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been repeating this in my head all day

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honest to god fill my uterus with these, how many will fit? how many until its noticeable? lets make a game out of it! get them big ass balls into me

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hi

You should all be beaten like piñatas

dont do that bro the fucking boba r gonna shoot out

just fucking imagine the noise . the fucking Schfpblort.

see what people are failing to realize for some reason that i think is wild is that no it’s not “you don’t care about oppenheimer because it’s funnier to care about barbie more” it’s not “you don’t care about oppenheimer because it’s dark and gritty” No i don’t care about oppenheimer because it’s a fucking AMERICAN IMPERIALISM WAR CRIME MOVIE!!!!!!

like call me insane but i think a toy line consumerism grab is much less of a crime than glorifying dropping the atomic bomb and killing hundreds of thousands of people no matter how “complex” the narrative surrounding it is

Kind of related to that post I made a couple days ago but I love you people who make “odd” animal-like noises, especially people who don’t do that on purpose, I love you people who growl when they’re frustrated, I love you people who mimic the animals around them, I love you people who bare their teeth when feeling threatened/on edge, I love you people who make purring noises when they’re happy/satisfied

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Love bombing is not a euphemism for "too much affection too soon," or "high desire for contact."

"Love bombing" is a term originally used in the context of cults to describe a deliberate and coordinated recruitment method that involved feigning friendship and interest in a potential recruit, via flattery, flirtation, physical affection, and very directed positive attention to everything the recruit says in order to lure them into the cult.

Since cults and abusive relationships operate in similar ways and use similar tactics, love bombing in an interpersonal relationship looks like manufacturing closeness in order to trap someone into a relationship in which the abuser has all the control.

And I know these days there's a million bullshit junky articles out there that make you think this is a symptom of cluster b personality disorders, but there is no way for you to be love bombing somebody without realizing it.

If you are an affectionate person and the level of affection and attention you give makes someone uncomfortable, you are not "accidentally" abusing them.

If you are uncomfortable with the level of affection and attention someone is paying you, they are not de facto abusing you.

Love bombing is about using someone's desire for human connection to fast track them into a situation you control that they will feel disinclined to leave.

Military recruiters do this too

Scenario: The FNAF movie is out in theaters, you go to attend a showing. You take a seat in the theater. Eventually, the lights dim. You expect the movie to start. You think you catch a whiff of smoke, maybe just burnt popcorn. There's a crackle over the speakers, and the clunk of a locking door. The screen doesn't turn on, but you still hear a voice start to speak-

"Connection terminated. I'm sorry to interrupt you-"

you sit down at the plastic table because your partner likes being outside at the bar even though it’s 90 degrees and 60% humidity at 10pm and you thought this corduroy dress was soooo cute but now youre all sweaty and so one of your balls has escaped your panties but youre wearing fishnets so your loose nut is now dying like a sea turtle in a six pack ring and youre the desperate diver trying to save it but blind and one handed and stone faced cause you can’t draw attention to the fact that youre doing a high stakes wildlife rescue on your stupid scrotum in public because it might turn into a six month news cycle and desantis might fly out to personally bulldoze the bar. and its a thursday

i dreamt this post got 19k notes overnight and everyone i knew had disowned me for for my cat 5 Sack Slip event