softthyla —> softdedue
Millie with petals and leaves.
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i think it’s really funny when fandom people make fun of nonfandom people for not recognizing a fandom url. shit like “jackstanifold” or “strifesuccubus” or “hobocop” are not immediately recognizable as fandom references dude
tango-dyke
“how did you not immediately recognize tumblr user ‘bigbluesoup’ as a fandom reference 😂” girl how was i expected to.
tango-dyke
anyways put in the tags if you have a fandom url and how recognizable you think it is
#I assume people either assume it’s a fandom url they don’t recognize or that my name is Dedue#or Due I guess#(it’s a fandom url)#my old url was softthyla (soft t’hyla) and so so many people thought my name was Hyla lmao#(t’hyla is a Vulcan word it’s a Star Trek reference)#(Dedue is the name of a fire emblem character)
oh to be a little tabby cat snoozing in a sheet that was supposed to be hung up to dry <3
you should be allowed to mute people on your dash. like, i don't want to unfollow some people, i want the option to briefly ignore them and revisit our arrangement at a later date
If I forgot an option it’s because I made a poll at 3am again
Please reblog for sample size and tag with your pick or the world may never know
idk when we decided that explaining yourself shouldn't be part of an apology but like. if someone was a dick to me and apologizes but I still don't understand why they did it I'm not gonna feel any better
"Sorry for hurting your feelings earlier. I was trying to say x, but I guess it came across wrong. I don't think you're stupid."
or
"Sorry I snapped at you. I didn't get enough sleep last night so my patience is a little low today."
is a better apology than
"I want you to know that I am sorry that my actions offended you. I take full accountability for my actions and I am listening and learning. I hear you."
ok i absolutely need to know what accents u all have pls reblog and tell me or comment or whatever I must know
everyone (americans) saying uwu I don't really have an accent I am Biting you
#my accent is such a mishmash and most of the places it’s borrowing from I haven’t even ever lived lmao#autism brain just goes ‘ooh fun word pronunciation’ and steals it#but yk. usamerican with a bit of Toronto thrown in for good measure#gotta get in those sohrry’s#most commonly people guess Minnesota or Michigan for some reason#two states I have never even visited#when I worked at a call center I once had a guy tell me I MUST be from Michigan#which was like. so weird. like sir I’m literally telling you that I’m not you cant make me be somehow
chronic fatigue from mental illness and neurodivergency isn't something you can just will your way out of. your nervous system is part of your body. your brain is an organ. the fatigue is real. you're not lazy. so be kinder to yourself. be gentler with your bodymind.
I just got up and did stuff! I can promise you - I was not capable of that two weeks ago when I felt like shit! You’re not making it up! If you’re not well in whatever way, you aren’t capable of doing as much even if your internalised ableism is telling you you are! Love you all!
"i let my friends/partner go through my phone" people baffle me like i don't even have anything worth hiding on mine and id still turn it into shrapnel before i let anyone browse through it. id prefer it be a fine metallic mist than let anyone see the recipe tabs i have open. it's my right and my right alone to know what strange games i downloaded from janky yet intriguing ads