Why do usians celebrate may the 5th? Do you even know what is celebrated in Mexico? Are you aware it has nothing to do with you tbh?
Some of my favourite selfies for TDOV!!! I used to get a lot of backlash for identifying with a nonbinary gender. I had longer hair and wore makeup and wore things with lace and flowers because I LIKE those things. But people think, to identify as any gender other than cis, you have to be androgynous. You have to cut off all your hair and wear clothes that are baggy and never put anything on your face and never wear wigs or jewelry or smile or wear dresses. So I began to listen to these people and I followed their rules thinking that was the right thing to do. Because even people from my own community were telling me these things. It caused me so much confusion and pain in the long run. I even identified as a gender I didn’t really identify as at one point because I thought that was what I had to be. The more time I spent pretending to be someone I’m not, the more I learned that I didn’t have to be. Nonbinary doesn’t = androgynous. I can like pretty things and be agender. I can find comfort and joy and interest in makeup art. I can wear my hair with curls with a bow. I can wear heals and flowers and I can rock skirts and dresses. Treating nonbinary genders as androgynous just pushes the idea that there are only two genders. And if you aren’t one of those two, you must be the other, no matter what you want to call it. I don’t personally think my fashion is necessarily void of gender. Because my fashion and gender aren’t “clashing”. I don’t think that my fashion is something I need to take away from my gender. Because my fashion fits my gender just fine. I’m agender, and there are no fashion requirements for my gender nor any other. fashion choices =\= gender
transitioning was the easiest decision I have ever made.
happy trans day of visibility! i wish all of my fellow trans and nb folk a good day and many many more to come!
{ his/him please ! }
Sister and Brother??
Happy transday of visibility! // Genderfluid guy
so the tokyo ghoul anime ended
All I do is drink coffee and say bad words
the saddest thing about this is that kaneki bullshitted his way saying he needed to get stronger in order to protect everyone important to him when really he just didn’t want to be left alone. and hide. oh god. hide felt exactly the same. he didn’t want to get left behind but watched as his best friend became friends with the people at anteiku. in the end he was the one who got left behind and was lonely. hide just wanted his friend back and kaneki didn’t want to be left alone. i fucking can’t with these two.



