When Virgina met Harlem.

Kelis & Pharrell.

Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.

YOOOOOOO

I SAW THIS ON MY DASH THE OTHER DAY AND THOUGHT “ITS WORTH A TRY” SO I WISHED I COULD GET A 3DS

LITERALLY LIKE 4 DAYS LATER MY DAD SENT ME A PICTURE OF THE 3DS XL HE BOUGHT FOR ME WHILE I WAS AT SCHOOL

IM STILL FREAKING OUT ABOUT THIS

holy fuck, I didn’t expect this to work, I was like psh, whatever it’s just a quick reblog, but I wished my Dad would actually respond back to me AND HE FUCKING DID A FEW DAYS LATER, I GOT A FUCKING TEXT FROM MY DAD TODAY WHO HASN’T SPOKEN OR RESPONDED TO ME IN MONTHS HOLY FUCK WHAT IS THIS MAGIC IT WORKS. 

I WANTED TO SEE MY BOYFRIEND AND I DIDN’T THINK I’D GET DAYS OFF BUT THIS WEEKEND I’M HEADING UP THERE??? THIS IS CRAZY SHIT 

SO LIKE I JOKINGLY WISHED FOR MY OWN LEN KAGAMINE AND THEN LIKE A WEEK LATER I GOT A LEN NENDOROID??? H ELP

WTF OKAY SO THIS SHOT ACTUALLY WORKS BECAUSE WHEN I WISHED, I HAD WISHED MY CRUSH WOULD LIKE ME BACK AND GUESS WHAT? I HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW. WHAT THE HELLLLL?????

ok I’ve said this before but IM DOING IT AGAIN THE FIRST TIME I SAW THIS, MY WISH DID COME TRUE SO I REBLOGED AGAIN AND SAID IT IN THE TAGS BUT THEN I WISHED FOR SMTH ELSE AND IT LITERALLY LITERALLY HAPPENED LIKE A COUPLE DAYS LATER WHAT THE HELL SO NOW IM WRITING THIS HERE FOR YOU BC I DONT BELIEVE IN THIS CRAP BUT STILL IT’S AN AWFULLY BIG COINCIDENCE

THE BOY I FELL I LOVE WITH LEFT TO TRAVEL THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD AND HAS BEEN GONE NOW FOR 3 MONTHS. WE HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO MAKE HIM FEEL TRAPPED TO ME AND NOT ENJOY HIS TIME SO I WAITED FOR HIM TO CONTACT ME FIRST. I SAW THIS ON A PARTICULARLY LOW DAY WHEN I WAS MISSING HIM SO MUCH I CRIED FROM THE PAIN, GUYS I REALLY LOVE HIM, SO I THOUGHT MEH WHAT THE FUCK, AND WISHED HE WOULD JUST LET ME KNOW HE WAS OKAY.

GUYS.

HE FUCKING CALLED ME 20 MINUTES LATER

20 FUCKNG. MINUTES. LATER.

GOOD THINGS DO HAPPEN. AND ITS IN THIS POST.

I wish for someone to leave something in my ask.

OKAY SO I ASKED FOR A HEDGEHOG AND NOW GUESS WHO HAS A PET HEDGEHOG

this is my favourite thing

OKAY SO MY WISHES ALWAYS COME TRUE BC OF THIS HOLY SHIT

This really worked I wished for an iPhone 6 and I got a fucking iPhone 6

HOLY SHIT IT ACTUALLY WORKED

@fuck-yo-feelingsss OMGG FATIMA MY WISH IS GONNA COME TRUE 😂😂

BLISSFOLLY

THIS WORKS, IVE USED IT SO MANY TIMES AND ONLY REALISE IT WORKS NOW THAT I LOOK BACK AND SEE HOW THINGS WORKED OUT OMF

Yo. This actually works lol

Reblog forever.

Growth is admitting I too possess toxic qualities & carry unhealed traumas I need to work on

🌸🌿✨I manifest high paying job offers and a growth in my savings & CD account to be happening this month and next month ✨🌿🌸

alexxusmariee

Older women are gems when it comes to relationship advice, especially when it comes to choosing the right men. I recently had a long conversation with an 84 year old woman and then she began to tell me the same relationship advice I hear almost every older woman say my whole life. Her advice can be applied to vanilla and sugar dating:

Bible!

Good tips my mother never gave me.

Another 2019 vision board 🦋

Real Sugar Shit: The Power of Categorization

Ok first, HI GUYS! I haven’t been posting original content for a while but BOY OH BOY let me tell you about last night.

