Tosses you around between my palms to shape you into a ball

you aren’t a “better” disabled person for being gentle and polite and patient with ableists who treat quadriplegics and paraplegics and other severely disabled ppl like we’re less than a dog or a piece of furniture btw

IK y’all love inclusivity and kindness and educating everyone because it makes you feel like a Good Disability Activist but I will never ever do that. these people can fucking choke. I don’t care about them. I don’t want to gently educate them. I want them to stop fucking breathing

No, but there is room to educate people on propper etiquette. Opening the door, asking if they'd like help before just stepping in to help among other things. Remember, some people may just not know, think they're helping by just stepping in, etc.

I’m not politely educating people on “etiquette” who treat me like a less than a literal dog and dehumanize and verbally abuse me but you can go ahead and do that all you want you fucking weirdo. Have fun making friends with people who think quadriplegics should all be euthanized

A person comes up and moves your chair for you thinking you need help... but didn't ask because they thought it was just the right thing to do. Would you hate them or polightly tell them to ask next time?

Are you telling me I’m supposed to be polite and a good nice little cripple to people who physically assault me?

You are literally the person this post is about. Go be a an ableist pushover somewhere else. You are not “educating” or “helping” anyone you’re just being a condescending stupid piece of shit who things abled feelings are more valuable than my own literal fucking autonomy

What do you want? Tell me precisely how you wish to be treated?

How about you learn to fucking read the original post?

Grabbing me and moving me is still assault even if you think you’re “helping”

I have been physically and verbally abused and also raped by people I considered by friends

Just because you think someone is “helping” by grabbing me doesn’t make it less harmful or traumatic. Just because you think you’re being “polite” and “ignorant” won’t make me have a less severe panic attack

I want to be treated like a human being with autonomy and feelings. That’s literally IT

If you can’t cope with that then I’ll happily just taser the shit out of you and then leave you on the ground in a pool of your own drool and tears

blocked and reported Spiritsprout >:)

for anyone who doesn't get it:

how would you feel if a random stranger walked over and just bodily, phyiscally picked you up from and started carrying you somewhere ? If you couldn't do anything to get away from them?

This is just a random person you've never met who's decided they're going to physically lift you and move you to a new location without a word? and if you're able to speak up they ignore you and condescend you or berate you for being rude as they're physically moving you from where you were for no reason?

sound terrifying? sound violating? sound panic-inducing?

that's what wheelchair users experience any time someone decides to "wheel them somewhere" without permission.

don't fucking touch someone's wheelchair or mobility aid.

literally the only time you should ever move a wheelchair user is with their explicit permission and following their directions, or in the exact same situation you'd be putting your hands on another random ""normal"" person to move them-- to save their lives from direct danger, like pulling someone out of the way of a moving car or similar.

Not a life or death situation where you'd do the same to someone who's not in a wheelchair? Cool-- don't fucking touch someone's wheelchair then.

Daily checklist of affirmations:

you've gotta be fucking kidding me 😭

The gays in the local scene always call me mr.new york city because i would always come into the bar with a pizza slice in 1 hand an a coney island style hotdog in my other 1 hand & i would squeeze my arms together to hold a largw cocola & hopefully not spill it (yes i used a long straw to drink it..) usually i would go home right when i finish my snack but 1 time i let a drunk twunk bust on me in the bathroom cuz i liked his devil may care attitude.Hes long dead now & i miss him honestly i just wish i learnt his name so i could have 1 last hot dog in his honor before they run out and shit since they going to be replacing them with BugDogs made out of crickets & roaches smashed into a puddy since that seems to be the way sjws are taking this fcking crazy planet,making us eat dogs made of bugs for no reason other then made up bull shit to make us live in fear? Of what?

AMAZING ANIMALS BIOLOGY FUN FACTS

It's only natural to ask questions like this when encountering such a disgusting creature, but rest assured- it's quite harmless!

Meet the hampter.

