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Mestiza Latinex|23 yr old|Non-binary|They/Them|Proud Grey-romantic Ace and Autistic|Writer|BLM| Anti-TERF| Anti-Fascist| Punch Nazis| No Minors or Followers Under 18| Blog Type: mostly reblogging and the rare original posts

[ID: a tweet from George Takei (@georgetakei) that reads “Haven’t cisgender folks been receiving ‘gender affirming’ therapies and treatments for decades? Boob jobs, testosterone boosters, all okay for cis people, right? Let’s be honest. These new laws are rooted in ignorance and bigotry toward trans people.” End ID]

I'm so tired of cis people asking stuff like, "Why would Texas want a list of trans people who legally changed their names?" or "Why would Florida want a list of college students who have seeking gender affirming care? We can't figure it out."

It's eliminationist.

Ken Paxton wants a list of trans people who have changed their name in Texas so he can reverse all of those decisions (and that's the most charitable interpretation). Ron DeSantis wants a list of college students who have sought affirming care so he can force them to detransition.

Oklahoma introduced a bill to forcibly detransition people under the age of 21 (ironically doing what they accuse us of doing, forcing someone to live as the wrong gender). Texas has a new bill that will ban gender affirming care for every Texan of any age and makes it a felony for doctors to provide it. Multiple states either have passed or will pass bills that will ban legal name changes. Some states have slipped in language to anti-drag bills (which are horrific enough on their own) that ban anyone from displaying, presenting, or dressing outside their "biological" gender (one state has language about "DNA gender") in public.

It's about legally and morally mandating trans people out of existence.

Plain and simple. It's about making sure that trans people can not exist. Period. It's not about restrictions, or "think of the children!" It's about eliminating us from public life and then eliminating us from private life so that we have a choice of either die or conform.

When will y'all realize this isn't some wedge issue or a political football that they'll just give up on if they lose an election or two. These are ideologues who are singularly focused. They don't care about the marketplace of ideas. They don't give a shit if they get mocked on lefty Twitter and the late night shows. They only care about one thing: gaining and then wielding power to achieve their goal of eliminating trans people (and then gay people, and then women who don't conform to their gender standards, ect).

If you give them that power they will use it.

You know I really want to play DnD but I don’t really have anyone to play with, (my sis and bro will play but thats like 3 people)

That and my crippling social anxiety + what I’m a 100% positive is a math disability which gives me true fear of those DnD dice then I’m just screwed huh

For what it's worth, the math thing can be overcome or at least mitigated fairly easily! The 5e math (which I assume is the system you'd be using; for all my issues with it, it is genuinely pretty good for people who struggle with math) is very math-light and there's plenty of tools that will handle rolling dice, adding modifiers, and calculating results for you with no calculation on your part. I can list some specific ones if you're interested, not sure if you want advice on this post or if you're just trying to vent and I don't want to be too presumptuous.

Any advice is welcome, please

You know I really want to play DnD but I don’t really have anyone to play with, (my sis and bro will play but thats like 3 people)

That and my crippling social anxiety + what I’m a 100% positive is a math disability which gives me true fear of those DnD dice then I’m just screwed huh

You know I really want to play DnD but I don’t really have anyone to play with, (my sis and bro will play but thats like 3 people)

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