It's so funny that people either think I am shy as hell and never talk or that I am extroverted, loud and obnoxious. There is no in between.
Okay so, I just have a little rant about how the anime community, and really fandoms in general, treat female fans. This is from my own experience and my friends. I am female, if you weren’t aware, I am also a villain lover, as in I find villains fascinating and fun to watch. Yes, this is important. As a female fan, it feels like I can’t say I like a male character without everyone going, “OMG YOU HAVE A CRUSH, OMG YOU LIKE BAD BOYS!” even if romance was never mentioned in the conversation. Never did I say, “this character is hot” or anything. Also, assuming someone’s sexuality much? To make it worse, if you get mad or understandably uncomfortable about it, you’re just being a Tsundere or are “embarrassed about your fictional crush”. Just because a fan is a female and a character is a male it doesn’t automatically mean they have a mega crush, don’t make assumptions and twist their response with this weird belief of yours. This goes for males, females, nonbinary, everyone! This assumption has been made towards me from people of all genders. It honestly upsets me that I know for a fact some people who see this post are gonna be like, “haha, but like it’s true isn’t it? You don’t gotta be embarrassed about it lol”. Let females obsess over or be crazy about male characters without assuming it’s romantic, please and thank you.
Might reblog later with more ideas
GUYS plz make assumptions about me based om my spotify playlist i’ll love you forever 🙏🙏
The just a joke defense is bad, and I wish to destroy it here (via facts and you guessed it, logic.)
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“treat others as you want to be treated”.
I think it’s time for a new ~golden rule~ new year, new me //coming soon in a lil over a month//. &new me is starting early with the new rules. (it’s 2020, I can do whatever the hell I want, right?)
“treat others as they want to be treated”. yes, t h e y .
do not speculate. communicate. risky business assuming someone’s wants&needs are exactly the same as yours.
I can’t feel my fingers, and I can’t feel my toes. They’re always so cold, yet no one ever knows.
I guess that means my heart is warm, but I’m only ever told that my words are like thorns.
Is it true? Am I really that mean? Or is that the only way you can accept me?
My hands are cold, and my soul is warm. But all you’ll ever see is me with my heart seemingly torn.
Welcome to a day in my life...
I find it funny how many people have told me that I had the dream college experience and that I seem to have an amazing life. Before covid I went out and did things maybe once every 2 weeks (more frequently when I was on exchange). The rest of the time I was either studying or having to manage my health and crossing my fingers that today won’t be my last day outside of a hospital. But I partied sometimes, had pretty good grades, and it seemed like I had good friends so I guess to an outsider it looked perfect. I’ve actually had a friend tell me that they’re jealous of my life.
#accessories #accusations #assumptions #assumptionuniversity #degrade #destroytheoligarchy #punkfashion #indieaesthetic #urbanoutfitters #traderjoes #traitor #rv #buytinyhomes #need #want #christmastree #christmas #covid19art (at Grave Yard of Love) https://www.instagram.com/p/CH0y6WnnSZR/?igshid=1q6yq9li1we0r
My assumption: you're a kind, gentle, and friendly person who I'd love to spend time with somewhere quiet like a museum or a cafe hidden down an alley and just talk to each other about our interests, what makes us excited or happy.
God I hope this is true, that I’m actually like this. But wow okay a museum or a cafe to just talk for hours about our lives? That literally sounds perfect 😭🖤
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the most false of tales. Do not seek out faults, do not spy on each other, do not contend with each other, do not envy each other, do not hate each other, and do not turn away from each other. Rather, be servants of Allah as brothers."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5719, Sahih Muslim 2563
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Al-Bayhaqi reported: Ja’far ibn Muhammad, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “If you hear something from your brother that you reject, make an excuse for him up to seventy excuses. If you cannot do it, then say: 'Perhaps he has an excuse I do not know.'”
Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 7853