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things i wouldnt tell anyone who knows me  all my posts are fine to reblog
I’ve spent most of my life and most of my friendships holding my breath and hoping that when people get close enough they won’t leave, and fearing that it’s a matter of time before they figure me out and go.

Shauna Niequist,  Bittersweet. (via wordsnquotes)

You've heard of these mom friend now get ready for:

The deadbeat dad friend

-People buy stuff for them but they have trouble returning the favor -Talks to friends one (1) time then disappear to who knows where -Have trouble forming close connections with others -Socially awkward -“I care about you guys so much!” -(Internally) I would sacrifice you to satan for a five dollars -Starts text conversations then ignore it when the other person replies

“you havent been yourself lately”

my man i havent been myself my whole life where u been?

Any other trauma survivors go through years thinking your trauma didn’t affect you? Only to realize it does affect you and you can see so many signs it has all along?