I headed out for dinner and decided to follow up with a few drinks at a fancy spot on the Upper East Side. BEST DECISION EVER. My friends and I met some Canadian guys at the bar who ended being true gentlemen. One was in his 40’s and the other in his 60’s. The one is his 40’s was a bit shy and we basically found out that he had a wife and kids. The older guy was INSANE lol he literally was exactly what you’d expect a “sugar daddy” to be. He also def gave me an Italian mobster vibe but he was still friendly. They paid for EVERYTHING. We went from one place to the next and everything was taken care of. I say all of this to say….at the end of the night, me nor any of my friends received a dime however, this is where the power of categorization comes in.

Before I continue, I just want to say that some of you may disagree which is completely fine but this is the system that works for me so this is what I will share.

When you are dealing with men, there are different types of personalities that may surface based on how they feel about you, their financial status, etc. which is why I have decided to allow different men to do different things for me. For example, if I have a young guy who’s trying to establish himself who I think is attractive, aside from the typical mutual attraction, I may use him for his car (not everyone has a car in NYC), small gifts or outings, or things like that. If I meet guys like the ones I met last night, I would use them to pay for more expensive outings or take me and my friends out because honestly I don’t want to hang out with them by myself and they have responsibilities to tend to and they sometimes make it clear that they won’t give cash because they aren’t looking for “that”…whatever that means. They want to have fun but not too much. But this is why I would never ask any of these guys for hard cold cash. These are the type of men that will buy you drinks but not take you back to the hotel. “The good guys”. They may even pay for you to take a trip but they’ll get separate rooms. Don’t lose out on these men unless you absolutely NEED cash and cash only. Don’t get me wrong, I will ask them to do things for me but these are not the men that will give me an allowance and I know that. I won’t give them what they want either. I’ll just use them for things I simply don’t want to contribute to. Every guy you encounter, especially in 2018, is not going to be so quick to give you cash because of how oversaturated the sugar bowl is and to be honest, in my experience, a lot of men think it’s bullshit unfortunately. This is why you have to be innovative and find other ways to get quality experiences and changes to potentially find the daddy of your dreams.

PSA : DO NOT CHASE THESE MEN

Needed to hear this okur

Ain’t no one ever gonna convince that I’m wrong for taking advantage of these men. No One. I recently gained clarity on the true nature of men by watching the women ( like all the women) in my family struggle for years ltrying to be there for they men and being hurt and I now see clearly that no matter how much they try to protray themselves as otherwise men are inherently selfish creatures.

And so I will NEVER feel bad about taking money from these men. I will NEVER feel guilty about using them to better myself. They are stepping stones to get me where I need to be.

100% FAX

white women are dangerous and imma need for y’all to stop separating them from white men

all white women have ever wanted from the beginning of time is to be equal to white men. not by bringing justice to the world, but by giving themselves access to the means of power and oppressive structures that white men have access to. they are the same.

I mean I’ve only ever wanted us all to be equal as humans but yes let’s generalize.

Yes, bitch, we’re gonna generalize. Feminist movements led by white women from the beginning of time have always centered white womens power struggle with white men. I suggest you educate yourself on the history of your shitty ancestors because they were all like that, and that’s why Black women and women of color have consistently been pushed aside and had to make their own movements to be recognized. Cry about it.

😂😢 let they asses know

Now that I’m a former employee I can mention this - Rihanna is dropping a lingerie line around May around it’s gonna be fucking awesome. I’ve seen the products and just…..phenomenal. Yes, available up to 3x. You stay ready you ain’t gotta get ready 😉

👀👀👀👀

👂👂👂👂✍🏾

Why do people act like rihanna invented something when she drops something lol. Those creepers and shoes are trash, the makeup is okay like there are a million makeup brands out there all doing the same, and now lingerie like have people never heard of lingerie before rihanna ? I just don't understand the hype

Honestly

I just want an SB best friend. Scamming together, raging together, someone that has the flexibility to do that beyond tumblr messages

Nyc. We really could do better and connect. Like there’s so many of us. But do you know how powerful we could be if we made friends and joined forces?!

I’m in NYC 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

SB Friends in NYC

It’s the best when like you can go out for drinks, freestyle, spoil yourself, and go out for brunches in the city with your SB bestie. Let’s dress up, look so good and walk the NYC runway! Who wants to be do that with me?

Laaaaadies!

I’m down!

Here for it. I'm on break from classes

It plays a huge role in the motivation. Childhood trauma is a known thing in the black community, so writing about for education shows your writing skills and ability to describe your struggles.

Counseling is seen as a taboo in the black community but it is essential to notice our issues and deal with it head on. Get your degrees and also go to the counseling center. Write about it and resolve the issue. 

somehow I got 95/20 on an assignment

I hope they never fix it and leave it this way forever

reblog the Awesome Grade picture for awesome grades

guys this really works i reblogged it and then got 870% on an essay

May your GPA rise due to clerical error.

Hoping I get a 140% on this final 😭