“You’re so skinny, you should be a model”. No, just because I’m skinny doesn’t mean I can be a model. It takes knowledge, skill, practice and major confidence to master the profession of being a model. My waist, my figure, my body actually has nothing to do with modeling because even the more manly looking women or plus size women are role models in the industry not because of their “skinny or whatever size figure” but because of their effort and time and passion they put in to being a model.
“You’re not hungry.? Aren’t you gonna eat.? C'mon , that’s why you’re so skinny.”
No I’m not hungry. No I’m not gonna eat. No that’s not why I’m skinny. I’m skinny because I’m skinny. I’m skinny because I have a high metabolism. It’s not that I starve myself , just like everyone eats when they are hungry I do too. Just because you will doesn’t mean I have to as well. Don’t judge me based on my looks because I know you suffer body insecurities as well. Don’t tell me I look what I look like because of what you assume. You’re false, your opinion is false, you’re thinking is irrelevant. I know my body is the way it is and that’s good enough for me, I don’t have to please your eyes.
“How are you not that size.?..you have a small waist.”
…and that matters because.?? I have a small waist, what of it? You want me to be bigger or smaller or what.? What are you implying? That I change.? For you.? For the attraction of your eyes.? Because I don’t change for anyone but myself. I change what I see is wrong with me, that NEEDS a change. Maybe a negative that should be a positive. A struggle to a settlement. Not my waist. If its an “imperfection” maybe I’ll just let it be my imperfection because I see nothing wrong with it. If i want a change I will go for it but otherwise don’t tell me because its not worth wasting your breath..
I know I’m skinny you don’t have to point it out. I look at myself in the mirror everyday..I’m aware of my figure. Just save your breath. Thanks✌