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Tiberius

@t-hy-lla / t-hy-lla.tumblr.com

alexei, 28, any pronouns. basically butch lesbian jim kirk. i don't really post original content anymore or answer asks. reblogs/follows aren't endorsements. transphobes do not interact

“Nonbinary” is an experience as much as it is an identity. There are as many types of nonbinary-ness as there are nonbinary people. You cannot define your sexuality on nonbinary people because we are not a third gender, we are not a social class, we are not distinguishable from people with “binary identities”. You are not doing anyone any favors by trying to build conversations that center nonbinary identities as the nexus for material analysis because there is no uniform nonbinary experience. Please, for the love of everything, just stop trying already. It’s not helpful or fruitful in any way!

i’m gonna say it

having teenages and ppl in their early 20s with little to no experience with irl sex, dating and LGBT communities lead online discourse on what is sexual orientation and what labels mean has done incredible damage to our community

so much of the shit that has come out of twitter and tumblr in the recent years literally sounds like a homophobic fever dream but if you dare point that out you will be sent death threats by a swarm of teenagers who have never talked to a lesbian offline

Y'all are so excited about SOAD's new song but do you know WHY they came back after so many years? Our homeland, Armenia, is under attack by Turkey and Azerbaijan and we're facing a second genocide. System Of A Down are Armenian and they wrote a song about the horrors we're facing.

Seeing all of you being so happy about this song makes me feel warm and proud... but just so you'd know this song is about a genocide my people are facing right now.

btw if ur not a trans woman it actually isnt funny for u to make jokes abt “transmisandry” given that “transmisandry” was only made up as a transmisogynistic reaction to trans women talking abt transmisogyny

Hey if ur tme u actually arent allowed to just like this u have to reblog it instead so that ur tme friends will also see it ty

thanksgiving is cancelled in 2020. instead, november will be a month of Dionysian madness, casting curses, moonlight revelry, dubious self-care methods, ritual sacrifice, and mashed potatoes. 

And we’re off to an excellent start.

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too many ppl get online pretending to be compassionate and caring, and talk about building a better future based on kindness and understanding. then turn around and make jokes about throwing away states that went red and writing off the ppl living in them, the whole time knowing that voter suppression exists. that gerrymandering exists. that oppressed ppl live in those states and are being directly effected every day. you’re being an asshole! you really are and no one is fucking laughing

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i wish someone had told me at 13 that depriving yourself of food and sleep is very much a form of self harm

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hey kids i know sometimes things are very rough, and feeling like ur in control of ur suffering can be a coping mechanism for a while, but pls eat and sleep, and try to be gentle to yourself if you can

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i went to go pick up my HORMONES from the chemist today and the guy was quite sweet and very well intentioned but clearly way out of his element... when i was leaving i did the standard “thanks have a nice night” and he responded with “you too enjoy your... (very very quietly obviously realising what he was saying was highly insane) gender...” and tbh i havent stopped thinking abt being a gender enjoyer since

I wish it wasn’t weird/awkward to tell people you have like, a distant crush on them lol. Like, I don’t need anything, I’m not asking for anything, I just want you to know I’m a little 😍 about your existence and I’m glad I know you.