Hammers are Europe's largest species of insect. They are mostly found in plains, mountains, parking lots, underpasses, the savannah, landfills, trees, and shurbs. They are heavily endangered because they are too stupid to drink water if it's not in a water bottle manufactured for small animals. But evolution has produced a remarkable solution: a female hamper can lay thousands of eggs every day! Most of her young will die of dehydration, but the sheer numbers of hamspers makes it inevitable that at least some will find a water bottle and thus survive to sexual maturity.

Hapster biologist Dr. Lexapro Beaufort said in an interview, "I know of them. They like to sniff around in the dirt for seeds and grass and discarded cigarettes. They like to dig holes in the ground. They were not created by the same God that created everything else."

They can even be kept as pets! One proud hamser mommy had this to say. "Yeah, mine is named Keith and he fucking sucks. He just hides in a hole and only comes out when he hears me rattling my adderall prescription."

Wow! Truly the hater is the fascinating creature of planet earth.

i’m gonna be repeating “ahh the foce is so strong in me” for 30 years

It's crazy going from mostly hanging out with lgbt people to a tableful of cishets bc they'll find out a bi guy dates men and women and they'll spend 3 hours trying to wrap their heads around it. And I have to be like sorry but how have yall survived this long.

Captain: and he said he's bi and has hooked up with men!

FA: wait but wasn't he really into (flight attendant who's a woman)??

Me: well if he's bi then he's into men and women

FO: but he hooks up with men?

Me: yes that's what bisexual means

Captain: It's just really confusing

Me: it's really not

FA: but he's not--like he's not...

Me: he's bi. He likes both.

Captain: this is just something I don't know a lot about

FO: yeah it's really confusing

Me:

Tags from @princepestilence:

#queer up #the funniest thing to me being in a bi4bi m/f relationship is that that information is like seven consecutive punches for straight people #my partner will mention she's bi + straight women will be like 'oh??? how does your boyfriend feel about that???' #by which they mean 'should you be saying that to us? isn't he insecure???' or 'does he think that's hot?' (both dumb both gross) #then my partner's like 'he's also bi so….' + THEN it's a whole other wave of panic + confusion for the straight ladies #who immediately go like 'Oh…… how do YOU feel about that????' like my girlfriend is now the victim in the scenario #followed by variations on 'i could NEVER date a bi man' or 'aren't you worried he's going to leave you for another man????' #which is usually when my partner brings out 'well we're not monogamous that's not how we like to live + have relationships' #absolute pandemonium. a metal chair of information for these women who were already Really struggling to process. #my girlfriend has the patience of a saint with these people + also finds it very fun to unleash random hand grenades like this#meanwhile i am very mean + i think uncertainty and discomfort is healthy for straight people. i also like to see them squirm + suffer. #it's really the least they can do after being. you know. Like This.

“hi welcome to mcdonalds what can i get for you?”

“yeah can i get a deluxe quarter pounder with cheese?”

“absolutely, do you want the meal or just the sandwich?”

“uuuuuh hold on”

*fishes something out of my pocket*

“nun dog what do i do?”

“…. …   … ..   ….  …. …. …”

“…. …. .. ….  ….. …. ….. …”

“…. ..  … ….  .. ..  … . …   … .. .. ….”

Transmission cancelled

Date for April 19th, 2026. Estimated time of death 15:26

I love when machinery gets really hot and starts smelling bad and destroying itself it's almost sexual. I didn't mean that

i can be a prettyboy handsomegirl don't even worry about it

manic monday

hell on earth

Violence

^ their names

obsessed with this post they won’t leave my mind’s eye

it bears repeating in a more gentle manner but in the nicest way possible, there is a really issue with discrepancy when you talk about issues happening in different countries. when it’s anti-trans/gay laws in north america and western europe, it becomes “genocide”. when other countries, like mine, have jail and death penalties for being gay explicitly, it becomes a matter of “oh it’s illegal there” and sometimes, insidiously, “that’s just how they are, they’re less progressive.” and i need you all to know this is white supremacy talking and i, a gay person living in a country under the threat of death penalty, am as much of a victim as you are.