You can’t deserve a person’s love. You’ll drive yourself crazy thinking like that. They either love you, or they don’t. That doesn’t mean you weren’t good enough for them to love you, because love isn’t something you earn by being good enough. It isn’t something that can be quantified or doled out. Don’t blame yourself for not being loved how you need to, just teach yourself how to look for love where love lives.
This isn’t just about romantic love, or even skewed towards romantic love, although it does apply there too. One of the hardest things I’ve ever had to accept is that my mother simply wasn’t someone who was capable of loving me, and there is no version of me that I could have ever been that would have earned that love. But with acceptance came healing. I was able to love myself more instead of resenting myself for not being more than any one person could be.
Are you listening? Even love for yourself isn’t earned. It is a kindness you give yourself.
“My cat likes to walk on her wheel while I’m on my exercise bike. The way she looks at me makes my heart melt 😻😭”
you are DOING! An ACTIVITY! TOGETGER!! 😭😭😭
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∧ __ ∧ （｀•ω• )づ__∧ （つ / ( •ω•。) しーＪ (nnノ) pat pat
reblog to pat ur mutuals on their silly heads
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A beautiful bull Bison, surrounded by wildflowers, grazes near Haydn Valley, Yellowstone National Park
© riverwindphotography, summer 2022
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Cuddle buddy blep
[id: Photo of a brown striped cat and an orange striped kitten cuddling together on a cat tree. The kitten looks into the camera with sleepy green eyes; the brown cat has their eyes closed in pure bliss and their tongue out, doing a blep. End id.]
me being mutuals with someone but not talking to them is the same as a cat existing in the same room as a person and considers it socializing. me liking and reblogging posts is like the cat purring
she knows she’s not allowed to bark at the cat, so her loophole is just to make a bunch of noises that are not barking instead.
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Long Horse Makes Sad Horn Noises At Local Bastard Man
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my interpretation … mieaow …
