midnight refreshments
i got top surgery last week :)
#don't even know who's following me on here who wouldn't have seen this on twitter#but yes!!#despite waiting for almost 2 years#this all came together super quick#and i'm so grateful i had the courage to do this for myself#i'm recovering well but not being able to shower is making me slightly insane#only a few more days till i go to my in-person post op tho!#then they'll take off the compression binder for the first time#and i'll get to see my chest for the first time#i really can't wait
watching reddit go into a full death spiral is like watching the specifically trans equivalent of the library of alexandria go up in flames
like yes reddit is also the only place on the internet you can get an actual answer to any question in general. but it’s also a huge centralized community database about which surgeons will fuck you over, who takes what insurance, which doctors you can trust, how to write a template therapist’s letter, insurance appeals, peer support, questions that feel too stupid to ask anywhere else, diy guidelines, “hey this is embarrassing but,” finding trans people in your area, explaining why you need PTO without getting way too personal about it, safety tips, et cetera you get the picture
Someone on trans Reddit just bought the url transgender.org and have put out a call for folks to help turn it into a replacement (and more). Here's a link on r/ftm but it's open to everyone
do yall look at your keyboard when you’re typing
respond with your age too btw
#i do not need to look at the keyboard at all#the reason is because keyboarding was a required class for me the summer before my freshman year of high school#honestly probably the most useful class i ever took in my life#they put a cover over our hands#so we couldn't look at the keyboard while typing#and the program we were using#would make us start over if we fucked up the sentences#needless to say i got really good really fast#i am 32!
randomly curious if im weird or if people are like me
I GOT A FUCKING RAISE THE POTATO WORKED WTF
This potato works. Every. Fucking. Time.
I would enjoy some good luck from the potato.
I need some luck right now, so all hail the Lucky Potato. Do your magic, Potato. I respect you so much I am capitalizing the "P" in Potato.
"And then Suwa starts to sing. Two verses in, I fidget, knowing what's to come, but it still bowls me over when the song tilts and pushes into the chorus. I see it so clearly, the visual sequence attached to the moment. Of Marigold free-falling, but the perspective of the camera is flipped so that it looks like she and the leaning clouds are scrolling across the screen instead. Streaks of gossamer glitches gliding down the frame, blooming into iridescent halftones.
...Afterward he beams, his eyes crinkling like new butterfly wings. It feels so natural and so, so right to watch him onstage. He's cast a spell over the entire venue."
— Beating Heart Baby, Lio Min (2022)
vaxleth makes my heart go 🥺
kiki and the crochet cherry sweater
she was always there, wasn’t she?
i cant really tell anyone what to do bc this site is full of stubborn people but. if u want u can reblog and put the exact amount in the tags
you underestimate my power
Ps I’d love to hear what the tattoos are of in the comments or notes! don’t forget to reblog for a bigger sample size please ^-^
#i have 2 currently!!#just got them about 2 weeks ago#a hermes wing on each calf next to my ankles#i have WINGS#i also have designed a lotus flower sleeve for my left arm that i want to get soon#i want something on my right forearm too#thinking that i'd like to do something with moon stars and water#something really flowy and pretty#there are so many pretty flash designs i've seen too#it's a little addicting ngl lol