• when showering, try to keep shampoo away from your ends. they dry out much more quickly, and shampoo strips away any natural oils or moisture in your ends, meaning your hair will look frizzy even after conditioner. the hair closer to your scalp is the only part that needs to be cleaned anyway. blake lively, the goddess of hair herself, swears by this.
• don’t condition your hair near your scalp!! this will inevitably create product/oil buildup and will make your hair greasy and flat. only use it on your ends (for longer hair, start at the nape of ur neck and work toward the ends). also, let your conditioner sit for a minute or two after applying. i usually shave or wash my face while it sits so i make sure it has time to work its magic.
• instead of wrapping wet hair in a towel twist, try the old t-shirt twist! t-shirts are much gentler and less abrasive against delicate wet hair, which, you guessed it, reduces frizz.
• when brushing wet hair, start at the ends and work your way up. if you have to put in product before you brush it, like me, use a different brush at the scalp to reduce any product buildup/greasiness/flatness.
• don’t go to bed with your hair wet. not only can you develop mold/bacteria in your hair if it stays wet too long (GROSS), wet hair is a lot more prone to breakage (meaning the more you toss and turn, the frizzier your hair will be). the main reason i advise against it is because it makes your scalp itch like crazy and can make your roots look oily the next day.
• brush your hair out at the end of the day to distribute the natural oils in your scalp–this is good for creating shine, decreasing oiliness in second- or third-day roots, and growing out your hair.
• please use heat protectants before drying/heat styling your hair!! 
• evenly distribute any products you put in by brushing them through.
• if you have dandruff, get some selsun blue, head&shoulders, or neutrogena T-gel shampoo. they will save your life and your scalp.
• don’t use scalding hot water when showering, ESPECIALLY if you have colored hair. not only does it basically strip color from your hair, it’s bad for your hair texture and health. try to use warm to cool water (the colder the water, the shinier your hair!! it helps seal the hair shaft).
• if your hair lacks body, especially near the scalp, it could be the result of product buildup. try using a clarifying shampoo once every week or two depending on your hair’s thickness.
• if your hair is still flat, try changing your part! it instantly changes your look and can immediately add volume.
• try to get your hair trimmed every 6 months, at the least.
• sea salt spray creates instant body and texture on most hair types. it is especially great if you have wavy to curly hair or short hair. one of my favorites is organix moroccan oil sea salt spray– you can find it at drugstores for a great price and it works beautifully, plus the moroccan oil adds shine and softness. another good and even cheaper one is nym sea salt spray (also available at most drugstores).
• coconut oil is a godsend. use it as a hair mask, an after-shower detangler, a product in place of smoothing creme, or put a tiny bit on your fingers to smooth flyaways. you can basically use it for whatever u want. just make sure it’s organic or else you’re not helping your hair much lol

• how to trim your split ends at home
• how to cut your own hair at home
• homemade hair masks: 1 | 2 | 3
• homemade brown sugar scalp scrub
• how to french braid your own hair
• how to fishtail braid
• how to waterfall braid
• diy: how to go from dark to blonde hair the healthy way  (great tutorial if you’re bleaching your hair or dyeing it a pastel color!!)
• ion professional hair care products (dyes, toners, etc – cheap but amazing quality!)

• use an unscented pH balanced bar soap, such as dove or aveeno, to prevent dryness, acne, or any harsh chemicals from damaging your skin. this is especially important when washing your underarms, ya bizness, and any other sensitive areas.
• liquid body wash actually tends to clog pores more than bar soap, so if you have body acne, try cleansing with bar soap instead.
• the best way to get rid of body acne is to use a spray with salicylic acid after drying your skin post-shower. my favorite is acnefree, but neutrogena body clear and nature’s cure are also great. if you have long hair, try to keep it off your back/shoulders, especially when wet/after applying product.
• if you have keratosis pilaris, also known as KP (google for images), the best way to get rid of it is to exfoliate with either a sugar scrub or a gentle exfoliator in the shower, then moisturize immediately after you dry off. it’s really just the result of dry skin, so if you maintain it you could get rid of it. this goes for dry skin in general.
• if you shave, always buy men’s razors. you get a much closer and smoother shave since they’re made for faces instead of legs. i know they’re not cute or colorful, but you can get more razors as well as more/better blades for less money. i can get 5 men’s disposable razors with 4 blades each for $8, instead of 3 women’s razors with 3 blades each for like $11. it’s a conspiracy. buy men’s razors please. dismantle the constructs of gender
• moisturize when you get out of the shower, after you dry off a little. it will help your skin retain moisture better and make your skin softer, since water and soap dry it out. i don’t recommend using baby oil since mineral oil is terrible for your skin, and i don’t recommend stuff with artificial fragrances or dyes, but if you want to smell like jasmine midnight kisses or w/e then do ur thing. i usually use aveeno, eucerin, aquaphor body lotion, or just coconut oil since they’re all great for sensitive skin and absorb quickly.
• please shower after you work out or sweat a lot. you will prevent body acne, bacteria buildup, yeast infections, smelling horrendous, and even staph infection (particularly if you go to the gym). you don’t have to wash your hair every time unless you’re drenched in sweat but please shower. 
• underarms are sensitive children who will throw tantrums if you don’t pay them proper attention. try to find deodorant without aluminum or any weird preservatives to prevent rashes. i recommend tom’s deodorant or making your own.
• if you have really dry, cracking feet, try putting vaseline or a thick lotion (i use burt’s bees coconut foot creme) on your feet, put on socks, and keep them on overnight. it will feel a little weird and squishy at first, but after a few days you will definitely find it worth the weirdness!!

