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strawberries aren't berries

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but bananas are / aroallo + nonbinary / they/them / I reblog stuff this is the reblog account

Alright, I think I like tumblr now.

A pun post crossed my dash, and I reblogged it with an equally bad pun in return. A couple of my followers find it funny, it's a good day for everyone.

That was on July 7th.

Virality on Reddit was entirely algorithmic. You could garner a couple crossposts, but the success of a post was entirely dependent on whether or not it hit r/all--the main page of Reddit. If your post does that, it's immediately exposed to 10x the number of people and immediately gets upvoted.

On my pun post, I get a couple reblogs. And those reblogs get a couple reblogs--nobody really adds any content to the post, it just gets a couple reblogs here and there.

There's a specific chain of reblogs that I'd like to focus on. The most popular post on this chain has about 25 reblogs on it. Half the posts have three reblogs or fewer. Five posts in this chain have just one reblog total.

But the reblog chain keeps going. And going. It breaches containment many times over. And finally, after a chain THIRTY SIX posts long, at 9:30 AM, July 22nd this morning, it hits a popular account.

99% percent of the people who have seen the post--virtually unchanged from how it left my dash--have seen it because it was curated by 36 different people. That's insane to me.

None of those 36 people know that they're part of this chain. They saw a post, reblogged it, and moved on. If any one of these people had not reblogged, the post would have a fraction of the impact it has.

And yet, after two weeks, the post has effectively hit the main page of tumblr. It was picked up, only because people liked it enough to show it to their followers. There were no algorithms necessary.

You really, truly, cannot get this on any other website.

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No reblogs = an empty dash for your followers. I’ve been here over a decade and this affects meas a user in a form where I don’t get to see others’ stuff. I don’t see fanarts, edits, metas, posts, photos etc. in my dash because people don’t reblog. I use actively search function and I still miss so much things I want to see. Following new blogs doesn’t really help because people keep mainly liking things and likes aren’t visible for anyone. For You page is a good addition to find new stuff but it doesn’t work as effectively as people in Tumblr reblogging stuff. Been there, done that, I can tell the difference.

For example, when Voltron and Steven Universe were airing, my dash was full of reblogs and posts of both of them, even when I follow only few blogs. It was clear that there were super popular series and not some small group’s joy, like for example Trollhunters is. Miraculous Ladybug was also doing lots of round here and that’s how I discovered the series 8 years ago. When Mass Effect 2 was released, my dash was so full of post of the game that I actually ended up getting that game and now I’m still a fan of the series. So, in short, I have found so many good things here, thanks to people I follow actively reblogging and bringing them to my dash :3

Now, The Owl House was a big thing. Like Steven Universe and Voltron. Have I seen reblogs and posts on TOH in my dash? No. Only a few here and there. When checking any TOH post now, the reblog-like ratio is like 2000 reblogs and 22 000 likes. So 2000 people saw the post, 22000 people didn’t.

Mass Effect 2 sold in 2010 with 572,100 units. My dash was full of Mass Effect 2 posts due reblogs! Baldur’s Gate 3 has now sold at least 2,5 million units - and I’ve seen like 4 people reblogging a few posts about it.

There’s always an outcry “But I don’t want to reblog everything!”. No, you don’t have to. People didn’t reblog everything 8 years ago either but they reblogged majority of the things they encountered and liked. Tumblr is broke and doesn’t work, is people archive 80% of the posts they encounter to private likes and reblog 20%. Tumblr is built to people reblogging 80% and archiving 20% to their private likes.

You with your reblogs are the enrichment to the dash of those people who follow you (and if they don’t like your reblogs, they can unfollow, which is not a personal attack on anyone. It’s called curating your own internet experience instead of allowing capitalism with algorithms decide what you see, read and hear).

Everyone’s dashes will dry out without reblogs, it’s not just people creating stuff and posting it up here not getting enough views from multiple sources. It affects Tumblr as a whole, as this was built on reblogs and people keeping everyone’s dashes alive and literally creating their followers’ dashes. If it’s not reblogged, it’s not on anyone else’s dash but the post creator’s dash (and their followers’ dashes, whether there’s 5 or 500). it MIGHT appear in the tag search or in the For You but only MIGHT.

