Cheat codes of life
There are some people who stumble into your life, unexpectedly, with a “caution: crazy” sign stuck to their foreheads. When you’re perfectly fine, even happy and you’re contended, there are some people who make your good great, your happy happier, your life a little more alive.
Deep, sad conversation at 3 am are important, sure. but the people who make your 3pm interesting, make your good times better. When you’re already happy, contended, but they stretch those limits and make you happier, those are the people who are most important. People who are with you at your worst, are important, sure. But the people who bring out the best version of you, are really the ones who you ought to keep.
Emotional support when times are tough is appreciated, ofcourse. But the people who suffer through everything with you. With them you don’t just share your sorrows, you distribute it, break it down until all of you are upholding the pain.
There are people who will wish you luck before an exam you didn’t study for, and assure you you’ll pass. But then there are people who know passing isn’t what you’re worried for. It’s about your need to be the best version of you, and they understand. These are the kind of people who’ll stay awake till 2am with you, revising their own chapters while you read your own. And they know, it isnt about teaching you or motivating you, it’s about being there. In the same position, feeling the same feelings, exactly at the same time.
There are people who’ll listen to your stories intently. But then there are people who live these stories with you. Sharing your excitement, experience, your ecstasy. That thrilling rush of adrenaline when you were being chased by a dog, can only and only be understood by the friend who ran alongside you.
There are people who’ll listen to you talk about the things you love. And then there are those crazy fuckers who’ll not only hype you up more, but get hyped themselves, and it’s only a matter of time until you’re text screaming at each other gushing about Tony Stark and how he didn’t deserve to die. These are the kind of people I want to travel the world with. the kind of people i want to be with me, when i finally reach my dreams. The kind of people i want to share my each and every happiness with, because that’s what they’ve been flooding my life with, since i got to know them.
There are people who can become your lifeline. When you’re drowning in fear, and worry, they can be your float. And then there are people who are like cheat codes in your life. Who make your life a bit more easy, a bit more fun, a bit more happy. A bit more, more. And when these people are one and the same, you are on an entirely different level of this game, called life.