“Brown eyes are just brown eyes, until you love someone with brown eyes.”
— Everything about you is just perfect // N.A.A 12:08am
Have you ever just like looked at the girl you really like and your heart kinda drops because she’s so fucking beautiful and your cheeks hurt from smiling so much
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I’m pretty sure I didn’t just meet you for nothing
“I like how sleeping next to someone means more than sex sometimes, the body’s way of saying ‘I trust you to be by my side at my most vulnerable time,’ you have no defenses when you are asleep, you tell no lies”
— Eric Shaw (via perrfectly)
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“You ruin your life by desensitizing yourself. We are all afraid to say too much, to feel too deeply, to let people know what they mean to us. Caring is not synonymous with crazy. Expressing to someone how special they are to you will make you vulnerable. There is no denying that. However, that is nothing to be ashamed of. There is something breathtakingly beautiful in the moments of smaller magic that occur when you strip down and are honest with those who are important to you. Let that girl know that she inspires you. Tell your mother you love her in front of your friends. Express, express, express. Open yourself up, do not harden yourself to the world, and be bold in who, and how you love. There is courage in that.”
— Bianca Sparacino (via wordsnquotes)
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“As long as you look for someone else to validate who you are by seeking their approval, you are setting yourself up for disaster. You have to be whole and complete in yourself. No one can give you that. You have to know who you are - what others say is irrelevant.”
— Nic Sheff
My ultimate goal in life is to be the cool lesbian aunt with her cool gay wife
kink: listening to someone gush about their interest and genuinely learn something new
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…I like simple things, books, being alone, or with somebody who understands.
Daphne du Maurier, The Lover (via wordsnquotes)
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“People have always said, ‘if you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it’s yours. If it doesn’t, it was never meant to be.’ I have a hard time wholeheartedly believing in this statement because sometimes you’re not suppose to just let things go with such great ease. Sometimes it’s your job to fight for what you love in order for it to stay. Because sometimes it could be the girl of your dreams who is slightly misguided, a little insecure, and doesn’t love herself nearly as much as you love her. So don’t let her go goddamnit. Fight. And fight hard, and if in the end it was a lost battle then you can dust yourself off and set her free because if after fighting tooth and nail with your entire heart for her, she still chooses to walk away, then and only then was it never meant to be. But if she stays, god if she stays then you will be the luckiest person on this planet and you hold on tight to her and never think about letting her go.”
-if you leave, I know I did everything in my power to make you stay
Gay dating is a lot like finding a job, you either find one on the internet or get a referral through a friend
Stay humble, no matter how much you change for the better.
Stay kind, no matter how many people broke your heart.
And stay hopeful, no matter how many times you’ve been let down.
The Most Important Thing in Life is… (via letters-from-alex)
Here’s your reminder that relationships are extremely difficult. the delusion that you are going to find that person who you move into a small apartment with and read books all day and cook naked and cuddle with and play footsie under the table with is a gross romanticization of reality.
You’re going to have great times in a relationship. You’re going to go on fun dates and have great sex and hot make out sessions. But you’re also going to fight. You’re going to be in that weird stage where you like them more than they like you or vice versa and that’s going to hurt. You’re going to have to deal with jealousy and insecurity. You will have to deal with boredom in the relationship. You’re going to be too busy for them or accidentally hurt them. And you are going to have to deal with a few break ups before you find that right one.
A relationship is not going to solve all of your problems. It’s not going to suddenly make you happy. It isn’t easy. They are much harder than being single. Relationships are an unbelievable amount of work and effort and compromise and it’s not always going to be perfect. But the effort you put into it is what make it worth it. Because you fought and worked hard for this person and hopefully they did the same for you. So remember that.
I wish meeting girls in real life was as easy as it is for heterosexuals. I want to go into a coffee shop and write my number on a napkin without it being weird. I want to bump into someone on the street by accident and it be love at first sight. This internet culture gives me the green light when it comes to sexuality. Profiles tell me which females are gay. I wish I had the courage to effortlessly flirt. I wish I could go into a normal public space and pick up a girl. I have to travel a distance to a gay bar just to find someone similar to me while my friends get to go almost anywhere. I’m sick of staring at a phone when I just want to connect with another human being in the flesh.