Fuck you if you
tell yourself that everyone suffering thru abuse has deserved it or asked for
it. Fuck you for making it easier on yourself by supporting abusers and
validating your unwillingness to help those who are tortured. You’re a fucking
coward and you deserve to experience being utterly cornered and not believed by
entire world because that’s the only fucking way you’d learn what it’s like. You
fucking shut up if you don’t want to help.
Analizo a las personas incluso desde antes de saber que existo. Así funciono. Cuando alguien me interesa, lo hace desde el principio, sea por sus gestos, su actitud, su mirada o su belleza.
Muy pocas veces fallo al advertir su esencia, y considero que cuando lo hago, es completamente intencional, pues me reuso a pensar que son lo que he visto.
Es por eso que suelo fijarme en imposibles, porque son personas que ante los demás, se muestran diferentes -normales, diría yo-. Pero ante mis ojos, son las personas más únicas e inolvidables que jamás podré encontrar.
Nunca entenderé porqué esa manía de ocultar lo que realmente se es solo para “encajar”.
For those babies who have nosy roommates, parents, significant others, or anyone else suspicious, can we make a list of excuses for where you’re going on sugar dates? Like things that it would make sense for you to be doing alone that they wouldn’t have any reason to join you in doing. My SO and I don’t have non-mutual friends, so I can’t pretend I’m hanging with one because he knows them all. My faves:
Tweeze your brows in the car before you go. Tell them you just went to get a wax.
Doctors appointment (I usually say lady doctor because no one will try to accompany you to that)
Straight up getting a massage
Get something tailored. “Go in for another fitting.”
Volunteer service (homeless shelter, animal shelter, etc.)
Get your nails done somewhere cheap and fast but say you went somewhere nice and got a spa package that had a half hour massage included or something so the whole thing took a couple hours.
Here’s What You’re Missing When You Say, “Eating Meat Is a Personal Choice”
It’s something we hear all too often, and something that many of us believed in our pre-vegan days.
If you still think eating meat is a “personal choice,” here’s what you’re missing:
Eating meat is not a victimless choice. All animals fight for their lives. But on modern-day farms, animals are violently slaughtered at a fraction of their natural life spans.
Additionally, many standard farming practices are so horribly abusive they’d warrant felony cruelty charges if inflicted on a dog or cat—things like cutting off tails, burning out horns, and ripping out testicles… all without painkillers.
The science is clear: Animals feel pain and are capable of suffering. When you say eating meat is a personal choice, you’re forgetting someone.
Climate change is easily one of the biggest issues threatening our very existence on the planet, and animal agriculture is one of the leading causes.
And it’s not just climate change. Animal agriculture is culpable for nearly 91 percent of Amazon destruction, uses a whopping 56 percent of water in the United States, and according to the Center for Biological Diversity, contributes drastically to species extinction.
Factory farming has far-reaching repercussions for people around the world, especially those living in extreme poverty. By cutting meat out of our diets, we can help not only the billions of animals killed each year for food, but also the 842 million people who do not have enough to eat.
How? Consider this: It takes 16 pounds of grain to produce just one pound of beef. If that grain were fed to people instead of cows, there’d be a whole lot more mouths we could feed.
Lucky for us, ditching meat has never been easier. Click here to order your FREE Vegetarian Starter Guide!
“There is no ethical consumption under capitalism” GOD i wish people understood that veganism is directly opposed to capitalism fjfjfjfj
I wish people would just stop using this as a catchphrase and a call to apathy when it is supposed to be exactly the opposite. Seeing every vegan post pasted with this slogan over and over, as if it’s an excuse to do literally nothing, is so disheartening. That we can’t live completely harm-free in a capitalist society is not an excuse to just give up and not even try.
Lost lonely and alone within your distance do you, can you not yet see the futility of all resistance breath elevating heart palpitating slender delicate hands somehow less than steady no more excuses we know you know love will certainly find you whenever she’s ready are you content to weep adrift in your darkness as a calendar marks seasons passing by and since you have been already discovered what will you do now why not give love a try
im so tired of hearing "support your local [enter animal exploitation-reliant career here]!!!!!" as an excuse to hurt animals as if literally aaaanyone who uses that line actually makes the effort to do so anyway.... they all just buy whatever eggs or honey etc they want and dont give a shit about the local farms they claim to care about at all. such a transparent guilt/shame tactic
I’ve always found it interesting how the statistics reveal that the vast majority of animal products sold are produced in factory farms, yet almost no one admits to buying them, they all support “local, humane” meat only. These people apparently don’t eat take out food, they don’t go to chain restaurants and they research the sourcing about everything they eat. Even if these people really were doing all of this, it would make no difference at all. How close an animal is to your house when they get their throat slit doesn’t make it any more or less ethical.
Any advice on how to forgive urself and ur adhd. I have learned so much about adhd and why i struggle the way i do and thought i might be able to move on from my horrible school past and struggles cause of that ,but for some reason i cant.i feel like adhd is just an excuse for me that i dont deserve to forgive myself that i could of easily had no problems if i tried hard enough. Even my own sister(who knows me better than me) has told me that my adhd isnt a big deal because im smart just lazy.
My copy of Unfuck Your Habitat (yes, the book) came yesterday, and I read the absolute best quote on page 31: “Excuses are things that people use to justify not doing something because they don’t want to do it. Reasons are how people explain not doing something because they aren’t able to do it.” (emphasis from book)
In other words, if you don’t want to do something and you say you can’t do it because of your ADHD, you’re using it as an excuse. If you want to do it (or know you need to do it, or whatever) and you are trying to make it happen, but you can’t, then ADHD is a reason for not doing it. It’s really nuanced but your purpose matters. An excuse is a way to get out of taking responsibility for your actions or lack thereof; a reason is a way to explain your actions or lack thereof.
Isn't that quite ironical how 12 to 16 yo (average) exclus think they have a say in the lives, the existence and legitimacy of peeps at least twice their age too? I'm 36 and... I'm too old for that shit. If you want to fight for a cause do it when it serves a purpose rather than mixing up your insecurities with some sort of rebellious spirit just for the sake of teenage anger and entitlement and the rejoicing in harmful drama. Educate yourselves. Use + than 2 braincells. Brighter future ahead.
See, here’s the thing. Teenage angst and insecurities are all fine excuses, but there’s this thing called self-control.
My baby sister is 16. She’s right there in that age range of the majority of exclusionists and she never disrespects anyone to make herself feel better about her own insecurities.
When I came out, she was about 10 or 11 and had no idea about anything other than there was straight and gay and she had been told that “being gay was bad.” She looked me in the eye and told me she loved me, even if she didn’t understand my sexuality.
You can make all the excuses you want for being an exclusionist, but at the end of the day all you are is a sad child screaming at a total stranger to make you feel better about your own insecurities and shortcomings.
i just watched the Transformers: The Last Knight movie in a theater where i paid actual real human money dollars to see it and there is nothing left. i am a husk, an empty shell where once a person stood, now eternally hollow as testament to a woman’s hubris, her sheer disbelief that it could not possibly be worse than Age of Extinction.
Honestly I can use my scoliosis brace as an excuse for so many things, because nobody really understands it. ‘Can you please *insert thing I don’t want to do*?’ Nope. I have scoliosis. ‘Why didn’t you do the homework?’ I have scoliosis. ‘Did you break the rules?’ Yeah, but it’s because I have scoliosis. People don’t even question it.