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A Glasgow nightclub has installed a two-way mirror which allows male revellers in private booths to spy on unsuspecting women as they visit the toilet! With no notification or signage anywhere in the venue many female club goers have been left feeling embarrassed and used. Although they do briefly show the mirrors in a promo video, the club has been quickly deleting comments and posts on their social media from club goers trying to alert others to the situation. This is pretty much illegal and hugley violates privacy. Thank you The Shimmy Club for giving us a shiny, new, creative and cool take on objectification. article here

i’m never leaving my house again, this world is just too fucked up.

WHAT!?

gross gross gross gross gross

Good morning disgusting. Remember ladies:

  • “No space, leave the place” (fingernail test)
  • A two way mirror must be set INTO the wall, not placed on top of it.
  • If you rap/knock against the mirror, one installed onto a wall (a normal mirror) will make a dull sound, because there’s something behind it. A two-way will have more reverberation.
  • Use the flashlight on your phone to shine on the mirror, if it’s a two-way, you’ll be able to see into the other room.
  • You can also shield your eyes and see in if you lean up against the glass.
  • The room being viewed will have to be brightly lit (10x brighter than the room looking in), so if you’re in a typical dimly lit club bathroom, you’re ok.

boosting the fuck out of this

They have this in Continental Midtown in Philly, it’s fucking creepy and not cool at all

the most obvious solution i can think of is to break that motherfucker. what are they going to do? sue you for breaking something they shouldnt have had?

That’s fucking disgusting.

Hey, fellas. You ever feel like you have to check if you’re standing in front of a two-way mirror? Women do.

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This needs to be known

Smash that fucking thing and expose the dirty bastards.

I was walking behind a woman for five minutes and she got catcalled three times.

I usually walk everywhere with my headphones on, but I had them in my bag and I was reading a book on my phone instead (I do that when the foot traffic is light).  A young Latina was coming down the street as I was coming up the avenue, and when she got to the corner a few paces ahead of me, she turned to walk in the direction I was going.  We were traveling at the same speed, but since she was like ten paces ahead and it’s bright outside in the middle of the day, I didn’t feel the need to fall back or slow down to give her more space. At night, I try not to walk too close behind women just so they don’t feel like I’m any sort of threat.

We got to a corner and this dude standing outside of the bodega was like, “Slow down mama where you goin? You don’t have to work today, you can stop and speak.”

She didn’t break her stride. “I’m going to the gym.”  The Walk sign was on, so I didn’t break mine either.  

A block later, a young guy was coming toward us on the sidewalk riding his bike.

“What’s good shorty?”

She didn’t respond.

“Well you was lookin, you can say something, stuck up bitch.”

We kept walking.

In the middle of the next block, an older man was walking toward us and he put on a friendly smile and said, “Smile young lady, it’s a beautiful day.”

I don’t know if she smiled, but we kept walking. She went into the gym and I kept on toward where I was going thinking about how that was just five minutes of her day.  How many other blocks of five minutes are just like that?  

Only one of them was truly aggressive. The other two guys seemed nice enough and it felt more like a pleasant compliment. It felt like the kind of thing a guy says who argues with women online about catcalling. “We’re not all bad guys. We can’t even compliment women? We can’t even say something nice?”

No.  You really can’t.  I was annoyed in that five minutes and I just happened to be walking behind her with no headphones on.  Can you imagine those five minutes over and over every day of your life?  Nobody wants to be spoken to by strangers day in and day out forever regardless of what they’re saying.  

So no.  You can’t say anything. The quality of your life has not decreased because you aren’t allowed to say nice things to strange women on the sidewalk, but your silence greatly increases the quality of hers.  So just be quiet, and let her go where she’s going.

The quality of your life has not decreased because you aren’t allowed to say nice things to strange women on the sidewalk, but your silence greatly increases the quality of hers.  So just be quiet, and let her go where she’s going.

The quality of your life has not decreased because you aren’t allowed to say nice things to strange women on the sidewalk, but your silence greatly increases the quality of hers.  So just be quiet, and let her go where she’s going.

PREACH 

the older i get the more i can understand why people back in the old fairytale days would just fuck off and be a hermit in the woods. just chilling out in the middle of nowhere and occasionally telling random heroes cryptic shit. living the fucking dream.

@viudanegraaa @sabrecmc @a-salty-alto - MCU Steve’s best look?

