"Growing Around Grief"

Lois Tonkin, 1996

This is the most important thing I’ve learned about grieving. It never goes away. Time doesn’t make it smaller. Time, if you do the work, makes you bigger. Self expansion is key. Self expansion through creativity and passion and communication. My grief used to be all of me. Now it is a part of me. An important part, but just a part. I love this visualization so much.

ur friends don't hate you

nobody is secretly mad at you

you have anxiety and that's ok you are loved

I'm so tired of living this way (← girl that will never do anything to change her way of living because breaking the routine scares her more than anything)

Thank you, Matthew Perry (August 19, 1969 - October 28, 2023)

self-care phrases to boost your confidence

it's always important to be aware of your surroundings in nature, wild predators are incredibly stealthy

Eevee and Sylveon ☁️🎈

You either die a hero living in their van or you live long enough to see yourself become a villain trying to get the deed to a haunted amusement park

rest in peace matthew perry (1969-2023)

Not sure why this park thought the first two sign language words they needed to teach to kids were “Ghost” and “Run”

"I have to get it right the first time!"

why? why do you have to get it right the first time? what's actually going to happen if your words aren't in the absolute perfect order before you move on to the next sentence? you aren't showing the draft to anyone. this is why we have the editing and revision process. perfection is a trap that keeps you from making progress. dare I say it's rooted in fear? let it go. allow yourself to be imperfect.

The fearless hero + 💀

I have no energy to argue. I’m okay with being misunderstood. I’m not going to keep repeating myself and I refuse to fix every little disagreement. Everyone will not hear you, nor are they interested in hearing you and I’ve learned to be okay with saving my energy and not putting it towards negativity.

I could get over anything as long as I have something new to be obsessed with

girls when they don’t have a new obsession that helps them dissociate from their problems and they’re actually forced to face their thoughts

Random Civilian: I love your accent, Commander. Where's it from?

Commander Fox: A cloning lab

ryan after he killed the professor

boss and her security guard girlfriend