Crazy how people just simply aren't doing that lately. I have specific blogs curated for specific content.

My main blog, the kawaii butterfly girl is for general content and comments on reblogs like this one. But for other fandom content, I post those on two separate blogs. phantasmsinsideme for aesthetics, it includes tons of spoilers and some gifs with flashing lights, so that's why I don't post it for my general blog. And imjustbaby, there's a variety of goofy content, such as cursed things like clowns or some type of bugs, as well as lots of spoilers for things, so that's why it's not on my general blog.

I'd say it's good to have different blogs to post different types of content, but if you'd really like to know what your mutuals are into, I'd ask them if they have any blogs like this, if you don't mind spoilers that is.

Please be sure to have a general side or main blog, it's fun to post things and that's the point. Whether you call it your personal, your reblog blog, your admin blog, fandom blog, general blog, etc. Just post things, it keeps the site alive.

Today I learned that the tag “laugh rule” refers to a rule where if you laugh you have to reblog something. Not me being on this site for years and years and thinking that people were making a joke about living under laugh rule the way you would live under, say, mob rule.

I’ve literally used the tag and been thinking to myself “ah yes, laugh rule. where humor is king and the memes you trade are the currency of empire”

I was having a conversation about "narcissistic abuse" with a person with NPD. We were talking about the need to call out toxic behaviors that might come with unmanaged NPD, and how it's nothing like what we see now online. We talked about how people like them, who want to treat others well and manage their disorder, deserve to have resources that help them have healthy relationships. And they thanked me for not immediately assuming the worst of them. Which. Just shows you how they're used to being treated.

They got suicide baiting from random strangers just for the fact that they have NPD.

I've seen people getting told "this is doing nothing but making me feel awful about myself" and responding with "you should feel awful about yourself, you're a narcissist!"

It's dangerous to equate abuse with narcissism. It's dangerous to see people with NPD as deserving of harm. Most people with NPD will already be victims of abuse - that's how the disorder is usually developed. If you buy into the idea that they're abusive by nature, you're harming survivors.

There's no harmless way to dehumanize an entire group of people. Especially not over a trait they can't help.

Victims and survivors of abuse should get to talk about their experiences. This doesn't require diagnosing anyone and it doesn't require using a term that's associated with a disorder that's already seen as an inherent evil. There's no kind of abuse that's inherent or exclusive to a specific disorder. I hear the term "coercive control" which sounds really good for the kind of emotional and psychological abuse that gets discussed in those conversations, without adding ableist stigma.

If your opposition to ableism doesn't include people with the most stigmatized disorders, how deeply are you truly thinking about things.

The harm caused to people with NPD through stigma is enough for this to matter. But in addition to that, it's harmful to other people too.

First of all, because you buy into having a group of people who become acceptable targets over a condition they can't help.

Second, because you teach yourself to armchair diagnose people. Which means that you get to put whoever you want into the "acceptable target" group.

When you have a group of people that you think don't deserve to be treated as people, it's easier to persuade you to put unrelated people in that category. Think of the way accusations of "child predator!" are wielded against queer people too. This is not an uncommon tactic.

And it's already a thing here. Sam Vaknin was the one who coined the term narcissistic abuse. That's a man with no credentials to talk about mental health or about abuse. He's a hateful bigoted person. The things that he considers narcissistic include homosexuality, transgender identities, and women who sleep with multiple men instead of settling down with one.

If you buy into the idea that having NPD essentially means being abusive, and then all these things are all narcissistic things. At that point we have a line drawn between queerness and abuse, using the line that was drawn between NPD and abuse.

And another point, about the harassment people with NPD get, is - we shouldn't be punishing people. Just, in general. Punishment isn't justice and it isn't accountability. Withstanding whatever harm people see fit to inflict on you because they were convinced to hate you, rightfully or not, isn't justice or accountability. Even if you convinced yourself that the harm isn't real because… it happens in the virtual space? And that makes it fake somehow?

