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not a lot going on at the moment

@starsbythepocketful12

adrian/mateo, 19 years old, white & dominican, 🇺🇸, they/them, lesbian.
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the sound of an orchestra tuning up makes me go crazyinsane it makes me start thinking about the eventual heat death of the universe and how someday somewhere an orchestra is going to tune up for the very last time. ever. and then the sun will swallow the earth & turn into a white dwarf & all the stars will go out & meanwhile a gazillion light years away sentient life will be evolving from silicon. and maybe they will have orchestras also

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sending people wikipedia articles is my favorite form of humor. one time a long time friend of mine asked why i was using a different name and acting different i sent him the wikipedia page for DID. ryder just asked me why its 108 degrees in nevada right now and i sent him the wikipedia page for global warming and the season of summer.

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i see you all in the tags going "this is so funny" you better not steal my fucking bit. im copyrighting this joke

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you cant do this to me

“The lesbian femme is the greater mystery. She isn’t about being decorated for men, or the goddess of fertility, or trying to stay young all your life. She’s some other power, some other creativity and life force. She has opened her lace, her legs, her lips. She’s inviting exploration. Go to her now.”

— Judy Grahn, The Butch Frames the Femme Butch/Femme, 1995 (via persistentlyfem)

black lesbians honestly deserve so much more. they are constantly an afterthought in the lgbtq community despite having so much history in building it. it really hurts seeing other lgbtq members brush off black lesbians struggles to them “overreacting” or being “too emotional” over being constantly erased from their own community. listen to black lesbians. if a black lesbian tells you that you are making your lgbtq space unsafe or uncomfortable for them then you listen and make changes. it shouldn’t be controversial to say that black lesbians deserve to feel safe and accepted in the lgbtq community.

But I still don't know how to hold your hand without reading the ugliness of my own, But I can't contain my soul from enveloping yours !
Web weaving about holding hands an emotion

{quotes:Mary Ruefle/uk/Francis Forever Song by Mitski/The Hand Has Twenty-Seven Bones by Natalie Diaz/Hélène Cixous, from “Olivier De Serres- A Single Passion Two Witnesses,” Love Itself: In the Letter Box (Polity Press, 2008) /uk /Saadi Youssef, from ‘Solos on the Oud’, Without an Alphabet, Without a Face: Selected Poems (trans. Khaled Mattawa) /fatima aamer bilal, from her garden yearns more for visitors than water. }

Still not done and this is an incredibly IMPORTANT part of the conversation around stone identities.

I am not going to "melt the stone" or try to force my partners boundaries in the name of reciprocity, my fiance is a stone butch top. I'm not going to press them to let me touch them or fuck them or talk to them in a way they aren't COMFORTABLE WITH OR WANT.

Stone tops aren't damaged or broken or just need coaxing to enjoy something that is outside of their boundaries.

My butch doesn't want to take strap or want to be penetrated, I'm not gonna try to manipulate them into trying because SOMEONE ELSE WHO DOESNT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT US OR DYKE STONE IDENTITIES, thinks my sex life isn't shared and reciprocal.

Stop disregarding stone identities.

And lovingly from my stone butch top fiance, stay out of dyke business ✨️💋