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Cheyenne

@sundancekidok

21, OH

When your girl catches you off guard you gotta improvise

Anonymous asked:

Are you transgender?

You Bet. 💙💕⚪️💕💙

my boyfriend and I sometimes struggle to be on the same page when it comes to comforting- often i just want to vent and don’t need advice, whereas validation confuses him and he wants a plan of action

to counter this, we’ve come up with a system where we ask: “do you want advice, empathy, both or neither?” 

if it’s just advice, i know to go straight to action points and not spend time on fluffy words 

if it’s just empathy, he knows i want to be reassured and comforted and that’s all

if it’s both, it’s time for advice that recognises how hard the situation is and is perhaps gentler in nature

if it’s neither, just a hug is really good

i recommend trying to use this in your lives! it makes sure you’re giving and getting what you need, and reduces the risk of resentment or similar

Anonymous asked:

I have been madly in love with you for years and it kills me more and more everyday but I'm almost at the point of being okay. I'm glad you're happy.

I'm sorry to hear about that buddy, and if there is anything I can do/ not do to help let me know (though of course my knowledge is a little limited considering you're anon). I hope happiness for you too 😊 (hint: it's can't be found in another person though)

Anonymous asked:

What's your biggest regret

Every answer I think of I remember that it helped me get to where I am today and I learned stuff and met important people from it all, even though lots of shitty things have happened in life. So I guess I don't really have any. Except maybe shattering my phone screen because that was pretty fucking stupid on my behalf. 😂 but like, other than that life is Gucci.

Anonymous asked:

How's life?

I just saw this two months later don't I feel like a dick 😅 but life's good. Hope yours is too 😊