Pls reblog if u vote :)

I started saying it ironically but now I just say it gayly

If you do say y’all, is it in a southern, gay, or other way?

If this post gets to 40k notes I will watch all of Riverdale (and live blog it)

(don't let this get to 40k)

Gonna be nicer and set a more realistic goal. If this post gets to 10k I will watch Riverdale AND live blog it

@puppetmaster55 NO!!!!!!!!!!

[IMAGE DESCRIPTION. Five affirmations in support of men and transmasculine people. Cursive font is displayed on textured backgrounds. The words read, “Being A Man Is Not Bad Or Inferior.” “Loving Men Is Not Bad Or Inferior.” "Trans Men Are Not Betraying Womanhood." “Gender Essentialism Silences Male Victims.” “Men Who Are Abused Deserve To Be Believed.” “Equal Rights Includes Men And Transmasculine People.” END DESCRIPTION.]

I am a trans man. I am making this post because I have struggled with being harassed by women, and not being believed when I have tried to confide in other, trusted women. I have lost friends. (There is a longer thread about that here.) I only encountered this specific kind of victim-blaming and silencing once I transitioned.

I have been told "men don't get abused" and "it's impossible for women to abuse men".

I have been told, by friends, that "all men are shit". These same friends identify as trans allies, and claim to support me in my identity... as a man.

Men under-report what happens to us, but studies have started to come out which paint a very scary picture about how common abuse against men is. We feel evil. We feel inherently unworthy of attention and care. We are told that we are trash. We are nothing, we are scum. We feel alone. And when we are abused, nobody should care, because we should've been stronger. We should've fought back.

As a trans man, I feel this in a very unique way. I see the comparison; how women used to treat me, versus how I am treated now. My perceived womanhood was valued. My manhood is degraded. Disrespected. Insulted. By people within the LGBT+ community.

I have worked to not be afraid of women. I have worked to trust women again, after everything women have done to hurt me. And still, I do not say that all women are bad. I do not say that I hate all women. Because I recognise that systemic issues and transmisandry do not give me permission to demonise a whole gender.

I am with you in the fight against misogyny. I am not your enemy. I grew up as a girl. I experienced misogyny. I was preyed upon by the same forces that I fight against on behalf of women.

Trans men, and transmasculine non-binary people, experience some of the worst health outcomes in developed nations. And yet still, statistics are disbelieved because transmasc people are considered inferior and not worth caring about, and when we fight back against invisibility, we're harassed for doing so.

Please stop saying that all men are trash. If you don't mean all of us, don't say all of us. Because when you say we're all inherently evil and wrong and sub-human, you're furthering the same rhetoric spread by TERFs. Please don't forget that.

If you want to hold misogynists accountable, hold them accountable. Say that all misogynists are trash. Distorting the rallying cry and generalising away from the sin of misogyny does nobody any favours. Especially trans men who do not pass, and still experience misogyny. Especially male victims who do not have the right to say "all women are trash", because that would be (rightfully) recognised as misogyny. Especially gay men who are forced into conversion therapy and taught that a love for men is disgusting, which conveniently fits into the idea that all men are disgusting anyway.

We should punish misogynistic men for being misogynists, not for being men.

Please don't do the work of TERFs for them. Please stop recycling hateful rhetoric.

In this article, in support of male victims, the following quote is offered:

I want innocent men to be supported. I do not want women to be supported less. Please do not see my desperation as a reason to attack or silence me.

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Bitttchhh the last time I reblogged some bullshit like this I booked a 2k 30minute shoot lmao

What the ever living fuck

The day I don’t reblog this is the day I have lost my sense of humor completely

HEY HEY!

i can’t find any posts to reblog, but sims 4 is FREE for the next week, and once u download it, it’s yours to keep forever apparently

its on the origin website!!

So basically, adam is for if he got left behind on earth. Keith is for if he goes with and nothing overly bad happens OR if lance died when they were younger and Adrian had to take his place for angst reasons. Lotor is for if both go to space and Adrian gets kidnapped because of his... family resemblance xD. The Adam and Lotor routes are uhhh very angsty indeed lol

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I think about this often.

For twenty years, my depression and anxiety didn’t critically impede my ability to function. It made my life hell, but I went to class and got good grades and had friends. Sure, I had very odd coping mechanisms - like occasionally sleeping outside instead of going back to my dorm room, because I dreaded being in there; or like crying explosively over nothing; or picking fights with my partner about how they should dump me, because I was worthless and probably not going to live very long anyway. Everyone told me I was fine - maybe a bit dramatic, and a bit negative, but fine.

I think a lot about the tipping point. I graduated. I got married. I moved out. And then, the panic attacks came in earnest. The impulse to hurt myself or force other people to hurt me became louder. Because I had no outlet - no high-intensity job, no school structure to force me to get up, nobody to impress or please. It was just me. And I hated me. So, why would I be able to motivate myself to do anything at all? My whole life, I’d been performing at maximum intensity to please others. And I was tired.

It took years of floating in that state - nobody forcing me to get a job or get out of bed - before I realized that I’d arrived. I’d hit the “you can’t function anymore” level that all the therapists finally seem to take seriously.

So, I went into my doctor and said, “I can’t live my life anymore. I need help.”

And she said, “But you’re so well-spoken and self-aware!” I could tell that I was fooling her again, by dressing normally and showering that morning and showing up with all my paperwork in order.

We have to stop pushing people past the point where their illness “impedes their ability to function.” Because we can’t always see it clearly. I’m far past my ability to live a complete and happy life, but I don’t look like it all the time. That doesn’t mean I don’t deserve help. Everyone deserves help. No matter where they’re at - bottom or middle or top of their mental health experience. We can’t dictate that to people; it’s harmful.

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this is probably the most accurate thing i’ve made

Thanks for the inspiration senpai~!

Can you please reblog if your blog is a safe place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual, aromantic, pansexual, non binary, demisexual or any other kind of queer or questioning people? Because mine is.

I made Punk do a thing :3