I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure--It is: Try to please everybody.
Herbert Bayard Swope

Herbert Bayard Swope
Marthe Troly-Curtin, Phrynette Married
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Leo Buscaglia
anxious at work helpful hints
Beverly Engel, The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused -- And Start Standing Up for Yourself
assertive techniques published here
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Paulo Coelho, By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
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