Think of the way people online talk about narcissists. Think of how easily they armchair diagnose NPD, calling any abuser a narc, and sometimes from one sided stories. And the way people hurry to cyberbully and dogpile.

Abusers will often paint their victims as the abusive ones as a way to escape being known as abusive. And if you take the job of punishing people that you decided deserve it, you will at some point become a tool of an abuser trying to further harm their victim.

Even if you see evidence, it's easy to fake and manufacture. And it'll only become easier with voice and video AI tools. And even if it's all true, punishing people does nothing good.

Convincing you that a group of people is inherently dangerous is a way to make you willing to harm them, or stand by as harm is being done to them. People with NPD don't deserve that.

Stop looking for people that it's acceptable to harass and punish and ostracize. Most of us are susceptible to mob mentality, and having acceptable targets makes you dangerous.

Wander wanted to share a little reminder to the entire Wander fandom that next Wednesday, August 16th, 2023, Wander Over Yonder’s sneak peek episode, “The Picnic” will officially turn 10 years old! 

Here’s to Ten Years of Wandering! 

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does tumblr know about tim misny??? like has the level of tim misny awareness that exists in northeast ohio broken containment and become known online yet???

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ok so tim misny is a personal injury lawyer here in ohio.

that’s him. you do not have to remember his face from this image because you’re gonna see it a lot in this post. so mainly i think we all kinda honed in on tim misny because of his slogan

he’s gonna make them pay. he’s gonna get you that money but also it’s a little threatening like he’s gonna fully fuck his legal opponent’s shit up. this sprung tons of local memes. then there were the billboards which were normal at first.

but here’s the thing; we already know what misny does. he makes them pay. so it turns into just saying “you know what i do” which is funny enough if you don’t at all have the context.

but this is not where the absurdity caps out, my friends. no. this is what it has evolved to and they. are. everywhere.

that’s right. no text. just the judging eyes of tim misny, glaring through our skin and into our souls. there is no god. there is no devil. there is just tim misny and he’s gonna make them pay.

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"Isn't it weird that [thing humans commonly eat] is poisonous to literally every domesticated animal" I mean, there's a pretty good chance that [thing humans commonly eat] is at least mildly poisonous to humans, too. One of our quirks as a species is that we think our food is bland if it doesn't have enough poison in it.

Humans have a really weird mix of mundane superpowers.

We're not fast and don't have a lot of natural weaponry but we're bizarrely tolerant to a broad range of toxins to the point that one toxin is considered a morning necessity for some to perform at work. Gotta love us.

i know its the mets, but this is the coolest shit i’ve ever seen a human being do

Wtf????

Smoove with it too 

This is the kind of shit you see in anime that shows that a certain character is stronger than other characters. 

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“Pathetic.  You can’t even hold the bat you dare step to the plate? Have you no respect for the sport?”

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Baseball players are to be feared

Reblogging for the last one

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^Same for me

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They just kept getting progressively more “woah”

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much woah

Oh my god this is a lucky universe

every time this post comes around, my favorite part is the “I know it’s the Mets” qualifier at the beginning lmao like how baseball that this zillion note posts starts with “sorry for putting this hellteam on your dash, bUT”

Y’all have no idea how hard I was trying not to laugh in class at that poor bird

They…they just blew up a fucking bird…

Ball’s dead. Bird’s dead. I’m dead

World Heritage Post

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personally my favorite thing about Mr. Bird Evaporator is this imagine being the poor fool tryna rob this man’s house only to be instantly transported to the same dimension as that bird

Are we all forgetting that Randy Johnson then went on to make a sports photography company, and the logo for said company is the obliterated bird?

is this even funny i dont think its funny im not putting it in the tags

How has this comic made such a groundbreaking cultural impact without getting over 40k notes

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if you are dealing with extreme heat or even just. moderate heat in your area right now. 80f/26c is when it starts getting toasty for a lot of people. if you are in a heat wave and you have not done yourself the favor of googling fucking "heat exhaustion symptoms" i am shaking you violently right now. look it up. burn the symptoms into your brain. heatstroke is no joke and it can and WILL sneak up on you before you're aware it's even an issue. ohh my god