i went to a tiny counterserve diner once and accidentally poured sugar instead of salt all over my hashbrowns and was eating them sadly anyways. the waitress took them away and started making me another one and I tried to protest, but she just snorted and said "we're not catholic here". now every time i'm doing something painful out of obligation i think about how that is not repenting, this body is not a catholic establishment, there is no nobility in suffering.
Rejection-sensitive or not, you have to accept when people say “no” and realize that people’s “no” is not about you. A boundary is never about you, it’s about that person’s sense of security. Do not make people’s personal limits a matter of targeted offence.
about to use a printer. wish me luck
*comes back covered in blood and ash with a thousand yard stare but I'm holding a perfectly clean stack of shipping labels*
Frankly some of you should be hornier over weirder shit. The fear of being too genuine is the enemy of art. Be a bit of a pervert. It's good for the health. Doesn't have to be a sexual thing just own up to being a bit obsessed in some cringe shit it's fine.
Jessica! For the drawing request thing!
Beloved delivery driver attempts to continue doing her job while being followed by some freak like a lost puppy. More at 6
Once again, I’m opening commissions! I’m saving up to move hopefully this year, so reblogs are much appreciated! If you’re interested, feel free to DM me for more examples or with questions!
These will be open until I close them again, so don’t hesitate to contact me!
I hope every company that makes those fucking ads that are like “easy weight loss solution” or “quick way to get rid of that double chin” or “workout to reduce your love handles” crashes and burns and I’m not joking.
It’s fine if you want to lose weight or a double chin or love handles. And it’s also fine to not want that. And I’m sick of seeing these stupid ass ads from the diet, exercise, and beauty industries that act like it’s not okay to want that. Like the fuckin’ standard is to want to shave all visible fat off your body.
People with tummy, double chin, love handles, and any visible fat that is wildly shown to be “undesirable” by the beauty industry. I love you, and I think those traits are lovely. And it’s totally valid to want to keep them.
I actually love kinksters so much
Learning from every source in your life that sex is disgusting and sinful, that you should be ashamed of your feelings, thoughts and desires and then having someone in a dog mask tell you, "No, it's all cool, actually," is mind-blowing lol
In the comments seeing a lot of aces saying "Yeah I appreciate that kinksters are often accepting of ace people" and that is because there are many asexuals in kink! Sexual attraction or behavior is not essential to kink/BDSM.
My spouse and I are both a-spec kinksters who do a lot of Kinky Activities and exactly zero traditional genital-involving sex. I write about being nonsexual kinksters professionally as well.
"One funny thing: At most of the kink parties Selena went to, no one was doing anything that seemed to be sexual. People would say, 'I'm tying someone up, that's sex,' but much of the time it didn't seem to feel sexual and nobody could explain how this made sense. Was tying someone up really sex, or was it a rope and some trust? Selena didn't care about sex, but she did love rope, so it was unclear exactly what was happening here, and what she actually wanted.
Intimacy, it turns out. Selena cared about intimacy, and kink was a way for her to be intimate with others. Intimacy and sex are not the same. Intimacy can be in service of sex or sex can be in service of intimacy, or they can be completely separate..."
-Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals about Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex
Purple tomatoes?????
get tomato'd idiot (affectionate) (that is a link with 15 different purple/blue tomato varieties)
the ones I covet are the Cherokee purple and the chocolate cherry. I actually have some black beauty tomato seeds a friend gave me that I just found (I'm visiting a friend tomorrow and taking them seeds and found shit I forgot I had)
Truth! I love zucchini, there's so much you can do with her!
Never forget what zucchini has done for you...has done for us ALL...
What's your opinion on zucchini, ma'am?
Zucchini fucks, there is so much you can do with it and it's also EASY as hell to grow. You can also eat the flowers from the plant!
Zucchini bread is really good, I can't make bread for shit though so I give zucchinis from my garden to my neighbor and she makes zucchini bread and brings me some. My fave recipe is one a Lebanese friend gave me, Lebanese stuffed zucchini
more people should grow these things seriously I was giving them away to neighbors I had too much
thoughts on bread
bread is life there needs to be bread in my house at all time or I WILL spiral (Latina momence)
How do I explain to you people that interracial relationships are okay
Not every white person dating a POC is fetishizing. White people can be respectful and responsible when it comes to culture and relationships and not everyone has bad intentions.
Asian people can date Black people without you saying shit like “your kids will be so pretty” they’re not dating for pretty kids. They’re dating bc they like each other.
Someone can dress their partner in clothing from their culture if they want. Someone can take their partner to cultural events if they want.
People in relationships can share cultures, experiences and love without it being toxic or skin deep.
Their partner isn’t culturally appropriating. Their partner is being shown the ultimate form of love, bc their partner trusts them and loves them enough to share their history and heritage.
Yeah, dating someone from your culture is nice bc you automatically have similar experiences. But you’re not limited to dating people with the same experiences. Loving someone is sharing and growing and being together.
Interracial relationships aren’t always toxic, and some of y’all need to stop projecting onto other people.
👆 THIS 👆 👏👏👏
Calling ineterracial relationships toxic or fetishizing just seem like anti race mixing or racism with extra steps
This reminded me of this
I'm real normal about them
chillin in maccadam's like usual
Shirt that says REJECTING ONE INCORRECTLY BLACK AND WHITE VIEW OF HISTORY FOR ANOTHER IS NOT PROGRESS
me: [accidentally makes a high pitched squeal noise] awh man that was so feminine
the anti dysphoria angel that lives inside my ceiling: NOTHING ONE DOES IS INHERENTLY FEMININE OR MASCULINE UNLESS YOU DECIDE THAT IT IS SO. BY GENDERING MINISCULE AND ULTIMATELY UNIMPORTANT TRAITS YOU ARE CAUSING YOURSELF UNJUST SUFFERING. IT WILL BE ALRIGHT. I LOVE YOU
me: [tearfully]o okokokkoaaokaoakay






