Soft Trans On Tumblr

one of my mutuals posted some pics with conspicuous bulge, but ive seen his penis and know it isnt that big. what's the etiquette for dropping a callout?

shows how immature tumblr is to focus on callouts and canceling each other instead of appreciating the personal growth we all go through with time

“tumblr staff member” 2/3 of those words euphemism for cock

with your help we can make it all three

You Are Not Wasting Time; It Was Given To You As A Gift, Freely and Generously; Is Rain Wasted Because It Falls On Gardens, Grass, Disgruntled Birds, and Umbrellas All The Same?

(TW: Genitalia mention, sex mention)

My dear lgbt+ kids,

If someone treats lesbians as a separate human species that is completely different from all other human beings, that's a red flag.

This is pretty obvious when you are thinking about someone treating lesbians as inherently worse than other people - but this also includes treating lesbians as inherently better.

Lesbians are the only ones who actually truly love their partners? Lesbian relationships are the only healthy, non-abusive ones? Lesbian sex is the only clean, pure, loving kind of sex, all other kinds of sex are inherently dirty and traumatizing? Yeah, those are red flags.

These may sound like empowering statements - but when you look at them closer, the "logic" behind them is usually that dicks are bad and touching them makes you dirty. This is not only wrong and problematic for all the obvious reasons (gender essentialism, sex-shaming, transphobia...), it's also pretty insulting towards lesbians.

Lesbians deserve respect - only because they don't touch dicks? So, their worth is centered on their sexual history and habits? This is usually an attempt to invalidate trans lesbians but it ends up insulting cis lesbians as well. There's nothing empowering or feminist about reducing a woman to her sex life!

If you are a lesbian, then you have inherent worth and are deserving of respect. That's because you are a human being. You don't need to fulfill any other criteria for that.

You are more than your sexual past, you are more than your genitalia. Don't let anyone - right-wing or radfem - tell you your worth depends on the "pureness" of your sex life.

With all your love,

Your Tumblr Dad

the fact that i patiently waited for a punchline not realizing the whole thing is the punchline is how i remember that like. right. not everybody watches rugby.

...i apparently do not understand how rugby is played at all

bring back Duplica!! ✌️

fun fact- all those plushies with the ditto faces are based off of Duplica’s first ditto! truly a legend :]

My cat has cancer :(

HERE is a comic i made at 4 am for @gayharrykim for the star trek pride exchange organized by @lieutenant-commander!! the prompt was worf/riker + music

If courage isn’t the absence of fear but doing the right thing regardless of it, maybe confidence isn’t the absence of insecurity but knowing you have real worth despite it

this is beautiful

By this same token, maybe goodness isn’t the absence of bad thoughts or impulses, but the conscious choice to behave according to your moral ideals in spite of them. 

I love this.

Sadako, the Silent Crawler Kaiju

Ok but what if the size of her screen doesn’t affect her size.

A good boy

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Rating: Cute

the person who tagged us in this knew was it was cute! i just especially wanted to point out that this is a perfect example of a cat that has learned that its human is basically trapped while dishwashing and so it’s an excellent time to ask for attention and get it. cats are really good at recognizing patterns and this one probably knows that the owner will spend a regular amount of time here and won’t leave or move away. the cat knows it isn’t going to get hand attention, so it’s focused on rubbing against and pawing at the upper body and seeking kissies. this is often why cats come bother you on the toilet as well -- they know this is an activity with a set timeline and a good time to seek attention.

making fun of someone’s auto-immune disease in the name of comedy will never be funny. just distasteful and odd, and as someone who has been struggling with major hair loss recently, that slap was important to all of us. fuck chris rock forever.

happy auto-immune disease awareness month to anyone dealing with a visible or invisible disease. i hear you, i see you. ur important and so valid 🤍

I learnt something today that I think is just beautiful. My grandmother was a very sick woman and pretty much housebound for the last of her life.  She derived great pleasure from watching her neighbour’s backyard chickens.  She adored these chickens.  Every time I called, she had new chicken drama to tell me—think Linda Belcher and the raccoons.   It turns out that at some point, their neighbour was no longer able to have chickens because due to a disability he could no longer afford to keep them.  My grandfather, upon learning this, immediately used his spending money to keep the neighbour in both chickens and chicken feed so that my grandmother would have chickens to watch since my grandfather didn’t have time to keep chickens at their home. He did this for ten years, guys.  TEN YEARS he secretly funded his neighbour’s backyard chickens so that my grandmother would have chickens to watch every day until the day she died.   That’s true love.