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Sweet Suggestions

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♡🌹Hi I'm milo (20) it/they and I'm here to make you smile🌹♡

my commissions are always open but i'm making a new post ^_^ all info + pricing is in the "byf" google doc in my description - just go to the third tab labelled commissions. (can't post the link here as tumblr kills posts with links)

as you can see i really enjoy drawing furries, but i will definitely draw humanoids if that's not your thing. icons are only £5, fullbodies are up to £25 (not including specifics like if you want multiple characters)

please consider checking me out!! ^_^

dividers by @animatedglittergraphics-n-more ocs belong to @kafkaboyfriend @canon-shark @demospiral and @torajira

pls rb!! esp if mutuals

I think one of the most profound forms of love is "I'll try that, for you. I may not like it, but I'll try it."

It's a confused middle-aged man in a pottery class, whose daughter is helping him with his clay's plasticity. It's a kid scrunching up their brow while listening to their mom's favorite music, trying to figure out why she likes it. It's a girlfriend who says "Yes, I'll go with you" and her girlfriend cheering and buying a second ticket for a con. It's a friend half dragging another friend through an aquarium, the one being dragged laughing and calling out "Wait, wait, I know we're here for the exhibit, but I haven't been here! Slow down!"

It's being willing to spend some of your time trying something new because it makes someone you love happy.

good morning to tummies that have rolls and arms that jiggle and thighs that could crush a man’s skull and back dimples and double chins and soft bodies that deserve more gentleness than they get sometimes

this was my fastest post to multi-hundred notes in my life and I just wanna say i’m so happy because the last one to get traction really fast was a sad one about feeling unwanted and id rather contribute to happy and hopeful things than sad and lonely things even if i feel the sad and lonely things more often

A short list of things I think everyone should try or do at least once in their life that will make you feel more alive. Not all of these are applicable to every person, but it’s a summary:

  • Take a dance class of any style with a semi-serious instructor for at least 4 classes worth
  • Write a work of fiction, of *any* length and *any* quality
  • Learn a least a bit of a language that isn’t your native one. You don’t need to become anywhere near fluent, but try and get a bit beyond yes, no, and where’s the bathroom. If you’re from a country where most people are bilingual already, that doesn’t count! Get bits of a language with which you are truly unfamiliar.
  • In the same vein, make peace with subtitles and start consuming music, TV and movies from cultures that aren’t your own. If your country imports large amounts of media from a specific other culture or cultures (American movies in foreign markets, for example) that also doesn’t count! Get some feelers out to begin to take in content from a culture that you don’t already have a lot of knowledge of.
  • Try at least one less common/less “exercisey” and more fun type of physical exercise such as roller blading or roller or ice skating, gymnastics, trampoline, rock climbing, aerial silks, pole dancing, surfing, etc
  • Learn a hobby or craft that produces a physical finished product and produce a single, complete object - regardless of quality - that you can hold in your hands and say that you made.
  • Look up a how it’s made video or YouTube video on how an item that’s interesting or relevant to you is made
  • Give one type of thing - media, hobby, sport, whatever - that you’ve never been interested in or never tried because of some preconceived perception an honest shot and see if your perception was correct. Sometimes it won’t be, sometimes it will be, but it’s valuable to know.
  • Rearrange the furniture in a room in your home

It’s about NOVELTY, babey! Get some enrichment into your enclosure!

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I've been doing all of these things and my brain and body feel so nice

To anyone who was suicidal at age 14 or younger, here’s your permission to grieve. Here’s your permission to not joke about it or just flat out ignore it. Here’s your permission to acknowledge that lost child who felt way more pain than any child should ever feel. You’re allowed to cry for that child, whether you healed or are still suffering the same thoughts. Finally allow yourself to grieve for that child filled with undeserved hurt.