Black people often have a habit of complaining about their hair type, it’s completely understandable though, kinky curly hair is an absolute hassle and feels like your in a boxing ring trying to get your hair to behave. However, why don’t we ever talk about our kinky hair in a good light? Like my bitch can defy gravity and has the ability to copy any hairstyle, straight, curly, etc! Who else is going it like kinky curly hair and making us look beyond beautiful by puffing up like a cloud and making us look like the God and Goddess we are? Kinky curly hair is actually out here making us look like pieces of heaven.
So yes, kiny curly hair is a bitch but make sure you put baddest in front of it cause nobody doing it like her.
“For what it’s worth: it’s never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. And I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the courage to start all over again.”
You are beautiful, your soft thighs are romantic, your stretch marks works of art, your flaws your imperfections only add to your beauty, your uniqueness. You are a statue of love and grace, your perfection isn’t limited by size or weight.
sometimes you just have to change who you spend your time with. if your friends make you feel invisible and forgotten about then they aren’t good friends. even if you’ve known them for a long time, you aren’t obligated to know them forever. do what’s right for you and surround yourself with the people who make you feel good and happy, who respect you and your interests and don’t mock or judge you. let yourself be loved.
i know a lot of people struggle with this (myself included) so just a quick reminder to everyone that it is ok to ask for help, you don’t have to deal with everything by yourself, there are always people who will help you. you don’t have to keep all of your struggles a secret, sometimes telling someone can help quite a lot too. 💜💕