. And if you cared about someone’s health, aka also mental health, you wouldn’t be saying anything. A healthy weight is when you feel like you’re eating okay and exercising and your weight isnt literally causing a medical condition. Yo some people for whatever reason can’t even reach the weight they’re “supposed to be at” do to disabilities or just how they’re built. But again you don’t need those excuses to be “overweight”. If you like your body the way it is then hell yeah!!
(If you add any stupid bullshit to this post you’re just getting blocked so save your breath please!!!! If you don’t like it make your own post!!!!)
I’m selling shirts to pay for the deposit on my girl’s dream apartment. This brand is modeled specifically for women who love women. If you like what you see or would like to see other pieces, please click the link. ❤️ thanks for reading🙏🏾 (reblog and share)
We received a quick spam of anonymous messages that flooded our inbox. Most of them were one or two worded messages containing slurs and insults, but two of them were messages directed at Reese in order to trigger her anxiety. After we blocked one message, the rest were deleted, meaning that one anon was the cause for all of them.
We will not tolerate this. This is completely unacceptable and disgusting behavior. If we need to, we will temporarily turn anonymous asks off.
In the mean time, some words of encouragement would greatly improve Reese’s mental health, seeing as she’s having a hard time fronting right now.
You know what i’d love? What i’d really appreciate? What would really make me ecstatic? Is if @staff@support would stop showing weightloss ads to me, a person who has struggled with disordered eating and anorexic tendencies for my whole life basically. What would be even better than that even would be if tumblr stopped allowing weightloss ads on their site aimed at young people and actual teenagers who are already inundated with messages from tv and music and movies telling them they arent attractive and skinny like they don’t need to see more of that weight loss propaganda on this site too.