• diy recipe for the greatest body scrub ever (literal magic i’m so serious)
• diy deodorant: 1 | 2 | 3
• diy coffee body scrub
• at-home manicure
• at-home pedicure
• diy bath soaks: 1 | 2 | 3
• dollar shave club 

• i cannot stress enough how amazing coconut oil is. use it as a makeup remover (especially wonderful for eye makeup!!), a moisturizer, or even as an acne treatment:
• if you have one of those god-awful huge, painful blemishes, mix coconut oil with some 100% tea tree oil (dilute the tea tree oil like this or you WILL get a rash) and use it as a spot treatment. the coconut oil balances the oil on your skin, while the tea tree oil kills bacteria.
• be gentle when dealing with your skin, especially with pulling and tugging around your eyes. you will thank me when you’re older.
• don’t listen to vogue or cosmo and don’t start using anti-aging products in your twenties. please. you don’t need it. do incorporate sun protection into your daily routine. get a moisturizer with spf in it to protect your skin and use it in the mornings. this will prevent wrinkles and, more importantly, skin cancer.
• wash your face first thing in the morning to get rid of all the nasty excess oil you produce in your sleep. wash it before you go to bed (after removing makeup) too. 
• after washing your face, apply a toner (or, if you have acne, a treatment containing salicylic acid. i use clearisil 5 in 1 pads or neutrogena natural spot treatment), let it dry, and then moisturize. this is so important. i don’t care who you are or your skin type. when you apply acidic products or wash your face without moisturizing it, your skin gets stripped of natural oils/moisture and then panics by creating an excess of oil, meaning you get greasy skin and acne. get a moisturizer that works with your skin type and i promise you will notice a difference if you don’t already use it.
• if you wear makeup and want to go for a quick/easy/natural/no-makeup look, or if you don’t have time to do your full face, or if you think you look dead bc you didn’t sleep, you don’t need to do a bunch of extra stuff. just cover up any acne with concealer, put on some blush and mascara, and then leave everything else alone. blush is magical and will instantly make you look fresh and young and alive and pretty. 
• don’t touch your acne. the more you touch it, the worse it gets. if you have to…pop it (i’m sorry that’s so gross i couldn’t think of another way to say it), just make sure you wash your hands first and disinfect/put acne treatment on it directly afterward. STOP trying to do anything if you see blood or if it gets too painful. 
• clean your phone screen and glasses frames with an alcohol swab every few days to keep your face clean.
• please, for the love of god, don’t put lemon juice or baking soda on your face. it is so corrosive. don’t listen to pinterest. also, don’t use sugar scrub or body exfoliator on your face as it’s way more delicate than your body’s skin.
• if you get a lot of chin-area acne, it could be a hormonal issue. talk to your doctor about birth control, and if you’re already taking it then make sure you’re taking it regularly (which you should be anyway omg)
• wash/change your sheets and pillowcas(es) every two weeks at the LEAST. imagine how much nastiness gets on your pillowcase from hair products, oil, dead skin…i don’t even wanna think about what gets on it. plus, fresh sheets always make everything better :)
• drink lots of water every day. your skin needs it.
• above all, love your skin. be gentle to it. treat it well. it will love you back if you do.

• diy face masks: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4
• ways to use coconut oil: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4
• acne face chart
• best blush shades for your skin tone
• how to shape and groom your brows
• how to make lipstick from crayons
• winged eyeliner tutorial
• how to use liquid liner
• easy ways to change your look
• how to get rid of dark circles

1. Do not start with the thank you.

2. Start with any other sentence. If you first say, “Thank you for the nice sweater,” you can’t imagine what to write next. Say, “It was so wonderful to come home from school to find this nice sweater. Thank you for thinking of me on Arbor Day.”

3. Then you’re done.

I recommend learning how to write a very good thank-you note. A child who can write a nice thank-you note can turn into a cocaine dealer five years later and be remembered as the child who wrote nice thank-you notes.

1. Do you like resting your head in a boys lap, or on his shoulder?
2. Sweaters or hoodies?
3. Netflix or clubbing on a Friday night?
4. Denim or leather jackets?
5. What’s your favorite thing about boys?
6. How do you like your tea?
7. How do you like your coffee?
8. Favorite fall color?
9. Can you drive?
10. Do you have a crush?
11. What’s your favorite sport?
12. Are you a pastel, neon, or neutral color mlm?
13. Do you wear makeup?
14. Do you like boys taller or shorter than you?
15. Do you prefer hand kisses, or nose kisses?
16. What’s your favorite cologne smell?
17. Ideal date?
18. What’s more romantic: cabin getaway, or tropical vacation?
19. What’s your favorite mlm movie?
20. Do you believe in love at first sight?
21. Have you ever been in love?
22. Do you like sitting in a boys lap, or do you prefer when a boy sits in yours?
23. Metal or cloth bracelets?
24. What’s one of your favorite memories of being in love?
25. Do you tilt your head to the left or right when you kiss?
26. Would you like to take his last name when you marry?
27. Do you want kids?
28. Do you interlock fingers when you hold hands?
29. What’s a compliment you’d love to receive from a boy?
30. What’s better, waking up to him in the morning, or falling asleep next to him at night?
31. Any turn offs?
32. What makes you blush?
33. Coffee shop or dog park date?
34. Big spoon or little spoon?
35. What first catches your eye?
36. Would you enjoy it if he bought you flowers?
37. Do you think matching couple outfits are cute or cheesy?
38. Have you ever asked a boy out?
39. Which is cuter, him being confident, or shy?
40. What’s one of your fave love songs?

1. She ain’t no games in real life so I take her serious all the time
2. Anyone with a name that starts with a “Z”, ends with an “i”, and isn’t some kind of Italian pasta, IS SERIOUS
3. I’m not climbing no mountain with a pig on my back, 🙅🏽🙅🏾🙅🏿 Negative.