#a fascinating compilation of stiles stilinski’s sleeping face (◡‿◡✿)
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every character I love - Bellamy Blake ↳ “Who we are and who we need to be to survive are two very different things.”
harry potter characters and the major arcana / hermione + the high priestess the theme of the high priestess tarot card is of inner knowledge connecting each individual with the natural world. this card is also associated with feminine wisdom and intuition. this card indicates that you are seeking more knowledge, experiencing a spiritual awakening and the attainment of such wisdom requires discipline. she wants you to gain knowledge before you act: instinctual knowledge, supernatural knowledge, secret knowledge, self-knowledge.
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Way too soon to feel so strong Way too young to hurt so long I’m hurtin’ Was it worth it?
You overcome the past and break negative cycles by doing things differently, by looking back and realizing that you're no longer the person that you used to be. Being treated poorly or feeling walked on is a sign that you need to be more assertive with others and set healthy boundaries. Finding yourself in the same situations is a sign that you should try doing something differently, and finding yourself being attracted to toxic partners or the same types of relationships means you should work on self esteem and your sense of self worth. You can be a good person and still say no, or speak up when something is bothering you. Doing something differently to avoid old situations and bad results is a life lesson that helps you grow as a person, and realizing that things you were attracted too that might have been toxic, or that similar relationships to one's you've had before no longer appeal to you, just means that you've matured and aren't holding onto or stuck on the past, but that you've let it go, overcome it, and you're ready to move forwards. Either you're growing up, maturing or you've been hurt enough that you don't want to experience more of the same thing. Sometimes, it's a little bit of all three, and although it can be painful, it's also self empowering to realize that you have a choice not to do things the same way or let negative patterns and situations repeat. - My Thoughts (Things that I'm learning)
“All stories are about wolves. All worth repeating, that is. Anything else is sentimental drivel. There’s escaping from the wolves, fighting the wolves, capturing the wolves, taming the wolves. Being thrown to the wolves, or throwing others to the wolves so the wolves will eat them instead of you. Running with the wolf pack. Turning into a wolf. Best of all, turning into the head wolf. No other decent stories exist.” —Margaret Atwood
Female Awesome Meme ♡ [1/5] female characters with the best growth - Brooke Davis “You know when I was a freshman I wasn’t a very good person. And over the last four years I’ve been forced to grow up. I stopped letting boys define me, and I started believing in myself and in my potential and somewhere along the way, the lost little party girl became the girl on the wall of honor.”
When people say, 'I don't want this life', or they're dis-satisfied with something, I think that too often we forget that we can always choose to be happy by changing something. No one is ever stuck living an unhappy lifestyle or routine, and I think that knowing that is awfully empowering.
My Thoughts
harry potter meme - [5/10 characters] - Hermione Granger ↳ “ “Books! And cleverness! There are more important things — friendship and bravery.”
Something That Needs to be Addressed
Look, I know people are going to ship what they want. I can’t do anything about that and neither can anyone else. I mean its an opinion and everyone has the right to have opinions on things. There is a problem with this in a lot of communities: Shipping real people. That’s fine, kind of. But you have to respect people’s boundaries as well.
Like I get it. You think people will be cute together. Here’s the thing though if you ship two real people DON’T ASK THEM ABOUT IT. DON’T HARASS THEM ABOUT IT! DON’T SHOVE IT IN THEIR FACES!!!!! This isn’t cool. Like you can ship it, but most people get uncomfortable when they are shipped with their friends. For example: Tonight Tyler did a livestream on his instagram and people were bringing up Tythan to him and I could see upon him reading it that he was uncomfortable. He shrugged it off pretty quickly, but still. He’s addressed multiple times that he doesn’t want to be asked about that or for it to be brought up to him by fans and stuff.
I don’t want this to turn into Septiplier. Mark and Jack have both done videos a multiple points in time to be like “hey, can you please stop bringing this up? It makes me uncomfortable.” and people still brought it any time they could. Like make your art and make you fanfics and stuff, ship whatever you want, but don’t subject someone to something that they’ve stated makes them uncomfortable. Mark has made multiple videos about how Septiplier is dead, I don’t want to put Ethan or Tyler through this mess. I hate that Mark and Jack had to deal with that for so long.
If you really do look up to someone you have to respect their boundaries. I mean think about it like this. You’re in high school (or back in high school if you’ve already graduated) and someone comes up to you and shows you a picture of you and one of your friends that you have no sexual or romantic interest in having sex… everyday… for the whole school year. That’s how I see it. I wouldn’t want anyone to do that me and you probably wouldn’t be comfortable with that either. You wouldn’t have known or even said anything if they hadn’t showed you this picture. Even after you’re like hey can you not show me that, they still show you. It gets annoying.
TL;DR: Don’t bring up real person ships to the people that you ship or their friends. It can make them very uncomfortable and I don’t want it to ruin people’s friendships. Don’t stop creating, but don’t cause harm to people while doing it.
@crankgameplays @markiplier @therealjacksepticeye If I left anything out please add to this, I’m sorry I have to bring this up but I got really angry seeing Tyler get uncomfortable like that.
Agreed. It's one thing to ship two fictional characters together and post/blog about it, but it's a little different when it's two real people with their own thoughts and feelings that aren't acting lol :/. It can be cute and even a little humorous to say that two people look good together or would be good together for whatever reason, but boundaries should always be respected and if these two people have no romantic interest in each other, there's simply one sided interest, or even if they are interested in each other and being put on the spot makes them comfortable, you should have respect for them when it comes to not making them feel awkward or invading their personal privacy. People have the freedom to love who they love, and they also have a right to their own privacy
bellarke week | day 1 - favourite season “No, please. Please don’t. I’ll do anything. I’ll stop fighting just please don’t kill him.”
Sunshine, daisies, butter mellow, turn this stupid, fat rat yellow!