Imma go with his outfit during the party in AOU

Thoughts?

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My uniform kink insists on Stealth Suit, but this is a Very Good Look ™.

The stealth makes me weak and I feel personally attacked every time I see it.

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That’s what I’m talking about…

@sabrecmc​ Exhibit B for uniform kink:

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TFA had some good looks… @kdm103020 the tight white shirt of transformation!

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Determined to represent this mood, especially that chest flex RIGHT THAR AT THA END

Yesssss!

@viudanegraaa​ another Good Look

An essential Look:

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I’m really fond of the shirt of Patriotic Bicep Flexing, it’s A Look.

can we just all agree that he looks amazing all the damn time

@cuz-tony-stark You present a very valid point

Can’t argue with that logic tbh

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This just keeps getting better and better…

The Captain Steve Rogers look is a fave.

And this list wouldn’t be complete without this addition from TFA:

Babe, I love you but we definitely forget this

Oh god this wasn’t the post I was looking for but damn. I’m glad I found it. Oh my god he’s so f***ing gorgeous!

Every single look on him is good!!!!

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straight vampires are so unrealistic

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imagine being heterosexual for all eternity.. pass

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Like vampires (in western Christian mythos) were supposed to embody everything that was rejected by Christianity into one fearsome creature therefore vampires are basically everything the church hates and therefore?? not straight

Feel like pansexual would be the most logical, like they stopped caring whether it was a “man” or “woman” after the first century

^^^ agree intensely

How To Wash Your Binder!

Hey everyone, just wanted to make this is show y’all how I wash my binder and as a reminder to wash your binder!

So first off, I like to wash my binders every third day (unless it was really hot that day or if I spilled something on it, then I wash it that day)

So first I fill the sink up with warm water and put my binders in the water. Then I like to let them just soak in the water for a few minutes!

So next I use a Landry cleaner and softener

I keep them in small tubs cause I don’t need the whole bottle.

Now I leave them to soak for a couple minutes

Now I’m using dove body wash to make it smell nice and feel a lot softer

Now I let that soak for a moment

After I scrub them I drain the warm water

And then rinse them off with cold water

If any of your water turns a weird color do not worry! It’s not because it dirty, it’s just the dye!

Then I squeeze them out the best I can by hand and then I leave them to hang like this for the night!

Hope this was helpful!?

To my trans followers.

Just in case I have any followers who would be helped by this

First of all, I could need this lmao. Second, IF ANY OF YOU HAS A BINDER, WASH IIITTT

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If you don’t wash em you can get really painful skin rashes ouo make sure you wash em!

For anyone who needs this 😊

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the first avengers was a lot funnier than we gave it credit for. I remember not knowing it was coming out until the week it happened. some scenes looked like they had budgets of $10 million. some scenes looked like they had budgets of $10. robin scherbatsky was randomly there. it was the third movie with RDJ and he still looked energetic to be in the franchise. 2012 black widow who was the only black widow we cared about. everyone’s drama about why mark ruffalo was there instead of edward norton. thor’s dumb haircut and dramatic entrance. steve roger’s gay ass outfit. chaotic good.  

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the blatantly plastic armor that Chris Hemsworth wears

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I’m watching this and laughing every other character had a major speaking role or their own movie and then Jeremy Renner is just trying his best

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JOSS WHEDON WHAT IS THIS DUMB ASS INSTAGRAM FILTER YOU USED IN AN ACTUAL MOVIE

oh god remember when all we cared about was shawarma?

Ohhhhh 2012

those were simpler times…

I miss those days

Zap me back

me: *works what is essentially a 40 hour work week FOR FREE between classes and my internship, tutors on top of that, then left a bag on the table and a laundry basket sitting in the living room for more than 3 hours*

mom: you do nothing in this house. you sit around and watch movies all day.

me: *gets mad because i literally am gone more than anyone else in this house and most definitely do not sit around all day watching movies*

mom: you’re not allowed to get mad. 

me: *reminds mom that the last time i had a day where i wasn’t either at my internship 20 miles away or tutoring 20 miles away was when i was running a 102 degree fever*

mom: no last weekend you did nothing

me:*reminds mom that i cleaned my room and wrote a paper for school last weekend*

mom: your sister needs us to clean the house for her. but i guess your homework is more important than that.

me: 

I relate on a personal level